Ask Becca Thread.

Well that's cool to get advice from a boy.

I can let my friend go because as you said he fucked me over and i don't deserve him because he's probably going to fuck me in many other ways in the future so it's not hard to get rid off him but it's my ex where I'm having difficulties to let go just because she really was my first girlfriend where i was able to share everything with and where i was able to talk about and do anything with so for you it's easy and for me it's really hard to be honest.

He made out with my ex girlfriend and they both allowed it though and so it hurt me really sad ( As in crying and what not you know what it is ) and in the second case it made me really mad that the reason why i fought with my friend & and he fucked me over and i don't like people who've been loyal to me so many years and just fuck me over all of a sadden.

And i don't hit girls because that's no respect to fight a girl and so i used words to describe how mad i was and how mad i still am but anyway she's the fool now because now she's feeling what I'm feeling because she had a boyfriend and he let her down and thought that she wasn't his type and so she felt what i felt and how mean it is it kind off made me happy.


Just going to say a hundred times that I'm really having difficulties moving on on the first girlfriend who i really cared about and she cared about me but in the end she didn't anymore and so she fucked me over and now she's experiencing the same pain that I'm having and therefrom she may learn.

No not at all you may want to come to my school and see what people there are here to be honest and i don't judge that false but half of the kids who are here on my school are imbeciles and I've not really found any good person in my school.

There was a boy who was constantly being bullied and had the exact same interests as i did on that school and we've talked mostly but he got bullied so much that he decided to go off and go to a other school where he thought that he wasn't going to get bullied anymore which is wrong but i don't really think he deserves to be bullied so i don't think it's good that he got bullied and bullied off school but he can't run away from them but anyway he was a kind-off friend of mine.

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i don't deserve him

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I think you meant that the other way round.

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He made out with my ex girlfriend and they both allowed it

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There you go. If your ex cared about you she wouldn't bother making out with someone else.

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i don't like people who've been loyal to me so many years and just fuck me over all of a sadden.

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Nobody does, but welcome to life. Where people fuck other people over in just a matter of seconds.

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so she felt what i felt and how mean it is it kind off made me happy.

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Another lovely part of human nature.

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Just going to say a hundred times that I'm really having difficulties moving on on the first girlfriend who i really cared about and she cared about me but in the end she didn't anymore and so she fucked me over and now she's experiencing the same pain that I'm having and therefrom she may learn.

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Moaning on this forum is definitely not going to help you. You've had plenty of advise in this thread and others, but you don't seem to process it. It's over, she fucked you over just as much as he did. If that doesn't make you hate her then what does it take? Getting back together isn't going to work so you just need to move on. Just start doing things you enjoy and you'll get over her in no time. And in general, stop discussing it as it only makes it worse.

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No not at all you may want to come to my school and see what people there are here to be honest and i don't judge that false but half of the kids who are here on my school are imbeciles and I've not really found any good person in my school.

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Special school?

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There was a boy who was constantly being bullied and had the exact same interests as i did on that school and we've talked mostly but he got bullied so much that he decided to go off and go to a other school where he thought that he wasn't going to get bullied anymore which is wrong but i don't really think he deserves to be bullied so i don't think it's good that he got bullied and bullied off school but he can't run away from them but anyway he was a kind-off friend of mine.

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So, maybe you should switch schools too? Or just join a chess club, sports club or start doing something people of your age do a lot (clubbing).

Thank you both for your advice and Help I've been thinking of going to a Gym school with my neighbor he's really nice so maybe I'm just going to work out.

Thank you both for your kind and well advice.

In future post advice directly to the person. This is an advice thread where I am posting it. It just gets messy with several people.

Dear Becca,

I have this girl on school that I'm really liking, and I try to get attention from her. But sometimes I do that in the wrong way and it makes me feel like she thinks that I'm a complete weirdo and that she doesn't see me standing.

( Well you know boys they mostly do the stupidest things to get the best out of it. )

I don't know if she likes me or ever will like me, because she does sometimes look at me and I look back at her as well that we're both really shy to talk so I don't really know what to do and if I should walk up to her or wait for her to come up for me.


She mostly sits with her friends in the breaks and I don't really have the balls to walk up to her to really say that I like her because I'm scared that she will turn me down.

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Dear Becca,

I have this girl on school that I'm really liking, and I try to get attention from her. But sometimes I do that in the wrong way and it makes me feel like she thinks that I'm a complete weirdo and that she doesn't see me standing.

( Well you know boys they mostly do the stupidest things to get the best out of it. )

I don't know if she likes me or ever will like me, because she does sometimes look at me and I look back at her as well that we're both really shy to talk so I don't really know what to do and if I should walk up to her or wait for her to come up for me.


She mostly sits with her friends in the breaks and I don't really have the balls to walk up to her to really say that I like her because I'm scared that she will turn me down.

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Grow a pair and just ask her. The worse that will happen is she will turn you down. What have you got to lose? nothing. You don't have her so you cant lose her. If you don't grow the balls and actually go and ask then you will never know if she likes you or not.

Thank you Becca.

School starts tommorow, so I'm going to either walk up to her and tell her and if she's with her friends then i may just take her apart and talk with her under 4 eyes


I've always been the shy type that the reason why i didn't really dare to walk up and talk but like you said get your shit together and just go for it and you may be the lucky one.

I'm very nervous of what she will say but on the other side accepting when she says no even though it comes on pretty hard.

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Thank you Becca.

School starts tommorow, so I'm going to either walk up to her and tell her and if she's with her friends then i may just take her apart and talk with her under 4 eyes


I've always been the shy type that the reason why i didn't really dare to walk up and talk but like you said get your shit together and just go for it and you may be the lucky one.

I'm very nervous of what she will say but on the other side accepting when she says no even though it comes on pretty hard.

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put it this way. if you do do that you find out if she is interested or not. Then you can stop waiting your time and efforts on someone who doesn't even like you like that.

Becca

Exactly, I've been waiting too be honest and I'm good to admit that and I'm sure that she does like me as much as i like her so I'm just gonna look what she's going tommorow.

Thank you.

Becca wry no more nekkid pixx????

Well, I guess I'll have a go.

Lately, I've been having trouble sleeping. As in, my mind is running all the time while trying to sleep. Thinking it was tied to me doing pretty much nothing, I've changed my routine, as I'm retaking some exams to get into a better Uni. So my schedule is pretty much wake up at 8 am, study till 2 pm, workout for an hour - 2, MMA class, work and afterwards just sitting on the comp till about 11pm. I mean, I feel pretty tired getting through the day, and coffee's been my savior thus far, but it's gotten to the point that it's having an impact on my mood and well being.

I just can't figure out why it's happening. I initially thought this was a result of me being physically inactive, as this has been happening ever since I left the army, so I decided to uphold a routine the same way I used to in the army. Now, my life has become a lot more structured, and I'm feeling better/more confident overall, but still hasn't had any impact on my sleeping issues.

I've just recently started a business, we've got a huge partnership deal, and it's been a lot to consume. I'm also moving out with a friend, and we're renovating the appartement, but it's taking unusually long and it's having an economical impact on me, so I've been thinking about that as well. However, what I think about the most is my carrier. Most of my peers have already started on their degrees, while the army set me back a year. My grades were good enough, but apparently I'm laking some pre-reqs, to attend the course I want to take. So I have to waste another year on that. I've always known what I wanted to do in life, from a pretty young age, as far as my education goes, so it's pretty messed up that I'm missing subjects I should've taken whilst in High school.

P.S: If someone's gone through similar issues, I would appreciate some feedback on how you coped with it. (PM's)

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Well, I guess I'll have a go.

Lately, I've been having trouble sleeping. As in, my mind is running all the time while trying to sleep. Thinking it was tied to me doing pretty much nothing, I've changed my routine, as I'm retaking some exams to get into a better Uni. So my schedule is pretty much wake up at 8 am, study till 2 pm, workout for an hour - 2, MMA class, work and afterwards just sitting on the comp till about 11pm. I mean, I feel pretty tired getting through the day, and coffee's been my savior thus far, but it's gotten to the point that it's having an impact on my mood and well being.

I just can't figure out why it's happening. I initially thought this was a result of me being physically inactive, as this has been happening ever since I left the army, so I decided to uphold a routine the same way I used to in the army. Now, my life has become a lot more structured, and I'm feeling better/more confident overall, but still hasn't had any impact on my sleeping issues.

I've just recently started a business, we've got a huge partnership deal, and it's been a lot to consume. I'm also moving out with a friend, and we're renovating the appartement, but it's taking unusually long and it's having an economical impact on me, so I've been thinking about that as well. However, what I think about the most is my carrier. Most of my peers have already started on their degrees, while the army set me back a year. My grades were good enough, but apparently I'm laking some pre-reqs, to attend the course I want to take. So I have to waste another year on that. I've always known what I wanted to do in life, from a pretty young age, as far as my education goes, so it's pretty messed up that I'm missing subjects I should've taken whilst in High school.

P.S: If someone's gone through similar issues, I would appreciate some feedback on how you coped with it. (PM's)

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You need to clear your mind. I have recently had the same problem. Stress does not help.
Stop all caffeine mid afternoon.
Get off pc, watching tv, ect an hour before you sleep.
Read a book!!!
Play a soundtrack in the background. I find listening to something.helps me sleep. Rain, seaside, motorways (surprisingly) all make me sleep right away.
Clean sheets, clean body (not saying your a dirty bastard....)


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Yeah, perhaps a book may help. I love reading, but I do all the reading on the computer. I guess I'll have to get myself a book then. Any recommendations? Please no Twilight. :)

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Yeah, perhaps a book may help. I love reading, but I do all the reading on the computer. I guess I'll have to get myself a book then. Any recommendations? Please no Twilight. :)

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Fuck twishite. Harry potter lol. I did a lot of photography books, so read something you will enjoy. It also looks good on your bookshelf lol.

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So I thought i'd give a crack at this. Here is my issue:

I was never challenged at school, (even in advanced placement), it was painful to go to school, like having to go through your A,B,C's for 8 hours a day 5 days a week. I started cutting class and learning things on my own, I practically made my own school on my computer. I always thought college would be more of a challenge but here's the catch. I only went to class when there was a test, or a project to turn in, not a very smart thing to do. Especially since I graduated with a 1.7 grade point average but an SAT score of 2300+. My grades didn't cut it for me for good colleges, and I ended up taking a crappy Technical Certificate in a crappy college for a year and a half. What can I do? What are my options?