Erm...That's explained in my introduction to this thread if you bothered even reading it.Quote:
Originally Posted by nuloki
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Originally Posted by JC/Raiden
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Erm...That's explained in my introduction to this thread if you bothered even reading it.Quote:
Originally Posted by nuloki
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Originally Posted by JC/Raiden
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Originally Posted by JC/Raiden
i Mean Not That Way of
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Originally Posted by JC/Raiden
i Mean Do U Help Cuz u Fell Good With u ? I Dont Think its Because u Care About The Others.. ( My Opinion). Or Cuz u Think ur Doing The Things in A Right Mode.?
The part which I've high lighted in bald & italic makes no sense to me whats so ever. But as for the rest of it, your basically spamming my thread by attempting to second guess my good intentions ? Well here's a news flash for you I honestly could not care less for your opinion because I've done nothing but give a 100% effort in to making this thread what it is, and my very in depth replies on each problem that's been posted on here proofs that.Quote:
Originally Posted by nuloki
Do not post here again now I've entertained you and your stupid questions/opinions, otherwise it's infraction City for you and your ignorance.
hey Raff, i just wanna ask (maybe this isn't that related, im not sure) but im wanting to eat more everyday... i mean, i walk around aimlessly, open the fridge, find nothing to eat, close the fridge, walk out, repeat... its a bit retarded... guess maybe i have nothing better to do. is there anyway to stop this... and im feeling hungry really quickly... i don't eat so much at one go nor can i do that. i am quite a slow eater too... any ideas?
Your a growing Teen mate it's important to feed your self when your body is telling you to, especially at your age as it's important to your development.Quote:
Originally Posted by yjlasher22
Having said that though the routine which you've described does kinda tell me that your also bored and need something to do. The best piece of advice I can give you is start to exercise regularly in which ever way you feel most comfortable. Make it a routine and do a few hours every day after school, as long as it isn't using Weights as you should weight till your 16 to use them.
So not only are you filling in more of your time so your less bored, but then you'll have more of an excuse to eat more like your wanting to because you'll need to replace the nutrients in your body that you've used during exercise.
I didn't get half of it but still I think you're rude. You look at this as if he does this to make himself feel better.Quote:
Originally Posted by nuloki
You don't think he does this to help others? As said; he is a gifted speaker and this is an opportunity for him to do something with it.
I say keep it up Raff! :thumbup:
So i've been firends with this female for about 6 years. I can easiely call her my best friend. We were interested in each other around when we first met. But something happened (that situation you look back on with a question mark over your head.) We stay very close so iv'e always been able to show up. to skip a long dumbass story.
It's going on our 7th year and i've watch her with boyfriend after boyfriend as she has watched me with female figures. But iv'e always had that small crush, but she always seem too immature. Now she has been really developing and it's amazing to see. Almost every time i see her i find myself more and mroe attracted.
Atm she has a bf that.... she has honestly said she doesn't care for him. Which i won't lie added abit of confidence on my part.
She is currently going through some problems with her family, and emoitional issues. do as i always do comfort talk to her, about it, and such. But she has plans on moving away. Where? she hasn't decided but knowing her it will be damn far. And i don't want her to go, but i can't live what i have going on now. I've been contimplating make the move at her. but i think all together makes a bad mix, and it won't end well.
Whats the advice Raff?
(:blushing:Pre thx)
Every word I speak on this thread doesn't hide the truth, so your right to feel concerned. Because it may just be to late to make that move on her. What you need to understand is Women think very differently to what we do, it's amazing how often when a male & female lock eyes with each other but there thoughts are so very different.Quote:
Originally Posted by michaelmnn
Your situation could be very well like this when you stare at her.
You => "I can't believe how gorgeous this girl is, I'd do anything for her" etc etc....
When she could be thinking this....
Her => "I'm so lucky to have such a caring loving friend that I can ALWAYS depend on"
Unfortunately my friend it's very possible for you to be in the place where you don't wanna be which is the "Friendship Zone". Once your there with a girl majority of the time it's impossible to get out of. Because while your thinking that you both should give a relationship a go, she'll be thinking she doesn't want to risk ruining what you both already have. Which is a close tite friendship.
After saying all this though it doesn't mean I'm telling you your fucked, I'm just letting you know what the greatest possibility is. But just like with everything my friend unless you say something and open your feelings to her then you'll always just forever wonder what could have been which doesn't play to well on your head believe me.
I think the most important thing to consider here though is her moving away, if shes going to be moving and along way away then you need to ask your self is there any point in putting the effort in to making something happen between us and possibly creating an unneeded awkward situation between you both if you both won't be able to work your relationship with the distance.
I hope I've been of help, your gonna have to make a choice based on what I've said.
I really appreciate the honesty and don't think i can do enough to thank you Raff.
Was kinda of afraid of that :blushing:, at ever point in time in a mans life you find yourself in the position of friend and fear no escape. I just never thought it would her who places me in the position. I'm currently trying to find a time i can sit down and talk about it, " thinking of the best way to put it" my expectations aren't that high. About anything said i'm trying to prepare myself for. But it never goes as planed, reality is a bitch like that i guess:thumbdown:
Again thank you alot, you are a very wise individual.
Maybe one of these days we could talk
Helloo again (: !
I have another problem this time.
here's the story.
There's a guy that is my friend,
two of his close friends borrowed my cellphone& deleted the guy off my phone book.
the guy& i have nothing going on, and i don`t even call the guy.
the problem is, well. i don`t know why they did it. i don`t even know the people.
the guy doesn`t have anything against me for sure.
x_x"!
thank you (:.
Always happy to help mate, thanks for your kind words :).Quote:
Originally Posted by michaelmnn
Erm lol. Dunno what to say actually because it isn't clear what your actually asking. If your trying to ask me why it is these friends of yours deleted your other friends number, then the only thing for it is to simply ask them why. Simple problems have simple answers and its best kept that way.Quote:
Originally Posted by xKathieee
Sorry about not replying earlier I've been a very busy bee!.
Hey Raff.
Could really do with some advice and help at the minute.
Here's my story.
I was dating this girl for 1 year, we got on well together and i mean well ;). Though, she lived miles away from me, and i could only afford to see her once a month. Things became between us when i felt i was being left out because all my buddies ditched me and went to become best friends with her. My friend's would only speak to her, not even say hi to me. I felt so alone. I stood up for her and everything, did what i could do to protect her but i just couldn't stand the way she treated me. She lies, she manipulated me, she did everything possible to make me upset and it worked. I fell in love with a bitch, a whore, a skank and i just couldn't let go of her because of what we had together. My heart was truly nailed into hers.
Until.. i finally broke it, i broke our relationship because i couldn't stand the way she just kept lying to me. It was unbelievable how many times she lied! Though, our spark was still there, we was still friends, texting everyday and i mean everyday! I sent over 19,000 text messages just to one phone in 4 months. Big, big bills.
Now, we have been off and on together, since we broke up, until, today she told me that her way of getting over me was having intercourse with other blokes. She might of moved on but i haven't, and i just don't know what i have to do. Yeah, moving on is the sensible choice but, i just don't think i can.
Only thing that was stopping me from doing stupid stuff was because of her.
The reason we was so close was because of my stupidity. I was going to be a dad before she had a miscarriage, but what really got me was how she 'miscarried'. She's a self harmer and when she knew she had a baby coming on its way, she punched herself in the stomach.
She keeps trying to call me at this very minute, i answered once and she said 'I'm sorry' but i replied 'No your not' and hung up.
I'm lost at the minute raff, need some advice real quick :'(
Wow, I was reading your story, and that's really close to home. I'm going through almost the exact same thing. I know what you should do, but this is Raff's thread, so I'll let him answer it. If you need more help, PM me mate.Quote:
Originally Posted by Suicide
Sorry Raff if this was off topic, it just happened to me, almost exactly like that too.
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From what you've told me I think it's safe to say this girl needs some counciling, and I'm not referring to the self-harming. Regardless of who you are anybody knows the risks that come with doing such a thing. But no girl that's quite all there upstairs would ever try to cause a miscarriage by punching her self in the stomach. I'm not saying shes crazy, but most likely very confused.
From a personal opinion while also using my own experience what's happened to you was probably the best thing that could ever happen to you. I wouldn't be supprised if you don't see that right now because your also feeling confused and more then likely conflicted with your own emotions.
This girl has put new definition in to abusing your trust, your love, your loyalty and no doubt many other things shes tried to exploit due to the strong feelings you have for her. I highly doubt she ever expected you to break up with her because of these feelings which is why shes telling you shes sorry. I mean heck, judging by her track record it wouldn't shock me to find out that she's also lieing about being sorry to because I think shes just a mind fuck.
This girl is so much bad news it's written all over her. This is the time in your "getting-over-her-period" when you need to start admitting and accepting the truth(s). By asking your self questions such as...
"Does she genuinely love me?"
"Does she respect me?"
"Can she be honest/faithful with me?"
And questions like these must be answered using factual evidence, meaning the relationship you once had together. Because if you answer these questions in any other way all your going to do is start fighting with your self because your heart will resent the truth out of false sense of comfort.
I'm sorry to be the one to have to tell you all this but you must move on. Paint your self a picture you've been in an emotionally abusive relationship, you've had to put up with so much pain and for what ? For some girl that's treated you exactly however she felt like while you've been rolling out the red carpet for her. You break up with her because of all the crap shes put you through and while your still in emotional torment inside due to the break up she's fucking sleeping with other guys because its helping her get over you ? I hope you understand where I'm going with this...
Not only that she clearly has issues that she needs to seek some help for because the things she's done is bluntly wrong. I'm the type of guy that always tries to see the good in everybody because that's just the way I am, but people like her are impossible.
Please believe me when I say....Once you've taken that first important step in to getting over her the rest of the "recovery" becomes so much easier, you must take that first step. The faster you get away from this girl the better, and I can place a wager on that you ignoring her will attract her more in to getting your attention back. Your the man, you have the penis so put your foot down once and for all and tell her how it is.
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Originally Posted by JC/Raiden
it`s okay ;D
well, i don`t know the girl that deleted my friend`s number. ifi try talking to her, she gives me a dirty& cold look. i don`t even know her& i doubt she knows me. D': .