Does being a Virgin matter for boys?

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Originally Posted by mumbles

It's important to me but then I guess as you get older the likelyhood of you meeting a virgin your age decreases! My first love was a virgin before me and I loved knowing that but then the girl I was with after had been with more than her fair share (to put it mildly) and it was pretty off-putting once I found out!

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that's one of the things that bugs me [im not aiming this directly at u, just in general :P] - if a guy sleeps with x amount of people, he's considered a stud and people seem to be impressed that he fucked 20 girls in 3 days...
...but if a girl sleeps with the same amount of people, she's considered a whore and everyone's disgusted that she fucked 2 guys in a week.

lots of men say "oh, i only want a virgin", but why isnt it the other way around? if a woman saves herself for the right man, why dont men save themselves for the right woman? for most guys i know, its like a race to see who can lose their virginity first, but for girls, we seem to be more choosy about who we have sex with, probably to do with that "knight in shining armour" ideal


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I agree with what people here are sayin, in taht if i really cared about a girl it wouldnt affect things at all really, but at the age of 20 serious relationships the last thing on my mind, after tasting a "serious" relationship i decided sleeping arounds the way forward, and until i meet that right someone i'll always prefer a girl that knows what they're doing thats all.

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Originally Posted by Piasa

that's one of the things that bugs me [im not aiming this directly at u, just in general :P] - if a guy sleeps with x amount of people, he's considered a stud and people seem to be impressed that he fucked 20 girls in 3 days...
...but if a girl sleeps with the same amount of people, she's considered a whore and everyone's disgusted that she fucked 2 guys in a week.

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I appreciate that and it's each to their own but I prefer the girls I'm with to not have slept around too much because I don't sleep around (believe it or not, there are men who don't!). For me, my first time was a big deal and with the ex who hadn't been with anyone before I hoped it was for her. I didn't imagine us splitting up and that's one thing you can't account for. But yeah I agree with what you are saying, if a girl is to be labelled, then guys who do the same should be too.

I would only have sex with a virgin if I really cared about her.

Im not into religion or crap but I do think the first time its very important and should include lots of love and tenderness...

There is a big difference between Sex and Love Making :)

/Romance

If it's a shag I don't know why it should matter. If it's someone you really care for then if you were her first and you know she was saving it for a reason it makes you feel all the more special and important. That's my case and the jealous person I am, knowing she hadn't been sleeping around makes things easier for me. Probably even then it wouldn't matter if she weren't the sweetheart she is. :wub:

well tbh it does matter at some point.
i lost my virginity with an experianced girl.
and i had sex with a couple of virgins.
and tbh i tell you if you feel for the girl it does not matter with who she was or where or how.
for me what matters is to make her happy

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Originally Posted by Piasa

that's one of the things that bugs me [im not aiming this directly at u, just in general :P] - if a guy sleeps with x amount of people, he's considered a stud and people seem to be impressed that he fucked 20 girls in 3 days...
...but if a girl sleeps with the same amount of people, she's considered a whore and everyone's disgusted that she fucked 2 guys in a week.

lots of men say "oh, i only want a virgin", but why isnt it the other way around? if a woman saves herself for the right man, why dont men save themselves for the right woman? for most guys i know, its like a race to see who can lose their virginity first, but for girls, we seem to be more choosy about who we have sex with, probably to do with that "knight in shining armour" ideal


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Just FYI...that Picture is now my new MSN avatar :P. Im serious rofl.

It's more like men want to spread their seed.
A woman takes time to choose a man, because she will be the one to carry a baby. Not that she'll have one(if she doesn't want one of course), just that they get the pain and have to carry the child.
It's pure nature, that men want to spread their seed and woman are really picky.
They look for different things, what's best for the baby, best genes.
It's all really simple. There are 6 really important genes, if both parents have the same gene(Yes atleast one, 1) the baby will most likely have some problems, mentaly or physically.

It's all instinct and Discovery channel.

you look forward to the 1st time you have sex. if the girl your guna do it wiv has alredy dunit its scary. just knowing that sum1 elses sperms have dripped out of her pussy makes you cringe if you love the girl. your mind would have alot more time to think of nice things if there was nothing bad to think about an you could love the girl more.

virginity is special. having the option to make both your 1st times really really special is gr8 or even not having pre marital sex its up2 you 2 then.

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Originally Posted by D1craig

just knowing that sum1 elses sperms have dripped out of her pussy makes you cringe if you love the girl

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Yeah that's the picture that disgusts me. As if someone had dumped their trash on the pure little girl. Somehow I kind of see it as a violation towards her. Use her and throw her away. Even worse to realize she liked it. Peniswise it hardly matters, but emotionally yes.

Well everyone thinks differently about this. Maybe it's just that I'm somewhat inexperienced myself, only 4 girls in my life, maybe I'd think otherwise if I'd had a bigger share before her, but this is now. So fortunate I don't need to carry that thought. :trumpet:

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Originally Posted by Piasa

that's one of the things that bugs me [im not aiming this directly at u, just in general :P] - if a guy sleeps with x amount of people, he's considered a stud and people seem to be impressed that he fucked 20 girls in 3 days...
...but if a girl sleeps with the same amount of people, she's considered a whore and everyone's disgusted that she fucked 2 guys in a week.

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Not entirely true, men also have to face a certain amount of ridiculle from their peers if they have been found sleeping with one too many ugly girls, and only the inexperienced ones tend to look up to someone who has 'shagged his fair share', to put it mildly, although there does seem to be less talk then when a women does the same thing.

But then again, in my opinion being able to sleep with many girls without being thought bad of is only a compensation for having to work so much harder to actually do it. If a woman wants to fuck someone and she's not too ugly all she has to do is go to a bar, get someone drunk and kiss him right on the spot - not many men tend to turn away ;) Whereas if a man does that he'll usually get an emberassing moment when she walks away, or worse when she slaps him (I've seen it happen a few times, quite funny to watch really :icon6:).

Personally, I PREFER a girl with some experience, both for a shag as well as a relationship. It means she knows what she's doing (which is not something that comes natural for most girls) and more importantly she knows what to expect from other men - this means she's far less likely to get curious halfway trough a relationship and cheat on you. Think of it this way: imagine you like a certain kind of food, pizza for example, and you've never had any other kind. Now what would you do if there was all this stuff like hot dogs and pie's etc walking around, wouldn't you be curious?

For me goes, I KNOW whats out there. I've had more then my fair share of women (3 of them virgins before they met me, too) and I know now what is going to work and what is not. Ofcourse its not just sex, but once you've had a few relationships you tend to know what you like in a person. If the same goes for your partner and still she wants to be with you, the chance she actually stays with you is far bigger then when she merely finds you interesting but doesn't really know what she wants - something that has happened to me several times already.

Not to mention virgins tend to be virgins because its a godawfull lot'a work to get them to let you fuck them :icon6:

Emhh well I think sleep with a virgin make the things special, it must be low and soft... well for me the virginity is relevant coz sleep with a virgin is really boring... I prefer exp girls... no super exp... but with 1 exp at least.

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To me...yes.

Being a virgin does matter, i don't know why yet but..i guess ill find out when i get married or what not.

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Originally Posted by Kyle

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and I think an addition to your spamming/double-posting sig is in order ;).
ti me I'd like a girl who hasn't had any sex, because I really don't want to know where else her pussy's been if it's not just me ;_;

This is probably the weirdest thread on here. In my opinion, virgins are only sought after because they are rare. Unless ofcoarse theres people here who like seeing blood durring sex. Virgins aren't tighter than the average girl who doesn't have sex often.

What i think the creator of this thread meant to title this thread "Good girls vs. Sluts, who likes loose pussy?". I mean come on, lets be honest here, the average girl loses her virginity at what? 14-16? (depending on looks). That means, that the odds of finding a -legal- virgin are slim to none. But back to my point, if its a tight pussy you're looking for, find a good girl (i hear they hang out late after school and in libraries), and try and get her to put out. As i said before, good girls are just as tight as virgins, without the blood (Also lesbians who don't use dildos often).

As far as guys go...I see it as a race, first guy to lose his virginity in high school gets bragging rights and the ability to bust a nut on some hotties' face :). Sure, it might not feel as good till about the age of 18 or so...but who gives a fuck, men are born addicted to pussy (except the pillowbiters @_@).

As long as you all got what you wanted.. it doesnt matter..

I Bet The Gatekeeper Likes Women With The Pussy Tightness Equivelant To A Wizards Sleeve, Or A Clowns Pocket.

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Originally Posted by DonTonberry

I Bet The Gatekeeper Likes Women With The Pussy Tightness Equivelant To A Wizards Sleeve, Or A Clowns Pocket.

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was that called for? or even mature?

besides thats just nasty, all...cold and dry*shutters* ugh

Me And Gatekeeper Are Good Friends. And You Misunderstand Me - When Someone Has A Pussy Like A Wizards Sleeve, It's Mean Instead Of Fucking Her Your Better Off Wearing Her As A Hat.

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Originally Posted by DonTonberry

Me And Gatekeeper Are Good Friends. And You Misunderstand Me - When Someone Has A Pussy Like A Wizards Sleeve, It's Mean Instead Of Fucking Her Your Better Off Wearing Her As A Hat.

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Id have gone with Ms Crabtree from south park, so big you could live inside her :D

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Originally Posted by DonTonberry

Me And Gatekeeper Are Good Friends. And You Misunderstand Me - When Someone Has A Pussy Like A Wizards Sleeve, It's Mean Instead Of Fucking Her Your Better Off Wearing Her As A Hat.

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hell yeah :p I like my women like I like kiske's outfit in Lineage2: loose and saggy :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by Catch22

was that called for? or even mature?

besides thats just nasty, all...cold and dry*shutters* ugh

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lol with a dead beaver. Don wouldn't have said that if he didn't know me....I think :eh:
:remembers his Genryu impression: *falls over laughing*

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Originally Posted by Robert

Id have gone with Ms Crabtree from south park, so big you could live inside her :D

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The fake Kenny did die in there though, lol...

lol! this was such a serious thread until DTB's comment :P

i hate having sex with virgin girl.. it is fucking boring...

it is not like they know how to do it.