Girl Issues

[Mike]

I dated this girl for a year exactly. I thought I was in love with her, and whatever. Anyways, at the start of our relationship, like in the first month, she cheated on me, and I let it slide. About four months in, she went to a movie with another guy, and held his hand the whole time, and they went in a photo booth and felt each other up and all kinds of stuff. I broke up with her over that, but we made up a few weeks after.

Anyways, we made it to the eleven month point, and I had to move to New York. We decided we'd try long distance. Lots of other girls came onto me, and there was one who kissed me. I told my girlfriend back home about it, and she broke up with me for it. I didn't even kiss her back!

So for a while, when we had broken up, I was all hung up on her still, trying to get her back, while she's trying to convince me to move on and whatever. So last week I was visiting my hometown, and I saw her. She came onto me, and started kissing me, and kept trying to make out (yeah, I wouldn't make out with her.. I just let her give me pecks on the cheeks and whatever).

And before I saw her, she had been doing shit with other guys, just so you know. Which is why I decided to move on.

Anyways, we had a good day when I saw her when I was visiting. So I aske dher to hang out again two days later. After she's done touching me, kissing me, all kinds of stuff, she decides to tell me all about her other guy friends. Which she later tells me was a hint that she didn't want me anymore, and was using me so she could 'have some fun' while I was there.

Now, I'm finally moving on and stuff, and last night I was on MSN. She came on, and started talking, insulting me. She likes to do this a lot now. So she was telling me all about her other guys, and how good of a girl she is, and how bad I am. I told her to leave me alone, and that I'm trying to forget her. After, out of nowhere, she goes:

"Meet me outside your grandparents on the 31st. I'm going to give you back a box of your shit (ring, necklase, bear, rose, pictures.. (that I bought for her)), oh, and if you're not there, your grandparents will be very angry with you."

So I ask her what she's going to do, and she said if I'm not there, then I'll find all of my presents that I had given her in the past broken on my lawn, their house 'fucked up', things broken outside.. etc. (she has lots of senior friends who live around there)

I guess I'm just going to grab my shit, and tell her to leave.. She's just trying to make my life harder. She gets jealous when I start liking other girls.

What should I do about her? Should I just let her do her little stunt, and call the cops?

My grandparents have a one hundred thousand dollar (or over) RV (camper), and she even threatened to do stuff to that. What the hell is wrong with her? I asked her why she'd do stuff to my grandparents to hurt them, and she says "well.. I'm not flying to NY to do stuff to your house, so hopefully this will make them mad at you."..

She keeps telling me that she enjoys doing this, and it makes her feel much better about herself.

Suggestions, comments..?



Sorry for the long read.

Oh, and she tells me it's all my fault for cheating, and not fighting hard enough for her back after we broke up. I did everything for her to try to get her back.

[MentaL]

[EliteGM]

She's bluffing maan.

[Mike]

No, she would actually do it.

Hey, just checked my e-mails. I forgot I didn't delete that picture she sent me.. She sent me a few pictures of herself naked. It was to "surprise me" a while back. How much trouble would you get in for destroying property, and for sending nudes?

[Savage]

Well, you should probably just go to your grandparents house to cancel out any risky business. If you go there, try and talk things out smoothly and let her know you're moving on, and you don't want to associate anymore.

Also, let's see them nudes!!

[Mike]

Yeah, I kind of want my stuff too. There was a lot of value in that stuff. I'm still debating what to do.

No nudes for anyone. :p

[Tyler]

Lol, you could always do what this guy did.
http://www.ihatestacy.com/

[Mike]

Then I'd be in trouble. I'm not looking to give them out. I just want a way to solve this, and worse comes to worse, I have something to get her in trouble with.

I never even asked her for those. She sent them on her own will.

[King Grub]

Show the police that she's been treating you and her parrnets might yell at her and she will be a good girl! :D hurray!

when this is over, pm the pictues ok? kthx

[Rishwin]

Threatening to cause property damage and blackmailing is illegal, and should be dealt with as such. Contact the Police and tell them that she has, via instant messaging, threatened a family members property and possessions if you did not agree to meet with her (which is blackmail).

A cyber-squad will be handed the case, and they will track down the IP to confirm that the threat did indeed originate from her home. That is enough for a warrant to be issued.

[Madison]

I agree about the police involvement. If you really believe she would do that, then you should take it to the police. Your grandparents don't deserve to have their things messed with, they are not involved, It doesn't matter what you did or didn't do.

Also you should just block her. She's making some desperate moves for attention, its kind of sad, but she needs to grow up. You need to get away from it because it wont get better. I saw my coworkers exwife do all these crazy threats and stalking shit before she finally left him alone, it drug out for a while, you don't want that in your life no matter how much you think you loved her. It wouldn't be a healthy relationship.

[Mike]

Thanks guys. I might just get my stuff though. I'll grab it, and tell her to leave. It's all that she wants.

If anything happens though, I will call the police.

Can IMs be recovered from iloveim.com? I wasn't using the standard MSN applicaiton. I was on that web one.

[EliteGM]

I don't know about that website. Email them?

[Mike]

So she called me up and was crying and stuff, and told me to unblock her for a second, so I did. Anyways, after our conversation, we blocked each other again, and I sent her an e-mail.

Keep me blocked, but listen up Jena, you need to grow up. You need to stop threatning me.

Blackmail + destruction of property + nude photos are all illegal. So I suggest you don't touch their property, or I'll just report you. My grandparents didn't do anything to you, so keep them out of your problems, don't blame them for your issues with me.

You know my address and my ZIP code. You can send the stuff there (to my New York home) if you want. I do not want to see you for the rest of my vacation here. I'm trying to have a good time here, not be harrased by you.

Have a nice life,
Michael.

P.S. This is not my fault at all. I cheated once, you cheated too hun. I didn't even kiss the girl back. If you want to be a bitch about it, then that's cool, but just leave me alone.

I think she got the point that I want her out of my life from our last conversation. And I think she's scared to come near their house now. I informed her that everything she's doing is illegal.

[.Yoss.]

So she called me up and was crying and stuff, and told me to unblock her for a second, so I did. Anyways, after our conversation, we blocked each other again, and I sent her an e-mail.



I think she got the point that I want her out of my life from our last conversation. And I think she's scared to come near their house now. I informed her that everything she's doing is illegal.

She is selfish and has low self-esteem. She is an egotistical bitch that can't stand it when other guys ignore her because she wants full control over everyone (especially guys, because when she has attention from all the guys the other girls will treat her like a god). It won't be a surprise if she becomes a soccer mom when she 'grows up'.

Get rid of that shit and forget about her, idc how you do it but just do it.

[Mike]

She is selfish and has low self-esteem. She is an egotistical bitch that can't stand it when other guys ignore her because she wants full control over everyone (especially guys, because when she has attention from all the guys the other girls will treat her like a god). It won't be a surprise if she becomes a soccer mom when she 'grows up'.

Get rid of that shit and forget about her, idc how you do it but just do it.

I'm thinking the exact same thing. But she's out of my life now. She's blocked, and she can't even call me in New York, so once I leave Canada, I'm home free. :)

Odd, before I blocked her, she signed on, and changed her personnal message to " - mm <3". My initials are MM. She always does that when we fight and she wants me back. Unless she met another MM, in which case, great, she'll finally leave me alone.

Oh well, I didn't stick around to ask what it meant. Thanks guys.

[WulfgarXX]

BTW, how old is she ?

She sounds just like my ex, but just not that extreme.

[Mike]

She's only 15.

[WulfgarXX]

LOL!

Sorry, but you shouldn't be giving yourself headache over this, it's nothing.

She's acting all pre-maturely, there's nothing but words behind her treaths.

Go live your life, go find another girl, or more than one :D, and just forget that she's even alive.

[Mike]

I know it's nothing. I was only concerned about the property damage.

[WulfgarXX]

I know it's nothing. I was only concerned about the property damage.

You have the chat logs for that conversation ? If you do, print them out, and keep them close by.

Her treaths are nothing but something to gain attention with, also called "attention whore".

You told her you got enough on her to give her a hard time with the police.
If she's half as smart as she should be, she'd catch the hint.

[Mike]

I do not have them, I will probably have to send an e-mail to ILoveIM.com to get them. That's fine though, she's pretty scared already.

[WulfgarXX]

You should do that, it's better to have them than totally forgetting about it.

[Superfun]

Msn chatlogs are effidence in a police case, go to the police, let them learn the hard way.
or murder

[DarK_DeStiNeDZ]

Mike, you have friends in RaGEZONE. :D
Though we cant give you 100% of what you need, but we can atleast try :D
Alot of girls are out there,
learn from your mistake. :)

[Pieman]

What the fuck is up with America that you have all the batshit insane girls and sluts? This wouldn't happen here in a million years.

Anyway, rape her. Should solve the problem.