Girl problems

[omerta]

isnt fingering 3rd base?

[Evilkitten]

balls, if i went up to a random girl and offered her a hug or a diamond ring 99% wud take the ring. we live in a very materialistic world.

I am not the biggest fan of diamonds that why when we go married I specify asked for small or not at all.

I love hugs tons more then a diamond ring. Hey, when NoPeace proposed to me, didn't wear it for ages. I hugged him mostly =P

isnt fingering 3rd base?

I always have trouble with this,

1st- kissing
2nd- fingering
3rd - Oral
Home run- Sex

Something like that Oo

[Ron]

Well we had a nice long talk about everything. I told her exactly how I felt. I said I wanted it to happen but I didn't want it to happen so soon. To my surprise, she said the same thing. She said she wanted to take our relationship more seriously but not this soon. She said what happened made her feel like a whore because of how fast it happened. We've decided to take things a lot slower from now on. We both have interest in being together after high school so we're going to try not to let something similar happen again.

Thanks a lot to you guys that posted serious replies. They helped me out a lot.

[omerta]

gratz on that ron. a whore wudnt need half a movie to get things going and wud go further than a few fingers

also quote from wiki

* First base is commonly understood to be French kissing.[4][5]
* Second base usually refers to fondling or groping, especially of the breasts (sometimes summarized as "hands in the blouse"), and possibly stimulation of the genitals from outside of the clothing.[4][5]
* Third base used to mean heavy groping or fondling on genitals or breasts.[5] But recently some observers have noted that young people regard oral stimulation of one person's genitals by his or her partner as just another form of heavy petting. Hence, oral sex is now widely regarded as the new third base.[4]
* Home run (or "Hitting it out of the park", "scoring", "going all the way" etc.) is orgasm or sexual intercourse.[4][5]

[Iron Maiden]

Ok I can explain that a little better:

Buying stuff just for the sake of buying her stuff doens't show that you love her. What you are talking about is being thoughtful, even you have to agree you could be thoughtful without buying her stuff. (Making her favorite dinner, or a cd of songs that remind you of her, or writing her a song/poem, etc)

There's a big difference to me between buying a girl her fav cd because you know its her favorite, and buying one for the sake of givinig her something. Anything you put thought into becomes something else. Also if it is backed up by your other actions, its totally different.


And you're probably right about the insecurity, although not in every case. Of course we don't know this girl or why she is upset, I was just giving some reasons why (if in that sitation) I might be upset. - and at 15 I was very insecure, although not a cheater, in fact exactly the opposite: I was faithful to a fault.

Anyway Becky's right, being honest is the best thing. Honesty is so rare it seems.

Serves me right for trying to respond to a post while waiting for my ride to lunch.

Sorry to say but your not a female. Female's like the free things in life, like holding her, giving her a kiss, giving security and just plain out spending time together. Sure getting things are great but that's all it is, it doesn't necessary show you love her, it shows you spent some money and that is all. I know many girls that I talk to say the same thing. O.O

Gah, I give up...no point arguing with a woman about this...I'll never win. And, with my experience with women, you gals tend to confuse us guys with your ever changing emotions. It makes it impossible to argue with y'all whenever y'all do that.

[Player07]

@Iron Maiden-Especially during that time of the month...It's either get the fk outta my face or die x.X

@omerta-wiki..hahaha! Has such vast resources don't you agree? Everything and anything can be find.

[Jare]

I'm 17, but the gf and I don't have any regrets about what I did when I was 15. Give it time, like the first reply says.

[Jare]

@Iron Maiden-Especially during that time of the month...It's either get the fk outta my face or die x.X

@omerta-wiki..hahaha! Has such vast resources don't you agree? Everything and anything can be find.

Ahah. I can't even talk to the gf for a few days during her period. Between the cramping and PMS, scary business. x_x