good news or bad news?

[Evilkitten]

I dont know wether to be overjoyed or feel disappointed but one thing is for sure the timing could have been better.

about 5 months my parents split up and filed for divorce and of course my dad moved out. He moved down to london about month later after quitting his job to live with Polly, his new girlfriend. which he was cheating with since november last year since my aunties 40th birthday. i didn't know about it until januray when my grandfather died.

but anywayz, they have decided to get married as soon as the divorce go thru but of course due to my mother's revengeful wayz i must keep a secret until. first surpise right there.

That isn't what it making me feel down because it was obvious anyways but this is the thing which i wish he would time better but i have recently found out that Polly is pregnant which means I will be having a half brother/sister by next year.

the thing which really gets me is i shouldn't even know a thing about the pregnacy which means my own dad is keeping secrets from me. i want to know everything about it like when it due, how long they known for etc. mainly i would want to know is when was they proposing to tell me about it, before or after it was born.

bah.. i dont know what i want to do, i really want to break the ice and say something now but i hate saying things out of place or at the wrong time. help>.<

[MentaL]

[MentaL]

congrats on sister/bro sorry about the complication

[NoPeace]

That sucks big time. Hope everything works out for you.

Nopeace - out

[Rocz]

my advice would be do say to ur dad 'so whens the baby due?', because he cant go mad at you for knowing can he? and surly he'll be happy about it?

[Becky]

It's hard to say. It's always good news to hear of a new life being brought into the world, but the whole situation reeks of complication. Sounds like your dad had one of those "mid-life crisis" thingies to me. Has he been treating you differently (I would imagine if he didn't tell you about the baby)?

My best wishes to you, stuff like this is truly a blessing and hardship at the same time.

[darkrayne]

That's horrible! >.<

I hope that everything gets better soon... and your parents start telling you everything... :(

Good luck!!

[b1zn4tch]

:( that sucks

just tell your dad about how you feel, and have just you and him talk about it.

[rage_man]

Don't worry, good times for you will come

[Elessar]

That isn't what it making me feel down because it was obvious anyways but this is the thing which i wish he would time better but i have recently found out that Polly is pregnant which means I will be having a half brother/sister by next year.

Wow, that's gotta give you some interesting emotions... prolly end up with boobs and a penis... kids already screwed up and he/she/it's not even born yet...

I guess the best wat to bring it up, is in a phone message... like when you KNOW he won't answer, call his phone and leave a message... so it gives you a bit more freedom in what you say... and it gives him time to think about what he's gonna say, incase he flips out. I hope your dad's okay, because what he did isn't right. Something's gotta be wrong with him... I also hope that whatever your mom does teaches your dad a lesson :P but isn't horrible, like getting him drunk and giving him AIDS or summit... but most of all i hope the best for you. You seem to be handling it all pretty well, i'd probably be like "WTF!?" and screw up my life... so good job, and remember we're all here for you

[Hybr!d]

The best thing i can think of is to talk to your Dad and sort all this out!! Tell him how you feel and what you want to know and hopefully he would tell you what he knows!!

[Silveron]

best thing is to actually meet with him, and if you are close with Polly talk to her.Since it seems you are interested in whats going on, you should find out.But dont get too persistant 'cause your father might have some um...i dont know the word, i guess "hesitation".I guess things will clearn up after the devorce is final.
Anyways, grats for you future sis/bro and sorry to hear about your parents spliting up