Honestly enough is enough!

[Repthon]

Greetings,

I made this thread because the topic of bullying is really bothering me. Every single day i see more than 1000 posts about bullying and what could happen, I've seen it so many times that i memorize it. Yes I am against bullying but i just can't stand the fact that its everywhere. Recent bullying which bothered me the most is of the girl Amanda Todd which flashed her tits on webcam with some friends and the guy took a picture of it and threatened her and later on she suicides.

Bullied Canadian teen leaves behind chilling YouTube video - CNN.com

My comment on this incident is that it is totally and 100% fault of the girl and i don't blame the parents here for trusting their daughter to be on the internet. She overused her freedom to deserve respect.

I believe that someone with a strong personality will never get bullied and your personality depends on the environment, house and parents you live in and you grew up with. When you see a kid getting bullied you definitely realize that his parents are not that good at teaching him what to do in life and he obviously isn't confident. As most of you may know i live in Dubai and IRMU calls me a "dubian feg" i see lot of people her getting bullied but they don't even care about the bullys they just look at them and laugh because they were raised right and correct me if i am wrong that suicides from bullying happens in america 98% of the time?

Its definitly a problem with the society or the parents which is likley to be 95% the parents because bully's were not raised in the right way and people getting bullied were not even raised in the right way either.

[MentaL]

[MentaL]

How much of the general media are reporting that the girl who killed herself was a cam wh0re? Someone posted on 4chan some autopsy pictures of her but unsure if they are real. Bullying will exist for ever and nothing will stop it. Same in the animal kingdom. Civilization is based on hierarchy.

[404]

Amanda Todd, fuck her. She flashed her tits, got punished. Slept with a guy who had a girlfriend, got punished. She deserved every single bit of what has happened to her.





So fucking wrong..

[Zaruna]

I don't really see how anyone could deserve this. Looks to me that a kid made a couple of mistakes and the guy used that to fuck her over. What 15 year old takes the time to think about the shit he/she does, what 15 year old is strong enough to handle crap like this? They already moved, the guy went on. Internet messed up people, every guy trolls, annoys, acts like hes all that when in real life they're probably the ones that get bullied. Internet is full of fake people, but it takes time to realise that, she found out the hard way.

[Caustik]

Its her fault for being a total idiot and flashing. Also, 15 year olds have a brain (in most cases) and surely they know what they're doing?

Also, if someone's bullying you and you've tried everything, you castrate dat motherfucker

[Zaruna]

Like I said, she made a mistake. Who would think it could go this far though? The dude shared it with everyone. Alot of people would think at one point enough is enough, and act on that. But a 15 year old girl that get bullied by almost everyone she knows?

I don't have any kids, but if this happend to one of my sisters, don't care what she did I would make it stop doesn't matter how. So I wonder what her parents been doing all this time, the video was a stupid call, made her look weak and thats just more reason to keep going.

[Repthon]

I don't really see how anyone could deserve this. Looks to me that a kid made a couple of mistakes and the guy used that to fuck her over. What 15 year old takes the time to think about the shit he/she does, what 15 year old is strong enough to handle crap like this? They already moved, the guy went on. Internet messed up people, every guy trolls, annoys, acts like hes all that when in real life they're probably the ones that get bullied. Internet is full of fake people, but it takes time to realise that, she found out the hard way.

The 15 year old strong to handle this is the 15 year old that would flash her boobs on webcam. I have no pity or regret felt for her because she doesn't deserve it. If it was my sister that would flash her boobs on webcam and she is only 15, ill kill her before she suicides.

[Zaruna]

I see it still as 1 mistake made, it's nothing horrible she did, she should've known this could happen, yes. But saying she deserves the bullying that went on for months or losing her life over? ofcourse not.

[Jash]

She was in the headlines of my country's national paper today o.o

[GohanSSJ]

My comment on this incident is that it is totally and 100% fault of the girl and i don't blame the parents here for trusting their daughter to be on the internet. She overused her freedom to deserve respect.

Amanda Todd, fuck her. She flashed her tits, got punished. Slept with a guy who had a girlfriend, got punished. She deserved every single bit of what has happened to her.

What the fuck is wrong with you 2, get your heads examined, this is beyond retardation.

I'm the last one to join the drama of someone suiciding, but comments like these are truly fucked up and completely idiotic.

You 2 are saying she is to blame for all of this, you are blaming a girl who was probably like 13 at the time of the picture, deserved to be treated in such a way? Aside from girls being highly influential at that age and thus cannot be judged in such a major way, there is no way you can blame how others treated her in that way.

Not to mention that most of us have private pics/videos of girls/women, I know I got my share bit of them. Yes I could ruin their life, I could follow them around on the internet, send it to all their friends etc and basically be a fucking retard. Is that the girls fault for sending me them? No, that's who we are, it's part of life.

She shouldn't have flashed, hell no one should flash, and if you ever have sex, then make sure the person you have sex with doesn't have a camera or anything hidden, make sure you are awake before the other person so no pics can be taken while asleep, also make sure you can assassinate that person incase they tell others about your adventure. Who knows, you might keep your sexuality and everything related in check and no one will ever know anything.

Regardless what you think of her actions, this was a young and vulnerable girl and some twisted individual decided to abuse that vulnerability and ruined her life, it's that twisted individual who deserved all of the things she deserved.


So guys, really, gtfo, stop being so retarded, I'm ashamed to be the same species as you 2.

[Robert]

Parents fault for not having decent parental control options on her PC. Seriously, if it was made so kids can only use PCs for school work until they are 16+ (or mature enough not to do stupid shit) so many problems would instantly go away. If the kid is clever enough to hack past the child locks, then they are most likely mature enough not to give a shit what people say on the internet. 90%+ of the time, it's the parents fault for not researching stuff before letting their kids use tech. Same goes for sexting in schools, find a fucking parental control app. Having issues with kids looking at porn? Parental control options! don't go and fucking lobby government to censor the entire internet to make it easier for you.

Plus on a personal note, the internet would be a much better place if all the kids were blocked from any non-educational site (unless they have an adult watching over them). It may seem hypocritical as I used it as a kid, but then I'd have cracked it anyway (which I'd bet on 90%+ of this sites kid population doing, lol).

I was bullied at school. Are you saying that was my fault? If you are, seriously fuck you you fucking stupid cunt. Kids have always been twats to each other, it is the responsibility of schools to stop it (which never happened at my school). It was a very dark time for me and I've repressed most of my childhood now, I recently found out that half my school had a bet on that I'd kill myself. So yeah, I don't see how that nastiness was my fault. I've forgiven them now as I know kids will be kids, but I'll never forgive the school for letting it happen.

In this case, I blame the internet for being anonymous. I bet it would be a much nicer place if everyone was personally accountable for everything they say. Though to be fair that's already starting to happen with facebook and people going to jail over comments they make (even if they are meant to be jokes). As society becomes more interconnected to the internet this internet bullying will disappear once people start getting put in jail for essentially murdering people. If you mock someone to the point of them committing suicide, you are directly responsible for murdering them.

[Zaruna]

Im happy some people still think before they type out comments.

[404]

What the fuck is wrong with you 2, get your heads examined, this is beyond retardation.

I'm the last one to join the drama of someone suiciding, but comments like these are truly fucked up and completely idiotic.

You 2 are saying she is to blame for all of this, you are blaming a girl who was probably like 13 at the time of the picture, deserved to be treated in such a way? Aside from girls being highly influential at that age and thus cannot be judged in such a major way, there is no way you can blame how others treated her in that way.

Not to mention that most of us have private pics/videos of girls/women, I know I got my share bit of them. Yes I could ruin their life, I could follow them around on the internet, send it to all their friends etc and basically be a fucking retard. Is that the girls fault for sending me them? No, that's who we are, it's part of life.

She shouldn't have flashed, hell no one should flash, and if you ever have sex, then make sure the person you have sex with doesn't have a camera or anything hidden, make sure you are awake before the other person so no pics can be taken while asleep, also make sure you can assassinate that person incase they tell others about your adventure. Who knows, you might keep your sexuality and everything related in check and no one will ever know anything.

Regardless what you think of her actions, this was a young and vulnerable girl and some twisted individual decided to abuse that vulnerability and ruined her life, it's that twisted individual who deserved all of the things she deserved.


So guys, really, gtfo, stop being so retarded, I'm ashamed to be the same species as you 2.

Now, shut the fuck up, and stop spreading the drama. No one gave a single fuck when a guy got bullied at school, but everyone gives a fuck when a girl slept with a guy who had commitment? Plus, what the fuck, she's 15, and sleeping with someone already? cmon. She must have a single digit IQ in order to do that. Don't jump into todd's bandwagon. oh wait, too late, you already did.. It's too late to stick up for her. She got what she deserved. Plus, what happened to her parents? The whole story is fucking retarded, because in the video she said she moved couple of times. One of those times, she moved to her mum. Stop and think for a second. Did she really live alone @ the age of 14-15? Too much bullshit to be true..

[Alienated]

i have to agree it was completely her fault , she should not have been flashing her tits online at all , that is just wrong for her age and look where it got her . blackmailed through it , and eventually caused her to kill herself . that is completely her fault and people are making too big of a deal about this , that picture Error posted is so true and sad .

[Gunblade]

If you search for more information, you see that it happened when she was 12.
She kept being bullied for lots of things, and beaten by a group of kids, and she also came into a drug and alcohol addiction.
The poor kid lost the will to fight, and gave up.
One mistake made her life a hell because some douchebag decided to ruin her life.
I hope he burns in hell.

[Robert]

Now, shut the fuck up, and stop spreading the drama. No one gave a single fuck when a guy got bullied at school, but everyone gives a fuck when a girl slept with a guy who had commitment? Plus, what the fuck, she's 15, and sleeping with someone already? cmon. She must have a single digit IQ in order to do that. Don't jump into todd's bandwagon. oh wait, too late, you already did.. It's too late to stick up for her. She got what she deserved. Plus, what happened to her parents? The whole story is fucking retarded, because in the video she said she moved couple of times. One of those times, she moved to her mum. Stop and think for a second. Did she really live alone @ the age of 14-15? Too much bullshit to be true..

I'm sure his parents gave a fuck. I'm sure his friends gave a fuck. Tbh, I give a fuck and so should you. People who don't care are the seriously messed up people, who have no empathy.

How can you be so fucking callous to say someone deserves to die. For something so small as a bit of nudity? Seriously, how old are you? Grow the fuck up. It's people like you that are the reason some fucked up countries still have the death penalty, let alone advocating death for something so fucking petty.

I truly hope you are just saying this stuff because you are on the internet and can't be held accountable for it. If you are like this IRL, you really should go and see a psychiatrist. Not giving a fuck about another human is a serious mental condition that could really mess you up in the future if you don't get some help asap.

[Retro!]

Its just life bro.

[Repthon]

Parents fault for not having decent parental control options on her PC. Seriously, if it was made so kids can only use PCs for school work until they are 16+ (or mature enough not to do stupid shit) so many problems would instantly go away. If the kid is clever enough to hack past the child locks, then they are most likely mature enough not to give a shit what people say on the internet. 90%+ of the time, it's the parents fault for not researching stuff before letting their kids use tech. Same goes for sexting in schools, find a fucking parental control app. Having issues with kids looking at porn? Parental control options! don't go and fucking lobby government to censor the entire internet to make it easier for you.

Plus on a personal note, the internet would be a much better place if all the kids were blocked from any non-educational site (unless they have an adult watching over them). It may seem hypocritical as I used it as a kid, but then I'd have cracked it anyway (which I'd bet on 90%+ of this sites kid population doing, lol).

I was bullied at school. Are you saying that was my fault? If you are, seriously fuck you you fucking stupid cunt. Kids have always been twats to each other, it is the responsibility of schools to stop it (which never happened at my school). It was a very dark time for me and I've repressed most of my childhood now, I recently found out that half my school had a bet on that I'd kill myself. So yeah, I don't see how that nastiness was my fault. I've forgiven them now as I know kids will be kids, but I'll never forgive the school for letting it happen.

In this case, I blame the internet for being anonymous. I bet it would be a much nicer place if everyone was personally accountable for everything they say. Though to be fair that's already starting to happen with facebook and people going to jail over comments they make (even if they are meant to be jokes). As society becomes more interconnected to the internet this internet bullying will disappear once people start getting put in jail for essentially murdering people. If you mock someone to the point of them committing suicide, you are directly responsible for murdering them.

With no disrespect as you can read on my first post my opinion on people who are getting bullied its mostly because of the personality and the way they were raised, I don't mean you were raised in a wrong way just that it wasn't a 100% hell my parents never raised me to the 100% mark but always taught me to stand up for my self when i think i am right and never do stuff to people that i would not like it to be done to myself and since then i always think twice before i make an action. Most of us think that we shouldn't look for friends and people should look to be friends with us which is obviously wrong, you have to look for friends and the right type of friends that would like your personality and as I stated before that a person with a strong personality will be accepted instantly without a doubt.

P.s: I am sorry to hear that you were bullied in school days.

If you search for more information, you see that it happened when she was 12.
She kept being bullied for lots of things, and beaten by a group of kids, and she also came into a drug and alcohol addiction.
The poor kid lost the will to fight, and gave up.
One mistake made her life a hell because some douchebag decided to ruin her life.
I hope he burns in hell.

Still doesn't give her the right to flash when she is 15.

[Zaruna]

I never read anything about sleeping with a guy ? Although if that happend at the age of 15 I'd not be suprised, it happens everywhere now. I did read she liked a guy, did she know he had a gf ? Knowing guys he probably didn't tell her.

That was not the reason why the bullying started though. Either way there are only a couple of things a person can do where I feel they deserve what she got, flashing boobs on cam is not one of them, just like Gohan said it could've happend with anyone, I had pictures of my ex aswell, when we broke up did I share them? Hell no.

[404]

I couldn't give a shit about todd, but I do give a shit about a guy who got bullied just because of his look. I am not going to cry, because some random died lol. People die everyday. Small bit of nudity? She fucked a guy while being 15. Why are you protecting someone who broke the code in the first place? You are the one who needs to visit a doctor, if you are into cp.

I never read anything about sleeping with a guy ? Although if that happend at the age of 15 I'd not be suprised, it happens everywhere now. I did read she liked a guy, did she know he had a gf ? Knowing guys he probably didn't tell her.

That was not the reason why the bullying started though. Either way there are only a couple of things a person can do where I feel they deserve what she got, flashing boobs on cam is not one of them, just like Gohan said it could've happend with anyone, I had pictures of my ex aswell, when we broke up did I share them? Hell no.

He did tell her. You should really research before actually arguing about something ;)

[Ron]

Its a sad story because just one person could have saved her life. Just one person to be there every morning, give her a hug and tell her they are there for her.

Sure she made mistakes, but that doesn't mean she deserves to die. The only people who deserve to die are people who mindlessly and heartlessly slaughter other people.

Maybe I have a different view because I had a friend in high school who went through the same thing. We had a close group of friends that were there for her after she tried to take her own life and are still there for her when she needs someone to talk to.

You guys are completely missing the point. She accepted what she did and decided to never do it again. She learned from her mistakes, but got tricked again by some asshole who wanted nothing but sex. If it wasn't for that and the overly intense bullying, she would still be alive. She didn't kill herself because of the mistakes she made, but because she was convinced the world was going to hate her no matter what she did.

@Error404
You'd be surprised how many 12-14 year olds have sex in the US now. She was no different than everyone else. Everyone else is having sex yet she is the one who deserves to die? That makes no sense at all... Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but come on man. The bitch who beat her up probably was more of a slut than she was.

[Repthon]

Every one makes mistakes Ron and no one deserves to die but its just that parenting sucks badly.

[Zaruna]

I couldn't give a shit about todd, but I do give a shit about a guy who got bullied just because of his look. I am not going to cry, because some random died lol. People die everyday. Small bit of nudity? She fucked a guy while being 15. Why are you protecting someone who broke the code in the first place? You are the one who needs to visit a doctor, if you are into cp.



He did tell her. You should really research before actually arguing about something ;)

Was never a point in my arguement or I wouldn't use the word "probably" or ask questions about it, you keep trying, I wonder why.

[404]

@Error404
You'd be surprised how many 12-14 year olds have sex in the US now.

Gzuz .. I thought this was messed up..

She was no different than everyone else. Everyone else is having sex yet she is the one who deserves to die? That makes no sense at all... Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but come on man. The bitch who beat her up probably was more of a slut than she was.

She chose the wrong path. She didn't have to kill her sell because of online bullying lol. Cmon, its just a pair of tits. Why would you get depressed if your neighborhood knows the size of your bra.. People who suicide, or even attempt it, do deserve to die. God gave life, yet people want to interrupt the life process by suicide. I seriously hate every single person who suicided. One thing to suicide when you lost a couple of limbs, being that from a shark/croc bite or some sort of bombing. And you are in terrible pain therefore there's no need for suffering. I understand that, I'd suicide myself if I'd be in a situation like that. But why bother commence a suicide if you got depressed over some internet bandwagon?

[Zaruna]

@Error404
You'd be surprised how many 12-14 year olds have sex in the US now. She was no different than everyone else. Everyone else is having sex yet she is the one who deserves to die? That makes no sense at all... Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but come on man. The bitch who beat her up probably was more of a slut than she was.

Exactly, sure his gf did too. :D It's not even his own opinion, only the internet gamers and trolls react this way, no personality.


Edit: It was never just on the internet, shows how much research you actually did. Picture's got shared to her schools aswell, friends she had in real life she lost over it.