My best friend was charged for "Rape"... I dont know what to think of him, or to even say to him. iv known him for years. and I feel i dont even know him anymore. Im not one to be like this, but. I just dont know what to say...
My best friend was charged for "Rape"... I dont know what to think of him, or to even say to him. iv known him for years. and I feel i dont even know him anymore. Im not one to be like this, but. I just dont know what to say...
Hopefully he hasn't committed rape, if he has however, His a fucking sick prick & then i personally wouldn't associate myself with him - but the things you have to take into account are:
- A) Whether or not he did it.
- B) Stay away from him until it's over and you know the verdict
- C) Don't get involved unless you already are, as it can only make matters worse.
Oh, What i did forget to mention, he admitted it.
Not associating with him.
God. I wouldnt even know what to say to him mate. i really dont. hes your best friend. its hard losing a good friend.
Not that hard to lose a good friend, considering the fact he admitted he committed rape.
Hopefully he will get the same treatment in prison, give him a taste of his own medicine - so how did you find out? What's the full story?
My brother told me when he got home from work, We all were under the assumption that since her ex bf pulled missy away from my friend ben, he had something to do with it and it was all bs well here
http://wldy-wjbl.com/2/comment.php?comment.news.742
2nd paragraph...
are local radio station. + this will be in the news.
The over a year part is bullshit. it was over a 4 month period. Exagerated Bullshit.
5 counting he did it to another girl which i also know.
He's a prick who deserves to rot, then. Simple.
Obviously the person you knew as a friend was not him at all but rather a literal projection of your imagination on to him.
Not all of this is true. Yeah he's done wrong so he deserves to be punished. But what has the Rape got anything to do with the friendship they once shared ? It doesn't at all.Originally Posted by KyleEnos
Cody said that they've known each other years, and have got on etc. The rapist does deserve to be punished, and Cody is much better off not to associate with such a guy anymore. But how can you judge the friendship they once had ? Further more how can you say the friendship they had was a literal projection of his imagination, when the friendship they had WAS very REAL.
Cody...I believe in speaking your mind whenever you feel you need to. But because this is such a sore subject your better off with speaking to people that your close with irl about this, as all you'll find here is continued posts of people saying "burn the rapist" when we all know its obviously a terrible thing to ever commit.
When clicking this link i got the following message
Phishing Site Blocked
Phishing is a fraudulent attempt to get you to provide
personal information under false pretenses.
I agree with raiden. Sure it makes you look at him and say, you know, what?why? but in the end you gotta look at the connection. Dunno whether your catholic or not, but I just say, you know, look at jesus, he forgave the people that nailed him to a cross.
Good luck mate
Im not but my friend is very religous Christan, and if theres one thing I do know, You dont just walk out on a Friend. No Matter what. I will talk to him when i get a chance. When he gets out he will need friends more then ever. i may be out of the country by then. idk but You dont walk out on your best friend. Iv always known for him to be a little Sexual, all my friends have there nasty sex shit they do. but Of all people I never though this to happen. =/
I personally could not forgive someone of that, but I know afew people that have been raped and it has ruined there lives.
at least he had the balls to give himself to the police
Anybody with a conscience would have given them selfs to the Police.
If I was in your situation, I'd stay away from him and don't make any contact with him at all. I wouldn't want to be known as being a good friend of a rapist.
I use openDNS and i cant read that article - i think this is a load of crap
attention seekers - my dog raped a teddy bear
i dont have a dog but it is still true
Link works fine for me, and when i check it, it says its not be reported....
Anyone else have problems with the link?
Poor teddy =[!
This isnt bullshit. I wish it was.. and attention seeker im not. Its easy to say you wont talk to him again, iv known him since i was like 7. It hurts finding out what your friend told you he didnt rape her, and to then see he admitted it. and then find out to another girl. It really hurts. knowing your best friend is a rapist. when that happens prespective changes real fast, and I dont know what to say if i do see him again.
Anybody with a conscience wouldn't have raped someone.
+ I think it has a dramatic affect on their friendship.
It's like saying "Yeah he's my best bud, even though he takes part in lynches, negro-sacrifices and has buffets with the KKK".
Last edited by KyleEnos; 25-05-08 at 02:46 AM.
Nope.
I say confront him dude, reading through what you said, it seems like you just wanna get it off your chest, if not youll regret not talking to him.
And yet I associate with people who have been known to play WoW...
Just because you disagree with peoples choices doesn't mean they cannot be friends. If he handed himself into the police he does feel remorse for what he did, he could of easily ran or denied it all.
Granted it did happen for over a year, which shows poor judgement. But seriously if it happened for THAT long there must of been more going on. We have no idea what really went on so I will refrain from judging the guy too harshly.
I suggest talking to him cody, if you are good friends with him he might tell you his motivation for doing it. Even if it's bad at least you will know and can properly access the situation instead of guessing from news stories.
Well maybe there is some reason for it? You know a lot of sexual predators have themselves been victimized at some point. I'm certainly not saying its right, but it seems what you want to know is the real truth. If in the end you don't think he is a friend anymore then so be it. It seems to me that you yourself are confused about what to think about him now. He probably needs a friend most in this time you know? And associating with him doesn't make you what he is.
It sounds to me like most of all he needs some help too, a good counselor.
And really in the end if you can't deal with who he is (or who you see him as now) then you can't stay friends but you seem undecided and honestly I think that's ok.
Have you considered talking to someone? Maybe a school counselor or whatnot?
It happend within a 5 month period, thats just exagerted bullshit. and he admitted it after one of the victims moms called the cops the day before his grad day. One price that he must pay i guess. and one he cannot re live
I cannot speak to him until after his sentencing. and i plan to. if i dont see him for 10 years when he gets out, he will need a friend. i was there when i was his only friend. Im not bailing on him now. I just couldnt do that. You dont Quit on Friends No matter what. I think it was a Mod that said this. or a RZer Jesus Forgave those who pinned him up on the cross. I belive he deserves a second chance after he serves his time, atleast from the community. which i doubt he will get. and even though he did this. I most likely wont Bail on him, but im still gonna talk to him. -.-
School Counsler? haha. No. I normally deal with my personal issues by my self. or with a friend. But this time. i felt i needed a wider varity of help. and RZ seemd like the perfect place for people to give me some tips.
Sorry for double post
Your rapist friend isn't a prophet, lol.
The fact is, he is a rapist. He sexually abused a woman over a period of 4 months. He knew she was petrified because she didn't tell anyone so again he decided to use her fear as a weapon of control and continue with the rapes.
Being raped is one fo the most degrading things that can happen to you. Those 4 months could completely fuck up her life and jeapordize a a sexual relationship in the future.
And to add to it, he rapes another girl. He's fucking scum.
This guy doesn't need a friend, he needs a noose.
