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    A man of no consequence LordDemonMan is offline
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    Need some advice

    Um, dunno how to say it...But currently I am in state of deep depression...The reason is kinda...common - parents, my mother, to be more specific.
    I am always to blame for everything she does wrong. Like, she promised her "friend" that she'll record some lame tv serie , my father said that there should be a dvd with that serie for sale (she agreed). As a result - nowhere dvd is found, I am to blame for everything (Like I was the one who agreed with father and so on).
    When she says: I will do that . Is commonly translated as: YOU are OBLIGATED to do it. And should I say: No, do it yourself, she will start to be the drama queen, simulate that she has a head ache and look at me like I am a traitor\scum\something-like-that

    Could anyone give some kind of advice...what to do?


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    Grand Master Iron Maiden is offline
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    Put up with the drama and bullshit till you're 18 and then get the fuck outta there as fast as you can. :P

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    Fuck you, I'm a dragon Pieman is offline
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    like iron said, get the fuck out or confront her with it and say your sick of her ect

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    Grand Master Flawz is offline
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    Do this..

    Look her straight in the eyes, slap her on the face, and say: that's enough of your &#164;#"#! Pack your clothes and leave <.<


    I always fight with my mom, never with dad though. mostly cause i live with mom and i get sick of her alot. But they always get pissed and get back to normal after a day or two.

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    Grand Master Iron Maiden is offline
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    [QUOTE=Flawz;1470007]Do this..

    Look her straight in the eyes, slap her on the face, and say: that's enough of your

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    Rulling San d'Oria! EgobrainX is offline
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    Say to her:

    'Why are you being childish?? I'm the young one here not you...'

    Or my all time favorite: 'Have you get laid recently??' :ohmy:

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    A man of no consequence LordDemonMan is offline
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    Quote Originally Posted by EgobrainX View Post
    Say to her:

    'Why are you being childish?? I'm the young one here not you...'

    Or my all time favorite: 'Have you get laid recently??' :ohmy:
    You know, I still want to live in one piece , without any limbs broken

    So, i guess, gotta wait till 18th birthday to get the fuck out from 'em

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    Grand Master Flawz is offline
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    or just slap her in the face..

    saying stuff like "youre the one being childish" is so.. TV.. If i'd say that to my mom she would kneel down, take her shoe of and beat me to death ^.^ j\k. But just ignore her. It will all go away at one or another time.

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    Rulling San d'Oria! EgobrainX is offline
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    Dude my parents are always arguing, and you know whats the best solution??? When the shit starts to come up get the f**k away, go to your room and watch TV or play games wathereva you like, i always donne that to advoid those bs of taking sides, so when their argue i won't get mixed up in the middle and end up getting colateral damage ;)

    I hope this advice will help you out, cuz it always works just fine for me, i've reached my limite for their bs, so if they wanna argue with each other they better not count on me for supporting their cause.

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    Chocolate Rain Flameingskull is online now
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    I`m in the same situation man.I learned to confront her and to prove her wrong. Problem is she now does it to my little sis.

    Confront her and prove her wrong, find the hole in her arguments and shut her up that way, also try to avoid arguments as mush as possible.

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    EMAG EHT TSOL TSUJ UOY AlLoCuRa is offline
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    find the power in the words


    USE DA FORZ!!!

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    Captain of the Universe Rishwin is offline
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    talk her into seeing a psychiatrist just to talk. used to hate my mum at times, but since she started seeing someone about her problems (it was all stress related) shes become the best. extremely understanding and tolerative, and not a pain to be around anymore :P

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    A man of no consequence LordDemonMan is offline
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    Thanks everyone

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    Chocolate Rain Flameingskull is online now
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    nandemonaiyo

    glad to be of help ^_^

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    Grand Master Tupac is offline
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    m8 its always ur fault lol parents always blaim u, its easier then blaiming urself

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    Grand Master speccy20 is offline
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    remind her of that age old proverb....
    You owe your kids everything,and your parents nothing !!

    and if she doesnt listen,punch her in the ovaries til she passes out

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    Member Rockerdude is offline
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    Tell her to shut up.

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    Grand Master Avenged is offline
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    Relax for a couple of days and talk it out civilised, if she bitches to ya shout at her to shut the fuk up

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    Member Rockerdude is offline
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    Mums, natures naggers.

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    Grand Master sutsurikeru is offline
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    emo's everywhere you go

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    Member Rockerdude is offline
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    I hate it when my mum thinks that something is a good idea, that i don't like. For example last week she swapped Sky TV for a freeview box. I was well gutted.

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    <3 alter is offline
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    @ Avenged, Flawz, and Rockerdude

    Hes looking for help, Im pretty sure if he told his mom to shut the fuck up or slap her, he would get in even more trouble. What i think is you should sit down and talk to her probably more effective than telling her to shut the fuck up or slapping her..

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    Grand Master Flawz is offline
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yubba View Post
    @ Avenged, Flawz, and Rockerdude

    Hes looking for help, Im pretty sure if he told his mom to shut the fuck up or slap her, he would get in even more trouble. What i think is you should sit down and talk to her probably more effective than telling her to shut the fuck up or slapping her..
    It was a joke =) im pretty sure noone would slap their own mom from an advice.

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    Fuck you, I'm a dragon Pieman is offline
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    Quote Originally Posted by Flawz View Post
    It was a joke =) im pretty sure noone would slap their own mom from an advice.
    i wish you told me that before i slapt my mum

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    Grand Master Jakob is offline
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    Lol @ Pietertje but yes take a time and talk thing's clear.



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