I realise this is completely off topic but you really need to change your avatar.
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How is using a webcam below your level, but having a text-gasm not?
Well, if your never going to get to that 'webcam' stage then you won't get too far with her.
I still want to know how old/young this girl is...
You didn't say her age in this thread. That's why I asked again. Anyways, if she's 17 and you live in the USA, you should really stop chatting her up and cybering with her...
Well 18 would be mature, I don't see the issue other then the law in USA, its just chattin anyway >.>
You're never going to meet her, you're not getting any interesting pictures or even a little web cam action. My recommendation is to stop wasting time posting about a completely irrelevant problem, find another girl, preferably closer to home and get to work. :thumbup1: Or if you're wanting a friendship then why does it matter if she's a lesbian? Fantastic! Tell her you want first dibs on her new video collection.
Everything can be worked to an advantage. :wink:
My suggestion is for you not look for love on the internet. Seriously, if you want to meet someone that you can truly love, or have a good time with, go to the park or to the bar, or whatever.
I find it hard to believe that people can say they love each other over the internet when they haven't spent 1 moment together in real life..(not including webcam cybering, vent chats, etc, etc).
While I completely agree, my fiancé was a random add on Facebook just over a year and a half ago. :thumbup1: However she lived two bus journeys away so it is different.
While I believe that a strong bond can be built up online even through web cam and programs such as Skype, it's rare that it's really going to go anywhere. Get out there and get hunting. :wink:
You basically are wasting you're own time if you cant be bothered doing anything with her, do you even know her real age? If not, don't you think its about time to ask? Your missing out on some action with her (if shes old enough) and you should atleast meet up if you are doing to see eachother, or it will never work out. I dont go on these chat-up sites because you never know what you will find, i have been on one once and had a bad experience.
Like Mattio said, ofc it's possible. but to be fair alot of guys would like the attention in RL from a girl like that =P so then for a girl to do it on the net to a guy she don't even know it's abit odd ? Should just ignore, love doesnt happen overnight, lol.
Well, believe it. I met my wife on a webcam chat site. She was from Canada, I was from the US. I speak first hand when I say it is possible to love someone without having physically touched them. There's an emotional and mental aspect to relationships as well, and it can be stimulated just the same in an online relationship. And no, I'm not some ugly 40 year old fattard that couldn't get a girl in my own area. They just didn't do it for me emotionally and mentally.
The 'L-bomb' isn't so serious online, I mean, for someone you haven't met? For someone you can't hold in your arms? You couldn't possibly really mean it even if you do say it.
So why not stick to <3 ? Its like e-love <3.
If she drops the 'L-bomb' and you feel uncomfortable saying it back, then drop a little <3. Why not? I mean, you enjoy the time together, whatever you did right? Who cares if it never progresses, if you never meet her or if you don't webcam chat or whatever. Definitely be true to yourself, if you aren't uncomfortable with it, don't do it (or say it). But keep in mind there are many different meanings of love.
Don't completely dismiss meeting people online. But really I hope you don't plan your whole life around someone online either. I mean, I met my roommate online, but I really didn't know I'd move here until we'd known each other for 2 and a half years (and had met in person.)
Wait, I'm 100% serious when I say this... the L bomb was Love? I swear to god i been going through this thread thinking it was Lebsian, lol!
Don't get involved with these dating sites mate, Would memory's would you rather have with your wife?
Meeting on a dating site?
Meeting in Real life?
Think about it.
Wow.. I had no idea that people actually think i'm from amewica... It's ENGLAND I live in.. not the US of effing A... The law is kinda different here. It's not 18. it's 16 here, and wtf.. a lesbian, people? seriously? you think it would bother me if i was talking to a lesbian? goddamn.. But yeah.. thanks for all the replies.. it's really helpfull to know that i should ask a lesbian for her video collection, or that i have to wait till a girl turns 18 if i lived the USA..
wow.. i think i should stop asking crazy shit on RZ.. this is turning rather weird.. o_O
I too met my fiance online, we went to the same highschool but only met eachother on our school's Myspace message board. After several weeks/months of chatting on MSN & occasionally stopping by the school (i had graduated, she still had 2 years left) to hang out, she told a mutual friend that she was into me so i asked her out.