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Well I dunno if this is really the place to post this, but I have as of today successfully convinced many people that their relationship (which they thought was dead serious .. oh yeah upto marriage and etc) ... was nothin but a major infactuation .. :O .. and well I guess I was right coz none of them are with each other now ..
I dunno if its coz of what I said or maybe am just gettin good at this job. :D
Thanks All :D Really Nice Forum :D
There is no love at 14, only lust.
You may think it is love, but trust me, it isn't. Not until you start living with them, and see them all day everyday, and do everything with them, and know everything about them and have them know everything about you, can you call it love.
Yes you can say "oh no, i really am in love" but you are not. You may think you are, but it is not love, you do not know love at that age other than what you feel for your parents. Not mature enough, not wise enough. Only until you fully understand it can you have it.
Yeah Rishwin is right.
love doesn't come at a young age.
I've been having the same problem with this girl.
She's a friend and we speak like everyday.
I do think about her everyday too, sometimes can't get her out my mind.
Because I'm afraid she might reject me or she might laugh or sometimes like that.
or it might ruin the friendshop we have together and make thins aqward.
So, I don't know tbh. I just don't know.
About 2 months after going out with my girlfriend, i told her i loved her. I was 18 but i still wasn't sure if i did or not, i just thought i did. She moved in with me 8 months later. Being with her 24 hours a day 7 days a week made me think i as going mad, but i didn't. Cos i realized that i really did love her.
It took me a whole year to be 100% sure that i did. There is no way you can know at such a young age, unless you live by yourself and have adult responsibilities. Love is one of them.
Yeah. I see what you mean.
You should say certain thinsg till you know its true such as, "I love you."
3 powerful words.
Even though I think sometimes that I might love this girl, the chances are I don't
I want to love her, and do think about her everyday most of the time.
But it can't be love, can it?
You can love yourself in any age tho...
Saying that you bring in parents, family, friends.
We mean like true love, or teen love, not family love.
There's a slight different anyway.
Anyone got any idea what I could do?
I disagree.
What is love? Because trust me there are lots and lots of 60 year olds who will tell you that you have no idea what love is Rishwin. They will tell you that being married to a person for over 25 years will teach you what love is...
Love comes in many different forms, in the end though it's about that feeling, that feeling of wanting to be with someone, not just for a evening, like all the time.
I'm personally quite tired of people trying to tell others what love is, it's different for each stage in your love.
Seriously, you should go to the basics of why you love someone, because trust me, being able to be with a person is not what love is, infact there are lots of people who love a person with all their heart, but can't be with them because they can't connect properly in the end.
In the end love is a feeling, nothing more, nothing less, love won't make a relationship work, though it is a requirement for a healthy relationship.
And what would true love be?Quote:
We mean like true love, or teen love, not family love.
I see what you mean there GoganSSJ.
Love is different to different people and cannot be singled out.
And loving someone isn't like a one night stand, you need to want to be with someone all the time, and I would with this girl, I would spend every minute if possible.
But the chances of that happen are what, 0?
Don't know, but i would take the chance to see if she feels the same, as much as it can hurt, even if it ruins the friendship, it's better then not knowing. You never want to look back at your life and ask the question "what if"
It's easier said then done, but this is coming from a guy who asked the question a while ago and ended up with a ruined friendship, it definitely hurts, especially since i still don't know her feelings, but atleast i tried, atleast i won't have to ever ask me the what if question.
Millions of question just go though your mind no matter what age I thnk thing like;
-What if she rejects me
-Will she laugh
-Will she just walk away
-Will she tell all her friends
-If she says yes what will we do
-Should I take her out to dinner
-What happens when I meet her parents
You know all there's question will eventually add up to the one;
Should I ask her?
Then it's the tougest decision you have to make.
Decision is easy, doing it is the hard part.
That is all Very True. What you need to do, is Think positive.Quote:
Originally Posted by PatCamp
What I always thought was good. Avoid the parents as long as you can x] and when you do end up meeting them. Dont Lie to them. Just Tell them what they want to hear.
That you will never sleep with their daughter?
:S I cant say I wouldnt lie there if they asked. I have never been asked that. it has never been a problem to me. But err tbph. i dont know what i would say. Say yes. you lose the girl. Say no, and they find out. Her dad will knock your teeth in.Quote:
Originally Posted by GohanSSJ
Better just to say No. saying yes. would cause alot of problems. and dont have sex, until shes ready.
there is a form of love at young age and its what everyone goes onna bout like ive said earlier in this thread its your "first love" and i no its differnt to the true love because it is mostly love and obession but at the time its happend uve neva felt like that will anyone and when it doesnt work out for some reason or another mainly because you are young, it really cuts you deep and because your young and vunrable hurts you alot and you will never forget that person, me personally i still think about that person even now like 3 years down the line, i no it wasnt true love or anything but for being young its the closest thing you come to it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rishwin
and the word love is so freely thrown about nowadays it makes me sick, that girl was the only person ive eva told "i love you" to and pisses me off wen ppl say it like knwoing some1 like 2 weeks and say it. like ive had loads of girls i liked alot but i new i didnt love them was more a crush towards them or lusting for them in ways like "phwoar shes hot thats why im with her" or "aww shes so cute" or "shes funny" i must like her but its not the same
and the good thing about the first love it sets the bar for all of your new relationships because you can compare how the person makes you feel and compare it to the first love and personally i havent met a girl who make me the same or better.
some people find that first love early and some people havent found it by the age of 25 but you will no wen ur torn apart one day and thinking wow i didnt realise i had this much feelings for her
Who says you HAVE to say no or yes. Just tell him: "I dunno, I can't see into the future" =pQuote:
Originally Posted by CodeinCody
You're 16, so they expect you to keep it in your pants.Quote:
Originally Posted by CodeinCody
For me i still like her, and she still likes me :D
It's all good'
I still have taken the guts to ask my girl.
Might be the reason that I'm 4ft 9" and she's 5ft 4".
Dramatic height difference.
Or perhaps because you are like 12 then?
Yes, but I'm small for my age.
All the girls in my year are 5ft 2" to 5ft 5"
and all the boys are 5ft 3" to 5ft 6"
So, I get the be the odd one out. Yey?
i had 1 GF Before -.-
wow it worked :P
damn you must be in year 7 or somthing..Quote:
Originally Posted by PatCamp
all the guys in my year are 5ft 8 -6ft 4
the girls from 4ft 9 - 5ft 7
No, I'm in year 8. -.-
Anyway, I'm am definetly gunna ask her on monday, no questions asked!
just gunna say it. ( hopefully )
aww thats cute =3
right now who wants to solve my problem?!
And what is your problem? You happen to like a guy and he happens to be a foot shorter than you? 0.o
We seriously do need that counselling section as ElM suggested.
*hi5*Quote:
Originally Posted by Rishwin
Your problem is your complexes.Quote:
Originally Posted by ***LILK@OS***
let me begin!
i like no one
Well.
You find the person you love eventually. :3
its gonna be holidays soon, so mabey ill meet a guy at partys and stuff =D
LILK@OS, since you're a girl:
How does a guy know if a girl likes him?
Please tell us.
This would make the life of a boy so much eaiser.
Please, PLEASE! Share the big girly secret with us =x
Well TBH a girl usually is flirting with a guy she likes, that's how you can know it.
Ok, i'll tell it then:
There's this girl in my class, who is kinda flirting (taking my hand, lil' hugs, many physical) with me, but when (one of her jealous) exes sees it, and says 'you like him!' she's like 'no, we're only good friends', and I'm kinda thinking that we're friends, but.. well..
Nah, probably she likes u.
We're only in the same class 'till end this year, hmm imma think 'bout it.
I think she's like you, i can know (i am not sure about that, i forget so much things, Still she loves me :D)
she likes you
Quote:
Originally Posted by ***LILK@OS***
yeah, if not, I didn't say that ;)
Every girl is different... some will show it, others won't. But if a girl is constantly looking at you, flirting with you...that might be a sign.
EliteGM, that's tough to say. If she starts telling you about other guys...than you're just her friend...if not, than she might like you.
Congratz =]
Love is hard to find these days =/
LoL...tell me about it, especially since 80% of the girls talk the same, dress the same, act the same. And the different ones are usually imprisoned in their homes by their parents, and can't do anything other than school, some sports, or some random other activities...Quote:
Originally Posted by TheRealEpic
Like stripping in bar?Quote:
Originally Posted by wounded
Hmm, you guys are too young, this ain't a good thing for you guys.
I think you guys are gonna flirt with your moms after the shit you heard in this thread.
ur true xdQuote:
Originally Posted by TheRealEpic
Anyone know what to do with her ? :\
trying taking her out to dinner or something
or go cinema with girl.
Something sorta romantic
I am just 14 -.-
so
Just borrow some money from your dad or mom.
then stfu and stop asking help
If you're only 14 go to the cinema or go hang out somewhere you usually hang out. You don't need that much money for those things. Invite her over your house maybe. Just hang out.
what ever you do dont rush things... if you rush it will be a bad day for you.
dont even think about sex until you know shes thinking about it.
who mentioned sex or rushing?
he was asking what to do with her to keep there relationship active.
anyway, Konrow & Genryu have good ideas
Jumbo-Absorb.Quote:
Originally Posted by ***LILK@OS***
Super-Soaker
Whatever you want to call it these days ;)
use the DVD line works every time lol
then wen shes round get to comfy cuddling her on the bed and wen shes not expecting it..... give her the stinky finger hahahahaha
Lmfao....epic...but a little out of their age range.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tupac
I've once seen this image and it said What a kiss means on a certain spot, like mouth, cheeck, nose, forehead, etc (yeah pervs, fantasy on the loose >D). Can't remember it though, and i believe it was in dutch xD
yes there are many zones which really turn girls on and sometimes they cant help but sleep with u even if they werent horny b4 u done it lol, but every women is different some dont like then and some do, like i no some girls who like there nipples been sucked like alot and other who dont feel a thing by it.Quote:
Originally Posted by EliteGM
most sensitive areas that ive found and like i said every girls different so if it dont work move to the next and you can tell if shes liking it by her emotion if shes pulling u in closer and findin it hard to stop movin her hands lol and heavy breathing
neck - tends to work on most girls
nipples
inside of there thighs
ear lobe - haha yea beleive it or nite fink cos they can hear u breathin heavy i actually quite like it haha
lips - well thats just obv
if its during for play alot of girls like kissing ur way from belly to each nipple then slowly up there body up the neck then slowly to there lips
alot of girls foreplay alot so will thank u more then if u just stick it staight in haha and prob thank u with a bj in the morning :) always nice haha
I think you don't going to ask her to marry with you, huh?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rickpwns
You're just 14, people at that age doesn't even know what real love is. :p
~Cas
I think i dont do such things ;) , I am just 14 so no Sex or w/e, i know i am the best, :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Tupac
Now siriously, I dont got much cash at the moment, gave everything out on an blow -.- But my parents dont want to give me anything.. What to do? :D
Tell them you'll pay them back double? =p
Can you honestly say that you do?Quote:
Originally Posted by casjebasje
I think that only people over 50 can honestly say that they do.Quote:
Originally Posted by GohanSSJ
This is from a movie:
"After 60 years saying 'I love you' feels the same as saying 'cheese sandwich'"
Can't remember which =x
Can they? Who says they have truely expierenced love?Quote:
Originally Posted by Intelext
I will keep asking this... define love...
The answer to that is that it can't be defined.
No one can decide for someone else if they are truely experiencing love or not.
oh wow.... i read this whole thing and still entertained... i never really realized how hard it was to ask someone out at the age of 14.... remember when i wanted to ask out my friend and at the end made my friend ask her out for me..... and yeah she said no... owned.
nah but yeah just go for it man, girls liked it when we ask them out, especially if they like you a lot... or your British with a weird acsent and blonde hair -.- "GohanSSJ"
Huh? I'm Dutch with dark brown hair lol.
thats not what boko described you!!
dam, then the jokes on me :P
I lol'd at that honestly.
Now further on my problem =S :
She's like randomly sending (L)'s to me, and just now she was going to walk her dog right before she left she said 'i luv u' =o
One thing i know: she didnt REALLY mean LOVE, as the discussion goes here.
Anyone can answer My Question plox ;) But i dunno what to do, eat pizza again, will be old
well do wat i said but without the dirty bit lol that was a jokeQuote:
Originally Posted by Rickpwns
invite her round to watch a movie and then cuddle up on the bed or couch always nice
Yeah ~I agree with Tupac - get superbad or knocked up ;)
no offence but people like rickpwns piss me the fuck off.... seriously your gonna take advice from us until the day you die or something??
1. Either you command your own life or you will be conquered, and you will be wimp to your wife in the future.
2. If your just going to listen to people, your gonna end up a follower for the rest of your life, and you wont learn shit
3. you think all these people know these stuff just like that??? NO, they put themselves otu there, did things by themselves, and become who they are. Even if they did screw up
4. if you dont try to do things on your own you wont build your character, back to the wimp part.
5. be a leader, not a follower kid, stop getting advice and go fuck up, dont matter how many girls dump you or how many times you screw up, you will learn from it.
hell i fucked my best friends gf when i was 17, and we are still best friends til this day, been friends for over 7 years now, he cared and hated me but he ignored it because friendship is worth more than chicks...... girls come and go every day, "too much fish in the sea" and women are fish, you will never run out of them. and they stink like fish too.
and trust me, and ask anyone who is married or been in a long long term relationship.. WOMEN ARE A PAIN IN THE ASS.... they drive you fucking crazy, they complain about every single shit in this world, they are the stupidest thing ever.
hell if a girl likes you she will fuck you even if you lived in a cardboard house...
tbh u aint a real friend and i hate ppl who are like u, personally there are loads of lasses out there and id neva get with a girl my m8 is with EVA thats even after hes broke up with her or summit its just note right have people lost respect there friends or summit? tbh he sounds like a lad u no not a true friend cos i dont no how ppl could bring some1 whos ment to be there best friendQuote:
Originally Posted by hero322
girls seem to do it all the time tho i dont get i the amout of girls ive got into and there there best m8s is unreal just the other day was kissin this lass then she went to sleep and her best m8 was on the bed with up and totally rubbin me so i had to give her a little finger action lol
maybe i was just brought up better so i wouldnt wanna get with there gf and hurt them
hitch is the best date money eva!! i seen it 4 times at the pix with 4 different girls hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by sutsurikeru
WHO the fuuuck are you to give advice? You clearly don't give a shit about women...and you're a TERRIBLE friend. What kind of a fucken friend has sex with his best friends girl...that's just off limits...you're clearly a prick, and don't even deserve to have say on the issue at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by hero322
Your comments were disgusting...sexist...and just plain ignorant.
nah see she invited me over and we got drunk and we did it... and actually she was a slut so glad that i figured her out and told him before she could hurt him..
thats not the point ... and no i dont treat all women like shit, i respect women who are my friends and nice, women that just go out with me for money deserve to be treated like shit and dont just judge me because of mistakes i did years ago.. hey shit happens right?
@ Tupac, your correct girls do cheat on guys 24/7 either physically or emotionally, and no one judges them but when a guy cheats on a girl its wrong?
@ wound sorry mate but if your too feminist you will get used... 90% of girls out there 18+ will go out with you either because your rich and can support her gay needs OR she is using you... not to be insulting or anything but people like you are the once that are what we call "wiped by women" a pet....
either way all relationships are about using each other until your actually married and some married couples are just because they wanna use each other...
dont tell me you never went out with a chick just because she is hot and you wanna do her... common we are talking about real life here not some fantasy shit.
most girls will go out with you because you will buy them shit and feed them... thats all, they might repay you by giving you pleasure. thats all thats how relationships are..
plus you cant just tell me not to argue about something i believe in, this forum provides freedom of speech and im taking it, plus after all there are 2 sides to things...
NOTE = Marriage is not a relationship its a commitment
I guess the advantage of that aswell is that after the first time you can completely concentrate on the girl without wanting to watch some of the movie. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Tupac
still its not cool he was ur m8 bet it hurt him more that u betrayed him then herQuote:
Originally Posted by hero322
oh god i no thats one the main reasons i rarely trust women, the amout of girls out there who ive kissed out there with bfs :-s not good even wen there bf is in the same club its like they wanna get caught and if they do they use the excuse to the bf "you dont treat me right its your fault i kissed someone else" like wtf girls are head doers and quite alot are physcos, this one girl cut her wrists cos my m8 broke up with her infront of him :-s ive had a few stawkers :-sQuote:
Originally Posted by hero322
its true u cant be a pussy now adays if ur nice to a girl they will walk all over u or put u in the friend zone. All girls want some1 who treats them right but 99% dont deserve anything near itQuote:
Originally Posted by hero322
haha fink thats the basis of wat i go for lolQuote:
Originally Posted by hero322
haha u said it mate lol neva thought of it that way lol but most of been true lolQuote:
Originally Posted by GohanSSJ
Well you know what they say, nice guys finish last. That pretty much goes for me, it sucks, but i ain't going to change who i am, has no use really, i ain't interested in a 1 night stand or anything like that, so i guess i will just see what happens and all.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tupac
Give her a beautiful flower xD
Im going out with this crazy psycho bitch atm,
For the first month or two i really liked her but then she went crazy..
She always wants to fight with me? She does crazy stuff like hurting herself and talking about suicide D:
She scares the shit outta me! Shes been away on holiday for past two weeks (yay) and comes back on sunday/monday.
Im gonna try break up with her and stay away from girls from then on.
Holy shit .. Thats so much like my story.. only diff was that she wasnt a bitch ... :\ ....Quote:
Originally Posted by Fulzo
Well I broke up wid her .. and she calls me dialy but I hang up on her giving one reason or the other ... :( ... aww .... hard to forget but necessary..
Is it me or he is just crazy? i just aks advice, she says yes so? i can ask what i want, i wont do that with anything or w/e wtf?Quote:
Originally Posted by hero322
Do this one thing for all of us. Never give advice again.Quote:
Originally Posted by hero322
I have developed my own theory as to what love is.
I put it simply. Love what we all know as a strong attachment to someone with an addition of a strong sexual attraction.
The reason people try to find derivatives of this definition, however, is because usually people admit to loving someone and soon enough change their opinion and things don't work out.
My theory is this. Love is what we all simply know as attraction, however, loving someone means you like who they are as you currently know them. For the personality you see right now when you look at a person. However, the more you get to know someone the more about them you find out, the more about their personality you uncover and the more likely it is that you'll find something that makes you think twice eventually.
As well, the reason love fails at such a young age is because at a younger age we have a much harder time analyzing and discovering aspects of ones' personality, as well as the fact that young people usually have very surface-level personalities. There's no depth to it, and personalities are usually very similar throughout teenage years. Most girls like the same music, dress and talk the same way, while the same could usually be said for guys. The more you mature the more your personality really becomes unique, which might push your current boy/girl friend away either because you realize you don't like them or because they decide they don't like the new you.
Haha she kissed me today, WTF? ^^
This force is strong with this one.Quote:
Originally Posted by RsX
Top Pathatic people in this world:
Rickpwns
Batz
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sums it up... and *hint* for you 2 morons, i wasnt giving an advice, i was pretty much insulting how sad you are by telling your life story to people you dont and will never know. As much as i enjoy reading this thread and watching your life break down slowly.
Here is how your relationship gonna be
- You will go out with that chick
- Your a pussy so she will use you
- Couple of months, maybe a year later, she will dump your ass because your not worth her time
- Then you will come whine here and blame most people here, when really its your fault for taking people advices and not growing some balls to do things on your own.
- You will go hardcore emo
- Then you will go suicide and we will never hear or see you again
Annoying teenagers like you deserve it, so yeah i cant wait to hear it when your heart gets stumped on by your beloved girl...
Dont bother replying with insults, dont bother replying about this topic, hell you can ask a mod to delete it too. This is the outerworld section, i said my opinion and thats all i have to say to you boy. Enjoy your next few months, haha....
Most Mature people here already know this will happen, especially once who experienced it, everyone awaits the answer...
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@ RSK
I have 100% respect for you, that is so true beyond limits...Quote:
As well, the reason love fails at such a young age is because at a younger age we have a much harder time analyzing and discovering aspects of ones' personality, as well as the fact that young people usually have very surface-level personalities. There's no depth to it, and personalities are usually very similar throughout teenage years. Most girls like the same music, dress and talk the same way, while the same could usually be said for guys. The more you mature the more your personality really becomes unique, which might push your current boy/girl friend away either because you realize you don't like them or because they decide they don't like the new you.
*bows to the prince*
Fuck.. you.. gtfo!
This would be an example of an immature kid. You realize insults dont mean nothing when your on the other side of the world... Waste of time kiddo.Quote:
Originally Posted by EliteGM
So what I'm a kid, not an example of one =) I have a meaning too.
And.. well.. all kids ARE immature..
Erm.. mate i hate people that are Emo,gothic, or wanna suicide, so i never wanan be one or getto be one or w/e
Lets get this cleared up. Not only your font and advice but your entire mind is literally fucked up. Your actually explaining this guy to do every single thing by himself for the rest of his life. Which means he should never ask for advice/question... Everyone, and goddamn I seriously mean everyone needs help sometimes.Quote:
Originally Posted by hero322
You know how he built character? He asked her out, he showed up on that date, he hasn't screwed up the relationship so far and it's going great. Now, I don't see anything in that where it shows that he's a wimp or a fucktard like you. Well actually, you seem like one of those 10 yr. old kids who go on the internet and giving advice thinking that they know everything. Well guess what? Your a dumbass!
You don't understand how this world works now do you? Well open your eyes and learn from your parents mistakes. Then you'll begin to realize.
Now I'm done wasting my time on you. Do us all one more favor...
http://images.jupiterimages.com/comm...1/22612187.jpg
Pull the fucking trigger already.
*YOU'RE.Quote:
Originally Posted by hero322
No batz, hes not a dumbass. he speaks the truth, although some of his points are incorrect, hes pretty much right about everything.Quote:
Originally Posted by Batz
Well some of the points given were correct. You know why? It's called common sense and this guy has some. But the advice he gave was a bit bull and negative.Quote:
Originally Posted by Initiate