Split up after 4 years

How you get rid of that pain? I don't know, like they say, time heals all wounds, but even then it's hard.

I fell hard for a girl earlier this year, it was complicated (she was in a relationship that was wrong for her and it did end), in the end she wasn't ready for a relationship, she wanted my friendship and she wanted sex, but I needed the relationship so I ended up with nothing. I haven't spoken to her for 5 months, I tried contacting her but she won't respond. It still hurts and she's constantly in my head.
It's also not the first time, there was a girl about 4 years ago and I still don't know why it never happened, we were very close, but when I got close she would push me away, if I backed off she would just look me up again, took me a long time to get over her. A while ago I saw her again, hadn't seen her for years and even though I don't want her anymore, it still hurt that she didn't even tell me why.

It will pass, but as for how long it's gonna take, it depends, but it's always hard when it's not something you wanted, I still want that girl that I last saw 5 months ago, I don't know when or if that will change, I'm sure she will eventually end up 'forgotten', but until then I guess I will just have to live with it.

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Originally Posted by GohanSSJ

she wanted my friendship and she wanted sex

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Sounds pretty good. Give her my number, will you? You keep being friends with her, and I'll take care of the rest.

Been having some rough patches with my girl as well. We're still together, but we're attending different colleges. It's hard getting by, but we manage. When we visit each other, it just seems a lot different now...

Went out last night and made myself feel better ;)