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I can't move on because i really love her but what is really hard is trying to move on when you are having a lot of pain from her sometimes you just feel like crying and i can say that i did many many times but now I'm just trying to get over it and that's not that easy for someone like me or someone like you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alizay
I'm trying to get over it and it's processing slow but it hopefully will process faster soon!
Sorry to hear that brother. These last few months I've went through a very similar thing. Found out my ex-gf was cheating on me & sending naked pics to guys and stupid shit like that, and as much as I loved her at the time, I had to tell her to fuck off. But of course, because we had a daughter together, I allowed her to stay because I would never essentially put my daughter on the street. So I waited a very long time for her to get her own apartment and in a nutshell, she did. But the time that she was there, wow, I was pissed off every single second of every day. The worst of all this is that my daughter is going to feel this change in lifestyle the most. I won't get to see her as much and all that. Kinda sucks. Point I'm trying to make here is; for people like us, who've wasted years of our life on a useless relationship, the only thing we have left to do is soldier on and tank all the emotional bullshit that comes along with this sort of bullshit aftermath.Quote:
Originally Posted by MasterD
Emotions suck. :p
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Originally Posted by Vendaku~Metal
I'm feeling you brother - But don't worry just like me you will get over it soon and the pain that you are currently having is really going to go away time by time like Evil & MasterD said just try forgetting her/him and just move on
Totally true i should probably put that in my signature because that is totally true!Quote:
Point I'm trying to make here is; for people like us, who've wasted years of our life on a useless relationship, the only thing we have left to do is soldier on and tank all the emotional bullshit that comes along with this sort of bullshit aftermath
Bit drunk when i posted this. Spoke to her today and told her i need a bit of space and time. Night out with boys next week to watch the hatton fight so its all good so far.
Just times like now that it hits me, finished work sat around bored and thinking about things. Hey ho just pick yourself up and get on with it.
Oh and thanks for all the words of wisdom and support i'm taking it all on board.
Let's get on board and sail away from all the sorrow and all the pain that we're currently having let's live a good life and drink some beers to throw all our pain away whilst we are sailing to nowhere but who cares as long as we are away from the people who have hurtled us.Quote:
Originally Posted by MasterD
Yeah lol. Truthfully when you sit around doing nothing in the aftermath of any relationship, you quickly discover that you are your own worst enemy and that never ends well usually. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by MasterD
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Yeah lol. Truthfully when you sit around doing nothing in the aftermath of any relationship, you quickly discover that you are your own worst enemy and that never ends well usually. :p
True it's the reason why Ive decided not to have a relation anymore until I think that I'm fully ready for it so i won't be having a relation until further due because i really need to get rid of all this pain and all these emotional feelings before i can really move on to a new relation with hopefully someone who isn't like my ex girlfriend.
So yeah, conclusion today we officially ended it amicably. Cleared my head and realised its not for the best to live out of comfort instead of love.
Single life for a while now me thinks see how that goes, under the radar no social media etc... causes problems!
Man, the single life is where its at lol. All I do now is lift weights like a boss. I plan to be very careful picking my next girlfriend though, thats for sure. Won't be for awhile.
I'm glad I'm single hurray! what a good feeling to be single again!Quote:
Originally Posted by Vendaku~Metal
You are just so completely full of shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by spruitje
How about you read what you wrote yesterday and you try and tell me you are not talking utter shit.
Maybe you should try for once being honest, because in every topic you post, you talk shit, you say 1 thing and then the complete opposite a little later. I don't care what your feelings truly are, all I know that you've been blabbering shit.
Hmm maybe you are talking for once in a time crap again on a reply i made.Quote:
You are just so completely full of shit.
How about you read what you wrote yesterday and you try and tell me you are not talking utter shit.
Maybe you should try for once being honest, because in every topic you post, you talk shit, you say 1 thing and then the complete opposite a little later. I don't care what your feelings truly are, all I know that you've been blabbering shit.
Clearly you have something against me which makes me not care because i may have posted yesterday that i felt like total shit - Today is a new day and don't say that people can't change feelings in one day because i have been having these feelings this bad feelings since december 2011 - So you are indeed obviously talking utter shit and all that you do is flame on others posts just because you might not like that person ( Not made me care)
Please let me have my posts and i let you have yours don't hate because you dislike someone this bad and just ignore the posts that he makes because you are clearly messing up the thread.
Yes I'm feeling better now because I've began to get over this girl who've broke my heart and have left me in pain for a very long time and I'm finding out that the point that me and my ex girlfriend are through is actually better then living in sorrow all the time
My words of wisdom has sorted his mush out. He's a changed man he's not ruled by a woman who has big thumbs, have u spruitje?
or it could be bull shite who knows.
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My words of wisdom has sorted his mush out. He's a changed man he's not ruled by a woman who has big thumbs, have u spruitje?
or it could be bull shite who knows.
I never lied to anybody - The whole point is I'm trying to tell my story and keep you updated with how I'm feeling like you and Vendaku keep each other updated on how it's going - In this case I'm feeling better but then Benjamin comes with his posting matters and he always has a reason to bash the forum and to bash off forum members.
Clearly proves that he doesn't like me - Not a problem many people have many haters and i can't change that but he's clearly changing this forum post in to a utter flame fest and that was not suppose to be happening at all.
Sorry but i didn't really know what you mean with that .Quote:
My words of wisdom has sorted his mush out. He's a changed man he's not ruled by a woman who has big thumbs
If you mean like - He's a changed man he isn't going to be ruled by a girl who's always commanding over her with her big thumbs - Then i agree I'm not going to be commanded anymore but in this case i do not know what you really mean with that.
Maybe a bit to much English slang I forget we are bi-lingual here but you are correct.Quote:
Originally Posted by spruitje
I find it hard to type things on here these days, Manchester has corrupted my vocabulary!