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Maybe a bit to much English slang I forget we are bi-lingual here but you are correct.
I find it hard to type things on here these days, Manchester has corrupted my vocabulary!
Well that's fine I'm just trying to point something out too but my grammar and my spelling isn't that correct.
So I've told my story you've seen it Vendaku and other viewers have seen it and we have been discussing it for a very long time that I was having emotional problems that i was really sad all the time - And when I'm feeling better then i shall indeed change again getting back to normal and i told you guys before that I'm not feeling like re-starting a relation with someone.
Then Gohan steps in and starts to bash off my posts because he always does that and i don't really like it - Clearly what he's pointing out is not making sense first of all because I've never lied to anyone and I'm not 100% feeling better but I can at least be happy that I'm single again.
Blabbering shit just doesn't make sense at all because that's not what I'm doing and it's not what i am going to do.
Re: Split up after 4 years
Well thats between you two pal, not getting involved!
Re: Split up after 4 years
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MasterD
Well thats between you two pal, not getting involved!
Agree - I'm not really going to make any further replies on him because he is trying to prove a point that is incorrect and we where talking and i wasn't involving him in anything so i don't know why he thinks that he has a sadden right to step in and just bash off.
Anyway I'm feeling a bit better I've been stopping with listening emotional music because that's also the cause of getting/being emotional and how are you doing?
Re: Split up after 4 years
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spruitje
Clearly you have something against me which makes me not care because i may have posted yesterday that i felt like total shit - Today is a new day and don't say that people can't change feelings in one day because i have been having these feelings this bad feelings since december 2011 - So you are indeed obviously talking utter shit and all that you do is flame on others posts just because you might not like that person ( Not made me care)
You just proved my point. You've been feeling shit for almost a year, including yesterday. Now it's all good. Bitch please.
If you think you can manipulate your way out of this, then you are sadly mistaken. In the past couple of weeks you received like 3 bans and been told off by several people.
You say all I do is flame others? Really, who else did I flame? The now banned Error 404 (who's nickname you took because you thought it was funny...) or TriumpH who has disappeared because he was full of shit?
All you've been doing so far is siding with whichever seems to be popular, you tell us you feel shit about that girl, then feel it, don't pretend to feel good because some else says that single life is good.
My whole job is talking with people, figuring out what's wrong, analyzing their behaviour and doing something positive with it. Now in your case the best thing to do is call you out on this absolutely fake behaviour, because it won't help you in life, no one will ever trust you as long as you are not being honest with them. I have plenty of friends and I can tell you that they get annoyed by me at times, you know why they are still my friends? Because I'm always honest with them, whether I'm nice, or annoying, they know they get the real me.
You seriously remind of Ted from Scrubs:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8QHsydNf0mM
I've told you before many times and will keep telling you everytime you talk crap, be yourself, form your own opinion and stop trying to make up excuses.
Btw don't bother argueing that I'm wrong, aside from it not working, you have proven and even admitted to have talked shit, so even if you were completely right now, no one will believe it. So again, just take my advice.
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All you've been doing so far is siding with whichever seems to be popular, you tell us you feel shit about that girl, then feel it, don't pretend to feel good because some else says that single life is good.
My whole job is talking with people, figuring out what's wrong, analyzing their behavior and doing something positive with it. Now in your case the best thing to do is call you out on this absolutely fake behavior, because it won't help you in life, no one will ever trust you as long as you are not being honest with them. I have plenty of friends and I can tell you that they get annoyed by me at times, you know why they are still my friends? Because I'm always honest with them, whether I'm nice, or annoying, they know they get the real me.
I agree this whole part
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All you've been doing so far is siding with whichever seems to be popular, you tell us you feel shit about that girl, then feel it, don't pretend to feel good because some else says that single life is good.
My whole job is talking with people, figuring out what's wrong, analyzing their behavior and doing something positive with it. Now in your case the best thing to do is call you out on this absolutely fake behavior, because it won't help you in life, no one will ever trust you as long as you are not being honest with them. I have plenty of friends and I can tell you that they get annoyed by me at times, you know why they are still my friends? Because I'm always honest with them, whether I'm nice, or annoying, they know they get the real me.
I've got to be honest that you obviously have read my story and you clearly trying to analyze what is wrong - Yes I've indeed lied when i said i was doing fine but i have my reasons for it - Clearly I'm not still feeling fine and I'm just trying to move my feelings away from this forum because then people are going to think that I'm a typical person who's trying to act and make friends with being sad because he really had a bad relation carrying on his back which he is still stuck with and he currently can't get rid off.
You totally are right there but i just don't want to be the typical person who's trying to be sad over the forum that's why I'm trying to act like I'm all cool with it so i don't come over like some kind of sad boy who's trying to get fully attention for having a shit relation which he's still carrying.
I might take your advice about the whole being honest thing to be honest i do have my ups and downs with you but in this case you where right and I'm taking the advice - About being honest and having your friends on the side and not being honest and making enemies because you are lying to those who believe what you are now saying like ''I'm fine'' that's indeed a lie because deep inside you are still feeling like shit.
But here's a question for you Gohan: I'm still having the pain from that girl but how do i get rid of it because it's really making me get emotional etc how do i get rid of this pain because obviously have i been with it for a hour and i can't just get rid of it
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If you think you can manipulate your way out of this, then you are sadly mistaken. In the past couple of weeks you received like 3 bans and been told off by several people.
You say all I do is flame others? Really, who else did I flame? The now banned Error 404 (who's nickname you took because you thought it was funny...) or TriumpH who has disappeared because he was full of shit?
Yeah I've made horrible mistakes and now I'm making them again and i just don't want to and I've tried apologizing and I've tried anything i could because to be honest i don't want enemies i want to have friends where you can talk with about how you are feeling like you are talking with your friends that.
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How you get rid of that pain? I don't know, like they say, time heals all wounds, but even then it's hard.
I fell hard for a girl earlier this year, it was complicated (she was in a relationship that was wrong for her and it did end), in the end she wasn't ready for a relationship, she wanted my friendship and she wanted sex, but I needed the relationship so I ended up with nothing. I haven't spoken to her for 5 months, I tried contacting her but she won't respond. It still hurts and she's constantly in my head.
It's also not the first time, there was a girl about 4 years ago and I still don't know why it never happened, we were very close, but when I got close she would push me away, if I backed off she would just look me up again, took me a long time to get over her. A while ago I saw her again, hadn't seen her for years and even though I don't want her anymore, it still hurt that she didn't even tell me why.
It will pass, but as for how long it's gonna take, it depends, but it's always hard when it's not something you wanted, I still want that girl that I last saw 5 months ago, I don't know when or if that will change, I'm sure she will eventually end up 'forgotten', but until then I guess I will just have to live with it.
Re: Split up after 4 years
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GohanSSJ
she wanted my friendship and she wanted sex
Sounds pretty good. Give her my number, will you? You keep being friends with her, and I'll take care of the rest.
Re: Split up after 4 years
Been having some rough patches with my girl as well. We're still together, but we're attending different colleges. It's hard getting by, but we manage. When we visit each other, it just seems a lot different now...
Re: Split up after 4 years
Went out last night and made myself feel better ;)
