need help with problems setting up a gunz private server :(

[Eryk Konefal]

Well guys im having a ton of problem setting up a private gunz server for me and some of my friends i downloaded a ton of stuff for sql database stuff, a lot of stuff i dont even know about and i attempted to set it up but in the end i failed so i decided to go back to this forum and try and get you guys to help so if you can add me on skype or steam and try and help me out because reading just hurts my head too much and i get really confused but if i get someone to talk me through it i might understand it .
also sorry for my bad english my first language is polish.
skype: koneflawer
you should find me with an arabic name.
steam:
purplepanda
eryk123621
not sure which one will work so i gave you both steam name and steam username.

[MentaL]

[GunZ Coder]

I added you on Skype . Ill help when you reply.