I can "grasp" them. I just know from being in the business for over 6 years that they're wrong. Yes, major labels are
evil. Everyone knows that, but they don't kill people. Like I said before all they care about is money. And I do know for a fact that A&R teams and Producers are the main reason artists get popular. Not because they're talented, but because they have the "look."
Take a gander at Kings of Leon for example. This is when they first started getting real press back in 2003. With their album "Youth and Young Manhood." This is what they looked, and sounded like back then. This is the sound that got them started getting fame in the UK, but it wasn't picking up in America, at all.
YouTube - Kings of Leon - Trani
SO an A&R team and a few producers later and this is what you get. The new and improved Kings of Leon.

YouTube - Kings Of Leon - Sex On Fire
Big fuckin difference. Now they are a huge sensation in America, because they totally changed they way they look and sound. That's what happens when you stop caring about your own music and let others write it for you. Sure their fans say that it's just their music "growing and expanding," but name 5 artists who actually cared about their music and not money, who changed that much.
All of that being said I am agreeing with you that almost nothing in this industry is real anymore. That just went to show it. As far as the Music biz killing people... that's just stupid.