I had same problems...
You can open ports set xlate-e.dat but still no go! WHY?
You are trying to connect to your server with your own WAN ip. Im no expert but you cant connect to your own server (in same network) with WAN ip. At least i cant! :)
So if you want to make a server for your friends and yourself just "create 2 servers" in xlate-e.dat.
PHP Code:
(serverlist ( name "Kalonline Server") ( IP "82.168.2.5") ( PORT "1234") (config "" "debug" "test2") (servernumber 1))
(serverlist ( name "Local Server Connection") ( IP "127.0.0.1") ( PORT "1234") (config "" "debug" "test2") (servernumber 2))
( IP "82.168.2.5") == your static ip. If you dont have static ip go make new account at no-ip. Create DNS and type that dns in.
( IP "127.0.0.1") == your computer ip. If you have 2 computers in same network and you are using 1st pc for playing and 2nd for server type in 2nd pc's ip in (192.168.1.3 or something)
( PORT "1234") == your forwarded port in router.
Your friends click server number 1
You click on server number 2
This worked for me.