Problem when placed on a web server winxp

[insteadof]

when I placed on a web server winxp
it's ok to link http://192.168.1.33gm/register.php
but the completion of registration can not connect to mysql
although I have the IP config in config.php
with ubuntu server ip is 192.168.1.250

<? //=====For MySQL Datatbase=====//

    $DBHost = "192.168.1.250";  // localhost or your IP
    $DBUser = "root";  // Database user
    $DBPassword = "123456789";  // Database password aringaso
    $DBName = "dbo";  // Database name
    $ServerIP = "192.168.1.250"; 
    $ServerPort = "29000";
?>

Warning: mysql_connect() [function.mysql-connect]: [2002] No connection could be made because the target machine actively (trying to connect via tcp://192.168.1.250:3306) in D:\desk\Desktop\lung tung\xampp\htdocs\gm\register.php on line 6

Warning: mysql_connect() [function.mysql-connect]: No connection could be made because the target machine actively refused it. in D:\desk\Desktop\lung tung\xampp\htdocs\gm\register.php on line 6 

I use xampp

[MentaL]

[angelmx]

Try to change the ip for 127.0.0.1 localhost

[tbnanubis]

active refuse may mean, it is there but does not allow connections from different places than localhost. lookup your my.cnf or other config and allow connections from the ip of your web server

[insteadof]

active refuse may mean, it is there but does not allow connections from different places than localhost. lookup your my.cnf or other config and allow connections from the ip of your web server

You can guide for me, how can such a result

[tbnanubis]

i try later, as i have no xampp here atm.. try this (taken from debian my.cnf)

#
# Instead of skip-networking the default is now to listen only on
# localhost which is more compatible and is not less secure.
# bind-address		= 127.0.0.1
#
# * Fine Tuning
#

change it to your network address of winxp and uncomment it.

[insteadof]

i try later, as i have no xampp here atm.. try this (taken from debian my.cnf)

#
# Instead of skip-networking the default is now to listen only on
# localhost which is more compatible and is not less secure.
# bind-address		= 127.0.0.1
#
# * Fine Tuning
#

change it to your network address of winxp and uncomment it.

sorry, but I found the frame my.cnf file in var \ www \
Where is it?

[tbnanubis]

look in the mysql config folder on your winxp machine.. it should be somewhere in your xampp folder

[insteadof]

oh I'm sorry, but it seems you have misunderstood the problem
I put mysql in ubuntu virtual server, and I just want to use a registration page on xampp running on another server is winxp

sorry my english is bad so I used google translate

[insteadof]

why
change $DBHost = "192.168.1.250"; // localhost or your IP
ip 192.168.1.250 don't work
and localhost or 127.0.0.1 good work

I want to use IP 192.168.1.250 winxp can connect to mysql in ubuntu, I have to do?