sorry rare I get on MSN I swap between 6 OS`s to much to stay on vent or MSN.
"your pw folder"\element\userdata\server\server.txt should be where you put it and copy and paste this (then alter the IP and keep the file structure)
Code:
Public 29000:yourserver.org 1
LAN 29000:192.168.1.101 2
file was moved in later versions(/patcher/server I do believe)
from what it sounds like you are using another servers client and they put the file in the exe or in another place(pck file is possible). If thats the case your out of luck without more programing know how.