well i kinda frustrated that people cant connect with my IP 
i've setup the server and client, they worked just fine when connected via local (127.0.0.1), LAN (192.x.x.x), and hamachi (5.183.x.x)
but every time i try with my 118.96.x.x IP it failed
this is me trying to login
and this is my friend trying to login
and by the way, my serverset setup was kind of like this
Code:
//---------------------------------------------------------------------------------
//Kind MapNo server Ip Server Port User Ip User Port
//---------------------------------------------------------------------------------
2 0 192.168.1.201 17001 192.168.1.201 17002 // agent
1 0 192.168.1.201 16001 192.168.1.201 16002 //distribute
and the client serverlist kind of like this
Code:
*USERSERVER 1 118.96.x.x 16002 "LUNALUNALUNA" 1
*CHANNELNUM 1 10
those setup made me able to login, but my friends can't 
I also tried to put my online IP ( 118.96.x.x) in the serverset
but it got error and crashed
this setup made neither me nor my friends to login 
and yes, my port is open and can be opened (http, mssql, mysql, ftp, whatever)
thank you for any help