Private server - WHAT THE HELL ????

Hey has anyone till now been able to set up a proper private server >>>????? :lamo:
I guess NO and if by chance if anybody was sucessful in making a private server PLZZZ tell us all the conf. u made and the softawre u used with its version.
I seriously wonder how the hell do the private server owners do set their servers ????:ohmy:
Its so damn confusing ,i worked for like hours to set up a server and got nowhere. :blowup:
If any body has had good luck with it then do post all ur conf. files WORD-BY-WORD if possible (u just need to copy-paste the content).
Or can sm one just upload the whole Ragnarok folder to make things easier (though the downloading will kill us anyway) :jason2:
And i beg anyone of u to PLZ give a complete-proper-up to date-working and tested guide or a (working)link to the it.
HELP USSSS :cry_1:

You should learn config normal eAthena for upgrading purpose later. If you do it once, you will find that it's quite easy :)

uhh dude you sound completly stupid zomg plx server files when there on the sticky. read the guide more carefully and then come back. If you cant do sql dont cry little a baby use txt