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Now for those who have mother in law or a father in law plz answer this.Do you hate yours?I am moving out of my home due to this antognistic father in law i dont want to know grrraawwwwarrRRRR!!!!!!! *calms down*
I felt better the moment i got my tennancy agreement in my hands lmao can do what the hell I want now,honest to god guys I was getting stress related pains from this guy thank god its over soon.Your comments are well deserving of my reading :P
Ehm... why are you living with your father in law? Or do you mean your stepdad?
yeah in law is other word for stepdad/mother etc.No I had no choice in the matter my mum married the idiot i had to live with it.Hes a self employed builder,he does shoddy work is my opinion a con man and lazy bum.The amount of his customers who ring on the phone and bang on the door demanding he finishes work is unbelievable.Also 2 brothers of a single mother of 2 kids bange don the door threatend him if he didnt refund some money.Bottom line is im out so i couldnt be arsed.Just wondered any1 elese had or have bad inlaws?
My mom has the same guy for near 4 years now i think, he is a really nice guy and i owe him big time, as i'm living from his money and all...
As for my dad, well i don't like the person he is with, i don't like her at all, she is also the reason why i'm living with my mom now.
Divorces can be hard on ppl. So you like you sort of stepdad much more then your regular father, WOW. Yea, I can notice how you would hate your dad's girlfriend, because she thinks she can boss you around or whatever. Tough to stay with one parent.
Ehm.. it's not like that, there is way more...
Thats what I thought, sure there is more and know you don't want to talk here about it. All I can say, hope things get better for you. :good:
Actually i don't mind talking about it, it's just that i don't care lol, don't worry, i'm fine with it now, doesn't bother me at all anymore.
i feel the same rly, my dad walked out abt 8 years ago, and i aint seen him for abt 5, he dnt wana make the effort so y shud i? hes woth a cow of a woman, and my step dad is much better thn my real dad, and without my step dad, i wudnt b on rz rite now
Well i still know my dad, i don't hate him, i can't hate him, it's how he grew up, it was really bad, his parents did some really weird stuff, and he has been out of house a few times too for years because they couldn't handle it all or something... it made him hard, he never shown emotion, i never seen it, neither has my mom.
He was always learned to be a man and stop the "stupid" stuff, which is why he never cared if we came home with something from school etc... it's just how he is.
In the end he is not a bad person, but he never really was a real father to me (not that my moms bf is though, he is just a nice guy)
Well except for about a year, it was the year after my parents divorced, he was really different, me and my dad lived together and my mom lived somewhere else with my 2 brothers.
It was weird, all these years he didn't gave a damn about us, but at the point he did, we did stuff together, he later got me a "new" bike (was second handed but was hardly used, you could see it on the tires), it was actually a good one, we also could get a second hand N64, since my brothers took the one we had i hadn't had one anymore, so i got that for my birthday, but it costed a lot more then i normally get.
But that wasn't the weirdest of all, i mean people can spend money, it's not that hard, although it is for my father as he really doesn't like spending money on others, but still, the weirdest was when i had a flat tire, now i had my new bike and my old one, normally when i had a flat tire i just had to do it myself, that time i didn't, he picked me up from where i had the flat tire, the next day he picked up a new one, changed it, repaired the other, so when i came outside (he likes sitting outside and all) he told me he had repaired it, it was so weird, all my life i had to do things myself, even when i was shit at it, and at that point i had no problems doing it myself, but he did it, it was so freaking weird.
And well this lasted untill that dumb bitch came around... her goal was to get me and everything that my dad shared with my mom gone, including the 2 pets, the pets are still there, but i'm not...
Anyway that's how my dad is, i can go cry on my bed about it, i can swear about it but it's all no use, i know how my dad is, i know what i can do with him, and what i can't do, and what kind of things there are attached with it, for example if you want to get something my dad also shares his hobby in then you can call him and you can have a nice day and buy what you want, however if you need something he doesn't care about, then don't look strange when he asks money for driving... i know it's stupid, but that's how it went when he was young too...
He was 15 when his brother died, his brother had a moped, and my dad wanted it, and well guess what... he had to actually pay for the moped of his dead brother...
Oh well shit happens, i got a mother that cares about me, and well i can live with it all.
i hate my mum let alone my in laws
Thats a touchy story you got there. Somehow you are like in between with your dad and things you do that are right, bothers him. As long as you keep your cool, should have no problems. Your brothers actually "stole" the N64 system just like that, thats fucked up, though the system sucked, lol. Anyway, dont know what else to say,
Lol, neh they didn't stole it, we had several consoles, and we had 1 N64, we couldn't just smash it in 2. ;)
All the shit I had goin on with my mum has completly gone. We're rite now and I put it down to my mum's bf (who lives here). He's a gr8 guy, to me he's like a farthery m8 if u know wot I mean lol. My dad moving out was bcoz of the incompatabilty of him and my mum......shit but inevitable. My dad's awesome, I've not had a single arguement with him of ne kind sinse he left my mum (this was years ago as well lol).
just think of your selfs has luckys cause u got somebody 2 take care of you, and that worries :mad: