I thought I was sleeping with a 22-year old...
...It turns out she was 17 and I didn't know her real name. :icon6:
Funny what you can get into when drunk at a nightclub..
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I thought I was sleeping with a 22-year old...
...It turns out she was 17 and I didn't know her real name. :icon6:
Funny what you can get into when drunk at a nightclub..
pics?
Wtg Negata! Visit you in prison?
The wonders of drinking, aye?
Lol, how did you find out?
We want pics, dude. :P
Umm I was a bit suscipious already back then but let it go as I didn't think age matters. When yesterday on a sms she mentioned high-school I thought it can't be. There's this photo gallery.. (IRC-Galleria) where you can find half the finnish teenagers, I went on it, searched for people in her hometown by the birthyear -89 which was confirmed to be her friend's. I found her friend, on the profile found her comments which linked to her own pics. B-day x.x.1990! Yeah, WTG me. To you guys it may not sound like such a big deal, but let's consider I'm 23. :ohmy: Well, it is NOT such a big deal but anyway... it was hilarious. Btw, legal age here is 16 so I'm dry. :mushy:Quote:
Originally Posted by Pieman
Oh, come on.. what kind of a guy do you all think I am? :huh:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lightcookie
Meh you're right. That kind. :icon6:Quote:
Originally Posted by Negata
IRC-Galleria - styde- (stydenten) (click the pic for more)
Please consider she looked older in plenty of make-up at the night club before hanging me :tongue:
Oh, and she appears to have a semi-bf, too.
triple post :D
topic: Ur such a sweet. how can i say.. hmm ^^
naked frog rofl
mm.. nice
yay
In the Nether lands you could be sued for child rape. Happens all the time, some guy turns 18 and his girlfriend is still 17, they have sex. And in the end he gets sued by her parents...
In the neverland? Yeah it's fucked up when they take written law and apply it literally to cases which it clearly wasn't created for. I haven't heard of such cases here in Finland though, although it must be because of the lower age limit, besides people here don't tend to abuse the justice system and take others to court for the smallest of things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pieman
the gal is nice so it AOK
i wouldQuote:
Originally Posted by Negata
if her boyfriend is 17 cant you go beat him up?
Haha.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pieman
Legal age = 15 ftw.
Nice catch neg,
Exactly the as the formula goes,
Blonde+boobs+ass = Nice girl =P
age limits ? whateva, if she's cute. Age limit would be a good argument if some ugly want to pick u up
QFT. i <3 u alfons u speak teh 7ru7hQuote:
Originally Posted by Alfons
I was waiting to post till you realized. :icon6:Quote:
Originally Posted by Negata
Nvm, blonde girls sucks! haha
OMG everybody in this thread is lame spammer
It doesn't happen that much, not even to mention that a judge rarely goes in favor of the parents.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pieman
An 18 year old and a 17 year old just isn't considered wrong by anyone, and since it wasn't rape (or the age wouldn't even be a issue) it's not something a guy would be locked up for.
In 99% of the cases when a 18 year old and a 17 year old have sex it's because they want to, just because the parents get pissed doesn't mean the 18 year old gets locked up, it just doesn't.
Vengeful, look at the section' s name. ;)
she looks like she's 16....
good job :thumbsup:
No offense, but why are you all congratulating him for sleeping with a young girl? It ain't exactly an accomplishment, nor is it 1 to be proud off. I'm not going to take the moral highground or anything, but don't make a bigger deal out of it then it is.
Pfft... why are you ruining it. :sad:Quote:
Originally Posted by GohanRZ
Because when people start congratulating you, and even saying that she's looks 16, then i wonder where it ends? Will they congratulate you for sleeping with a 16 year old? A 15 year old? A 14 year old? Where is the line drawn for them not to think it's great.
And i'm not saying you do this, but these days there are way to many guys in their low twenties that are screwing 14 and 15 year old girls and thinking it's actually cool, which is not, now if you thought she was 22 and ended up being 17 then it ain't that bad, but there is a reason why in most countries they don't consider someone an adult at 18, the fact that she lied about her age says more then enough about her maturity.
Again i'm not judging you or anything, but i think most people in this topic need to draw a line for themselves, as i for one wouldn't want to sleep with a 17 year old girl.
Age of consent where I live is 16. And if you're saying that you wouldn't bang a 17 year old who would be a senior in high school you've gotta be gay. Even if you are 22. (or so your profile birthday says anyways.)Quote:
Originally Posted by GohanRZ
If the age of consent where you live is in the 18 range then yeah, that's a bit different as you'd see people as sex offenders and what not, like I do if somebody sleeps with somebody under 16. If that's so sorry for calling you gay. :P
It's not the law that stops me, it's me who does.
It doesn't matter what the age of consent is, the only thing that changes is wether it's illegal or not. The simple fact is that most 17 year olds are immature, even if they sound and act mature, most of the girls that you pick up like that are huge sluts and are just fucking up their life, and i won't be a part of that.
It says 21 as i am 21, won't be 22 for another month.Quote:
And if you're saying that you wouldn't bang a 17 year old who would be a senior in high school you've gotta be gay. Even if you are 22. (or so your profile birthday says anyways.)
But why does that make me gay? What kind of stupid comment is that, i'm gay because i won't sleep with immature girls that fuck up their life?
And come on, high school? I haven't been there for 6 years, i'll stick with girls who are out of high school and are old enough to make rational choices, girls that are constantly fucking guys while lying about their age ARE NOT INCLUDED IN THAT.
You know, in the first 2 years after high school people really change, except ofcourse when they turn into college sluts, but usually people grow more mature and make rational choices.
A good point there.Quote:
Originally Posted by GohanRZ
She had a good reason though, she was in the club with her sister's ID, her sister would've been that 22. I don't consider it bad she was 17 because when I look back I see my impression of her as the 22-year old she passed for in my mind. I don't know how much different it'd be if I had known it before.Quote:
now if you thought she was 22 and ended up being 17 then it ain't that bad .... the fact that she lied about her age says more then enough about her maturity.
Would I see a 17-year old again? Nah, but I might see this particular one if she can act up to my expectations from someone who ought to be 20+.
Well... I'm sure most of them are just joking around. Besides, ~16 year old girls tend to be pretty, not that I'd touch one intentionally, but for the average ragezoner it's perfectly within the age range.Quote:
Again i'm not judging you or anything, but i think most people in this topic need to draw a line for themselves, as i for one wouldn't want to sleep with a 17 year old girl.
She gave you the impression that she was older then she really was in a club? Sorry but that's no good, for her not to appear like a 17 year old for a few hours doesn't exactly say much, and i'm guessing you both had some to drink, so i really wouldn't value that expierence much.Quote:
She had a good reason though, she was in the club with her sister's ID, her sister would've been that 22. I don't consider it bad she was 17 because when I look back I see my impression of her as the 22-year old she passed for in my mind. I don't know how much different it'd be if I had known it before.
Would I see a 17-year old again? Nah, but I might see this particular one if she can act up to my expectations from someone who ought to be 20+.
Also using a sisters ID to get in a club isn't something that shows off her maturity either.
Simple fact is that if i walk upto someone and i tell them i'm 25 then nobody will doubt me, nor would they if i said i was 18. For a girl to pretend to be 22 instead of 17 isn't a hard accomplishment at all, a 15 year old with a proper developed body can pull 22 off, but it doesn't mean they are mature.
You didn't quite get my point. I mean if she still appears like a 20-year old I have no problem with it.
I have a girlfriend 2 1/2 years older than me. Let's hope no one gets sued or arrested once she turns 18.
Nuklear even a pig doesn't want to have sex with you. give up.
Please use the correct terms then as you used "act" and "appear", even in this sentence.Quote:
Originally Posted by Negata
But what you mean is if she is mature enough. But to return to the point i made before, if she felt she had to lie about her age and have sex with you while thinking she was older (she might have lied to get in, but that doesn't she couldn't tell you later on before you had sex), then that really say plenty about her maturity.
Why are you turning this into such a big deal? This whole thread was basically a joke and you're turning it into some huge moral issue.
It's her life, and her choice. Just because she likes to have sex doesn't mean she's immature. You're making yourself sound like some nerd living in your mom's basement. jesus...
I'm starting to agree here... I mean I wouldn't have posted about having had sex with a 22-year old, and I wouldn't have posted if I had had it with a 17-year old. I really was greatly amused by how the facts came to me and along with that laughed at myself for having been deceived by a child. Sure, it was an exciting thing after a 1Quote:
Originally Posted by DaCheat
How can it be a joke when it's true? Not to mention that in most of these supposed jokes there is a lot of truth.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaCheat
You obviously don't care how old the girl is and wether she's mature or not, if by law 12 year old girls were legal, then how young would they have to be before you say no?
As for maturity, let's put the few facts that we got here:
-She is still in highschool, not a place where maturity gets encouraged
-She's 17, and thus still in her puberty phase
-She lies about her age to have 1 night stands
Oh yeah, this is screaming maturity.
Btw you're a moderator, telling me i'm gay and a nerd doesn't fit with that position, and since i haven't called you any names i expect to get the same treatment aswell. If you don't care to discuss this then just ignore me or just tell me it and move on.
Negata didn't know how old she was, he didn't do anything what anyone (well except extremely religious people and all) would consider wrong, but to take advantage of a girl still in her puberty phase is pretty low, hence why there are laws in place in quite a few countries.
I just don't like people who try to push their moral beliefs on other people like you're doing. I mean who the f*ck cares... I mean really. You could have said what you did in your last post and been done with it. That's fine and dandy, everybody is entitled to their opinions, but when you start telling other people what is right and wrong is where I draw the line.
I say no when it's illegal for it to happen in my state. Or wherever I'm happening to live at the time. (as of now, 16 is the age of consent.) Like we say, 15 gets you 20. Meaning if the girl is 15, you get 20 years in a federal pound me in the ass prison.Quote:
You obviously don't care how old the girl is and whether she's mature or not, if by law 12 year old girls were legal, then how young would they have to be before you say no?
When people live in different places, people have different beliefs and moral standards. So for you to tell somebody what is right and wrong, is just stupid.
You might say she is immature, and I agree with you that most teenagers are, but she was mature enough to get what she wanted. Even if that meant lying. You should be in college and know for a fact what girls do to get what they want. True she's 17 but 1 grade difference isn't that big of a change.
Sex is sex, it isn't a big deal. Only the Catholic church tries to make it one. (but that's an entirely different debate.)
p.s. Sticks and stones my friend, but I will with hold from calling you other names due to your wishes.
pie anyone?
Cream Pie? :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Liselotte
It was about the fact that people were congratulating him for having sex with a 17 year old girl, even if it was done in a playful matter, it does show the attitude of people towards this kind of thing, and to simply not care is 1 thing, but to congratulate goes way to far, because then you are just saying that you liked what he did, and i do believe that is a wrong approach.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaCheat
So like i said, what if 12 is the new legal age, what then? Where do you draw the line, or do just hump whatever is allowed by law?Quote:
Originally Posted by DaCheat
Why, a 17 year old here is still in puberty, a girl in America is still in puberty and so are they in the middle east, it just doesn't matter.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaCheat
There are many countries where girls are used by man because it's normal there, but it doesn't mean it's right. Aslong as a person is not capable of making a real rational decision, then i don't believe you should take advantage of it, and trust me, a lot of girls regret their actions later on, and many of them have that feeling around 20, as then they start maturing.
Mature enough to get what she wanted? A 17 year old had drunken sex with a guy who she lied to about her age, there is nothing mature about it, infact it's really immature.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaCheat
It kinda is, high school is extremely superficial, college can be aswell, it depends really, but if you get to a regular working place with people that are also 10-20+ years older then you, then that superficiality changes soon, in a year a person usually made some big steps forward.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaCheat
Add another 1-2 years and you will see a major change.
I will admit that your last point in your last post was somewhat correct, but you have to remember it completely depends on the person, and if they're willing to change. Even if they work with people 10-20 years older then them, you have to be willing to take the sacrifices to make the changes. It does just automatically happen. You have to change your lifestyle for the better or the worse.
Seems I have to change my approach here a bit.Quote:
Originally Posted by GohanRZ
You've said many times, "to congratulate goes way to far," and " I do believe that is a wrong approach." and other variants of these statements.
I say so what, and who cares? It is clear that you do, but do Negata, me, or anybody for that matter, have to give a rats ass about what you think? No. Which is why pushing your beliefs like this is pointless.
We can argue this all day... Everybody is right, and everybody is wrong. What could be wrong in someone's country could be right in someone elses, and visa versa. Different states/countries, different belief systems, so get over it.
Harsh thing to say? Maybe, but even you cannot deny that fact.
I say we agree to disagree and stop this, for it has already gone too far.