any tips on coping with death? my sister died today and i don't feel like going to a consoler or anything of that sort.
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any tips on coping with death? my sister died today and i don't feel like going to a consoler or anything of that sort.
Ah terribly sorry Ron, Really sad that happened to you man...
What happened to her?
I never say this unless I need to, and it needs to be said now. You really need to learn to shut up.Quote:
Originally Posted by Unie
Ron, each person deals with it in their own way it's gonna feel shit now but brace yourself because it's gonna hit you hard like a brick wall in a day or two...
Yeh that was kind of out of line in my opinion, He isn't you, He may not even be like you, And he's trying to deal with somoene close to him. He asked how to cope with the death of a loved one, Not "Please come to my thread and act 'hard'"Quote:
Originally Posted by Unie
Do you have any common sense whatsoever....your a failure.Quote:
Originally Posted by Unie
@Ron - Sorry to hear that T.T , best thing to do i think is to try to just talk with your family. You guys should be together at a time like this.
your going to hell and i fucking hate you....tbhQuote:
Originally Posted by Unie
On topic: sorry ron, lost my dad a couple years back, and i know what its like. like dandune said, brace yourself cause when reality sets it, its like an emotional overload
moved to outerworld and I'm going to delete certain posts and infract a few mother fuckers.
anyway, sorry about your sister man, coping with death is never easy and tbh it's really quite impossible.
you can't just cope with death, you need to be able to move on but before you can you have to mourn.
mourn for as long as it takes for you to realise all the good memories you've had and that even in her death she still means as much.
All you people that said "Stfu" Or "Your a failure" I don't really care, Everyone dies, Everyone deals with it. Millions of people die every day, Do you give them the value of a doubt. Me and whoosh talked about this. Plus he posted in the spamzilla section before it was moved. Not trying to flame, Just trying to get people to be quiet.
I do give them the benefit of the doubt, always.
when something like this happens you don't act like a know it all little shit, grow the fuck up.
GTFO this topic!Quote:
Originally Posted by Unie
Somebody please delete these posts that have nothing to do with ron or his sister
My grand mother once told me:
"The day you hear someone you loved has passed away, 40 knives enter your back, each passing day, 1 knife is removed, the 40th knife, will remain there for the rest of your life to remind you of that person"
I'm really sorry to hear this, Do try to get your mind away from it, it might help, be thankful about the good times you had.
Rest in Peace.
My thoughts are with you and your family...
Sorry to hear the ron =/
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Originally Posted by Sipher
Your grandmother is/was quite possibly a genius.
I'm sorry to hear that =/ Really am.
Sorry to hear this shit bro. <3
I wub you!
Unie
GTFO
I honestly care about Ron, We don't talk a whole lot, but we got a few things in common, And I honestly think it was damned rude of you to tell him to just get over it. He's mourning over a lost one, that's his choice, and I support it, He quite apparently was close to his sister, And he lost her, It's true that a million people die every day, but it's not a million people you are close to.
Oh sorry to hear that Ron.. I know its really hard to lose someone that close to you :(
All am gonna say is - Wherever your sister is now, she'll only want you to be happy and the least you could do for her is to be happy yourself coz that'd definitely make her happy.
Sad that she had to part with you in body, but she will never in heart and soul. Stay strong buddy.
Beautiful :)Quote:
Originally Posted by iNs@nE
thanks for the words of affection guys. means a lot to me.
Agreed.
Stay strong Ron.
I'll try not to annoy you so much on MSN, I feel bad for ya man...
Even though I jus msged you :S
But I'll stop now, Again; Really sorry about your loss..
Ron, it's tough and unbearable losing someone (my grandpa and my dog), and I know it's going to be a while before your emotions clear up. I was never really close (personally) when my grandfather died, but when I saw him in the hospital and when I saw him in the casket at the funeral, I couldn't help but swell up in tears and just sat there.
All in all just try to remember the best times you have, even if it means remembering recent events. If anything play something on your sax that'll remind you of her :)
my dog, on the other hand..:\ well I was with her for 11 years...that's a long time to be devoted to something to have it taken away from you :( but in the end she was blind and losing hair, it only seemed fair that she needed to go.
if you need to talk to me on msn bud, I'll try to be on sometime.
I'm so sorry to hear that.
Allow yourself to grief, give yourself that room.
Man, I can't imagine losing a sibling tbh. Im really sorry for you're loss. What Sipher says is true, the grief will stop eventually - the the thought of you'r sister will always remain.
-Jay
Sorry to hear your sister go Ron buddy. Its hard to deal with someone so close disappearing so fast.
I wish you the best of luck in the future. - And this is the soft hearted me.
<3