[Ascent] I can connect fine but other people can't

Okay, not sure if I will sound like a total noob or not but...
I can connect fine but other people get stuck at the realm list.
They can see my server but it wont let them get on...
Anyone know whats going on? =P

are your ports forwarded correctly?
if you dont know how to go to
portforward.com or something

Edit: nevermind