Ascent - Complete Noob, no idea what to do.

I am completely new to this whole thing, when i connect to my server it shows me the realm. I can select it but then it just says "Trying to connect to the game server" and returns me to realm selection screen after a couple of seconds.

Anyone can help me with this it would be much appreciated.

Post your Ascent.conf and realm.conf files if you could?

-Emerged

you have set something wrong :)