ok well i screwed this life up

so i sit here and ponder about what im doing after high school while i post this and i realize ive wasted my time on games, internet, and mainly computer but i know very little about it, just the basics.

my education sucks the big one, health/stamina is null/void, my experience socially is minimal to my school friends, i rarely am spontaneous.

i have no plans for the future, dunno if i can even graduate next year b/c i will fail my english 30 a and/or b, i hate most my family that is on my fathers side and my mothers is gone away.

i have no clue where to start to change this. any idea's Rz?

I'm pretty much the same, but I have another year to fix it, and I am not doing so bad in school. I'll worry about it later.

Do some form of martial arts, always good fun + self discipline is learnt, which could help you. My favorite, although not really practical in real life unless you carry the bokken around with you, is Kendo.

Other then that, not really sure, however other people will probably offer suggestions.

Joining the army would force you to learn discipline. And they pay for your university.

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Originally Posted by TimTheLord

Joining the army would force you to learn discipline. And they pay for your university.

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As long as you don't mind being treated like shit, higher chances of death etc. I would rather work at maccas for the rest of my life then join the army.

Go to university for free, then go into the army/air force/navy for two years then go on with what you did in university, or continue your army/air force/navy role. You can get some pretty good jobs without being in the front line.

Move to Scotland and go to University for free.

If you were to go to college and fix up your grades a bit, I reckon you might be alright.

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Originally Posted by Laz-low

Move to Scotland and go to University for free.

If you were to go to college and fix up your grades a bit, I reckon you might be alright.

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Scotland? why would anyone wanna go to that dump?

Start in the bathroom, look for a "rzr".

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Originally Posted by Thrill_Machine

Scotland? why would anyone wanna go to that dump?

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Wtf u talking about! :@ Scotland ftw.

I'm pretty much relying on my music and writing.
Though my grades weren't half bad in high school, actually they were okay, I just never really considered a career I'd find tedious and boring.

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Scotland? why would anyone wanna go to that dump?

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Hey fuck you, Scotland's better than your shit hole.

You can always change. Just have to want to.

What are your current qualifications/school exam levels?

um no clue what your talking about

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Originally Posted by Ionic & Schizo

You can always change. Just have to want to.

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Best advice I've seen for a long time.

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Originally Posted by LordDemonMan

Start in the bathroom, look for a "rzr".

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Very subtle.

You gay mofo, you can change right now! You're young... Go out, make new friends... About your professional future, just choose a course which you feel comfortable and doesn't require marks... Cheer up!

I was depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend and we had been together for 3 long years. I stopped going out, I lost ALL my friends, sucked at school. But enough of that... I'm now making new and getting back my old friends, starting a new life... Gah! No more fucking depressing, that's for the weak

Meh, i won't even go to college.

Ofc, you could go out and socialise, make new friends etc etc. But from what I know, your a valued member here, and we'd miss you if you weren't here so often, that's not to say that we dont wish you luck with everything outside of this mystical world.

Hmm..

You life sounds alot like mine.

Im not pretty looking, im a computer nerd, i prefer stay home from school and be on rz, im not the athletic type if u know what i mean xD

But atleast i do great in school, and i got my best friends who are always there.

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You gay mofo, you can change right now! You're young... Go out, make new friends...

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ugh but that means i got to hang with douchbags and jocks

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About your professional future, just choose a course which you feel comfortable and doesn't require marks... Cheer up!

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got any ideas?

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Originally Posted by Canon116

Ofc, you could go out and socialise, make new friends etc etc. But from what I know, your a valued member here, and we'd miss you if you weren't here so often, that's not to say that we dont wish you luck with everything outside of this mystical world.

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wow did not expect a mod to respect me...

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got any ideas?

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Here in Denmark, theres education schools called "CEUS". Contains educations from plummer to computer technigian.

And you dont need Marks to go there.

Isnt there something like that where ur from?

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ugh but that means i got to hang with douchbags and jocks



got any ideas?



wow did not expect a mod to respect me...

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Dude if anything I'd be more shocked to recieve respect from you, your a nice enough guy, and being a mod doesnt give anyone a good reason to show disrespect. Least of all to yourself :winky:

A good start would be to tell us your natural skills, like are you good at woodwork, handiwork, fixing things etc etc

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so i sit here and ponder about what im doing after high school while i post this and i realize ive wasted my time on games, internet, and mainly computer but i know very little about it, just the basics.

my education sucks the big one, health/stamina is null/void, my experience socially is minimal to my school friends, i rarely am spontaneous.

i have no plans for the future, dunno if i can even graduate next year b/c i will fail my english 30 a and/or b, i hate most my family that is on my fathers side and my mothers is gone away.

i have no clue where to start to change this. any idea's Rz?

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I was exactly the same as you, it takes time but you can turn it around. I'm now doing A Level Computer Engineering, in a relationship & am happy for once. Just keep at it and you'll pull through eventually.

Where to start? Well by the sound of it you're gonna fail your exams but that doesn't mean this is gonna go to waste, try and get as much out of your exams as possible. If you do fail them it just means that you've got to spend an extra year building your qualifications back up on a low-level college course, then you can go onto higher levels.

I would recommend stacking up your options, all the things that are possible for you to do once you leave highschool, and then pick out the options that you feel suit you best.
Then maybe ask a friend or relative how they think you would get on with your choices, and what their thoughts are, taking all this into consideration, make a wise decision, and i'm sure you will ;~)

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Where to start? Well by the sound of it you're gonna fail your exams but that doesn't mean this is gonna go to waste, try and get as much out of your exams as possible. If you do fail them it just means that you've got to spend an extra year building your qualifications back up on a low-level college course, then you can go onto higher levels.

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i am in grade 11 of 12 grades and i only got 4 classes this semester and i can exempt(get out of) one of them so if i get rid of english that leaves me with accounting, computer science, and CPT (video making class) so my exams are going to be easy just getting my life together will be hard

If you're worried about your social life or future of it then don't, you'll be lucky if you keep in touch with 2-3 of the people you know right now from School.