Help me i got problem with my flyff pserver.....

I made a flyffpserver to play with my cousin i do allright login server character server world server run ok
when i login my acc in the game then i choose my character then i press ok it say connecting please wait
then try it again still same it wont go in the game it keep saying connecting please wait i waited 3 hour nothing happens please help me if u had hamachi join my network FlyForTrouble pass flyff
or if u have yahoomessenger add me al_thunder22 or email me a reply in my email alisterdalogdog@yahoo.com
please help me i realy need help.....sry for my english im not good....please reply.............