I dated this girl for a year exactly. I thought I was in love with her, and whatever. Anyways, at the start of our relationship, like in the first month, she cheated on me, and I let it slide. About four months in, she went to a movie with another guy, and held his hand the whole time, and they went in a photo booth and felt each other up and all kinds of stuff. I broke up with her over that, but we made up a few weeks after.
Anyways, we made it to the eleven month point, and I had to move to New York. We decided we'd try long distance. Lots of other girls came onto me, and there was one who kissed me. I told my girlfriend back home about it, and she broke up with me for it. I didn't even kiss her back!
So for a while, when we had broken up, I was all hung up on her still, trying to get her back, while she's trying to convince me to move on and whatever. So last week I was visiting my hometown, and I saw her. She came onto me, and started kissing me, and kept trying to make out (yeah, I wouldn't make out with her.. I just let her give me pecks on the cheeks and whatever).
And before I saw her, she had been doing shit with other guys, just so you know. Which is why I decided to move on.
Anyways, we had a good day when I saw her when I was visiting. So I aske dher to hang out again two days later. After she's done touching me, kissing me, all kinds of stuff, she decides to tell me all about her other guy friends. Which she later tells me was a hint that she didn't want me anymore, and was using me so she could 'have some fun' while I was there.
Now, I'm finally moving on and stuff, and last night I was on MSN. She came on, and started talking, insulting me. She likes to do this a lot now. So she was telling me all about her other guys, and how good of a girl she is, and how bad I am. I told her to leave me alone, and that I'm trying to forget her. After, out of nowhere, she goes:
"Meet me outside your grandparents on the 31st. I'm going to give you back a box of your shit (ring, necklase, bear, rose, pictures.. (that I bought for her)), oh, and if you're not there, your grandparents will be very angry with you."
So I ask her what she's going to do, and she said if I'm not there, then I'll find all of my presents that I had given her in the past broken on my lawn, their house 'fucked up', things broken outside.. etc. (she has lots of senior friends who live around there)
I guess I'm just going to grab my shit, and tell her to leave.. She's just trying to make my life harder. She gets jealous when I start liking other girls.
What should I do about her? Should I just let her do her little stunt, and call the cops?
My grandparents have a one hundred thousand dollar (or over) RV (camper), and she even threatened to do stuff to that. What the hell is wrong with her? I asked her why she'd do stuff to my grandparents to hurt them, and she says "well.. I'm not flying to NY to do stuff to your house, so hopefully this will make them mad at you."..
She keeps telling me that she enjoys doing this, and it makes her feel much better about herself.
Suggestions, comments..?
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Sorry for the long read.
Oh, and she tells me it's all my fault for cheating, and not fighting hard enough for her back after we broke up. I did everything for her to try to get her back.
