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I've got big problems with a girl who lives 5000km away from me.
She takes drugs, alcohol, smokes, and is only 15, on a regular basis. I dont know what to do about her... and i love her.
What the hell am i supposed to do??? I want her off drugs and to live a better life and shit..
Some people are stubborn... :/ I'm afriad there may be nothing you CAN do except tell her that you want her to stop and why. >.<
Good luck!
you still have plenty to live , and well if she's 15 ... and err i suppose you have same age , so dont bother you're too young , 5000k distance eheh with that age , how often do you guys see eachother ?
P.s.: not being a little messy why she needs to cut out the drugs and not the smoke and alcohol ? :)
5000 km lol. Thats alot of distance between each other. Anywayz howd you meet her?
first of all .... make sure u can trust here , that she telling the truth about her
second .... just say what you think about it ....
third.... where does she lives ?
as a dreamy answer;
if you believe your self, go find her and try to help IF you know her well and it's that worthy.
as a mature answer;
i say, first 'em all, she is quite young for kinda love. and you have a long way to walk in life still. and don't worry a lot.
there is nothing u can do as ur no way near her
talkin to her will do nothing
What would be best is to walk away, in the end there is only a extremely small percentage that it will ever work out, and even then you could just find a girl near you who you will also love.
But since that not a option as all human beings, myself included, are complete retards when you are talking about love you are pretty much screwed, and you will untill you will piss each other off and block each other.
You're right tho :PQuote:
Originally Posted by GohanSSJ
Many more girls out there.
And being that she is 15 *how old are you* she has plenty of girly things to experience and her body as well as her thoughts are going to change in the next couple of years so theres a chance she'll change but give her time and don't try to force her or she'll own you good and you'll be broken hearted
walk out and forgett it, it will take time to forgett and it will be hard to do nothing for u.
But i promise after a time it will work, 6 of my best friends has died the under 2 years and everytime someone dies the old memories come up, ive been working with this alot to forgett and move on and its hard, nothing is easy in life when it comes to love and friendship.
i think that 15 is a bit too young to try and change her because she's at a stage where she is going to experiement, experience what everyone else does because of peer pressure and only way you are going to help her if you are actually going to be there in front of her. The least you can do is at least tell her your there for her and encourage to do something different or try something different. Because at 14/15 years old a girl is still going thru mind and body changes and it confused about what to do with herself yet. just take your time with her, she might come round and see that all this is not going to help and that she can do much better things with her life :)
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Originally Posted by GohanSSJ
just agree no comment. i would say forget about her! since a lot people posted above me i wont post huge post cause you know what you will do anyway ;)
LP, it's not that i don't like being called the best, but what's up with it, last time someone called me the best, they smoked all the marijuana that the police confiscated from Whitney Houston, and we all know she has some serious amounts of that shit.
nope its nothing with it just i sometimes feel like i have to be fan of someone youre the right person thats allQuote:
Originally Posted by GohanSSJ
Meh.. well, i cant just leave her... lol.
I'll try n explain..
her best friend was the g/f of my best friend, bla bla bla, normal shit scenario, me n my best friend went down to see her ( sorry.. lol, its not 5000km, more like 1000...but still..) had some fun, and my besties g/f flirted with me, stuff like that, rubbing against me in front of him.. bla bla. he was totally pissed, she dumped him, coz he got a bit too jealous, so yeah.
then MY bestie started talkin to his ex's best friend, became kind of like an item, then i talked to her, found out why she was in2 him, became good friends, then... the worst fucking thing possible happened, SHE told me she liked me more than him, and i just got totally pissed, coz thats 2 girls in a row stolen from me bestie. that was about 4 months ago.. and that girl and me r still together, but now she's in2 drugs.. fuck.