Omg wtf plx help!!11

Ok, since the forum info says "anything and everything goes", i decided to just post this in here xD

I've got a HUGE FAWKOFF problem with something XD

I've met this girl online, on some chatsite, and started talking to her.. she's NOWHERE near me, so us ever meeting up is probably as likely to happen as me getting into heaven.. but anyway

As of late, i'm starting to talk to her more and more often..
when yesterday, i start steering the conversation to a more "erotic" side.. not knowing if she realized it, it ended up going a LOT further, and i believe i wrote enough to fill up 5 A4 papers, making this CRAZY roleplay up as i went along..

now i get the L bomb dropped on my ass.. WTF?

Anyone any suggestions? XD :grr:

Have you physically seen this "girl" or is it a G.I.R.L? Either way, I'll be serious for a sec. If you don't feel the same way, then don't say you do. Simple as that.

Nah i can guarantee you that she's an actual girl n stuff.. not done the webcam thing, as that's way below my level, but i dunno xD

she's not that young anymore, nor is she a full blown adult.. don't get me wrong tho.. she's not a kid or anything rofl.. but is it even possible to get attached to someone that fast? xD

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Sometimes looks itself can undo the L-Bomb.

Sound's like she used you.

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Originally Posted by cinos11

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Thanks for that compliment.. and she has seen a pic of me.. doesnt help tho..

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Originally Posted by MentaL

Sound's like she used you.

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I don't mind, dude xD If more females would "use" me in this way, without dropping the L-Bomb, I would not give a monkey's arse! :D

So you want to contiune with the (erotic) chat but do not want the L word?

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Originally Posted by R3aper

So you want to contiune with the (erotic) chat but do not want the L word?

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No lol.. I have no idea how the eroticness actually came to be.. it just came up for some weird reason.. and before i know it, i read a lot of m's and o's on the screen.. o_O

I wouldn't get involved int his online stuff myself, its not worth all the hassle but if she ends up taking off her wizard hat and robe then you'll need to watch out.

My mom told me not to speak to strangers ..

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Originally Posted by MentaL

I wouldn't get involved int his online stuff myself, its not worth all the hassle but if she ends up taking off her wizard hat and robe then you'll need to watch out.

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Fair enough.. Specially cos i don't know what level she ends up being..
but on a serious note.. What do you mean with that xD

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Originally Posted by Xx3n0xX

Fair enough.. Specially cos i don't know what level she ends up being..
but on a serious note.. What do you mean with that xD

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Let me educate you on old school hilarity; http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/text/bloodninja

You are 23 years old, right? You flirt with a girl that is "not that young anymore, nor is she a full blown adult". They are extremely dependent at that age. Of course she falls heads-over-heels for you. That is the reason we have statutory rape law. They cannot be held liable for their actions. What you are doing is morally wrong. You are preying on a girl that does not know better.

Whatever, I'd take my chances and get her address. Morals can't suck your dick. Just prepare yourself to run if Chris Hansen shows up.

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Originally Posted by Mr.Lucifer

You are 23 years old, right? You flirt with a girl that is "not that young anymore, nor is she a full blown adult". They are extremely dependent at that age. Of course she falls heads-over-heels for you. That is the reason we have statutory rape law. They cannot be held liable for their actions. What you are doing is morally wrong. You are preying on a girl that does not know better.

Whatever, I'd take my chances and get her address. Morals can't suck your dick. Just prepare yourself to run if Chris Hansen shows up.

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leave please

Who hasn't met and chatted to a girl (or G.I.R.L) over the internet, text roleplayed and had the L bomb dropped?

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Originally Posted by Mr.Lucifer

You are 23 years old, right? You flirt with a girl that is "not that young anymore, nor is she a full blown adult". They are extremely dependent at that age. Of course she falls heads-over-heels for you. That is the reason we have statutory rape law. They cannot be held liable for their actions. What you are doing is morally wrong. You are preying on a girl that does not know better.

Whatever, I'd take my chances and get her address. Morals can't suck your dick. Just prepare yourself to run if Chris Hansen shows up.

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Rofl that actually made my laugh..

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Originally Posted by Flameingskull

Who hasn't met and chatted to a girl (or G.I.R.L) over the internet, text roleplayed and had the L bomb dropped?

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Err I think quite a few people here? o_O

is she a vegetarian? if yes ask to toss her salad.

if she is a hard core les then your SOL. sometimes you just need to give them a reason to crave D over V so they turn BI. (wish there was more BI girls in this work)

I'm not into getting into these 'chatlines' online. Not saying your desperate or anything, but it's full of crazy people and girls wanting to use their virginity. Nevermind the amount of paedophiles that them sites have.

How secure is this online dating website? Well I think you should get to know each other more, girls are girls, they could trick you and stuff

Um... exactly how old is she?

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Originally Posted by holthelper

is she a vegetarian? if yes ask to toss her salad.

if she is a hard core les then your SOL. sometimes you just need to give them a reason to crave D over V so they turn BI. (wish there was more BI girls in this work)

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Errr I'm confused here... o_O

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Originally Posted by Doraemon

How secure is this online dating website? Well I think you should get to know each other more, girls are girls, they could trick you and stuff

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Lol it's not a dating website lol... it's a CHAT site.. totally different xD

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Errr I'm confused here... o_O[COLOR="Silver"]

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Ignore him, he's just being an idiot.

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Originally Posted by Yamachi

Ignore him, he's just being an idiot.

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Uhm.. ok.. I still dont get it

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I'm not into getting into these 'chatlines' online. Not saying your desperate or anything, but it's full of crazy people and girls wanting to use their virginity. Nevermind the amount of paedophiles that them sites have.

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I realise this is completely off topic but you really need to change your avatar.

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Originally Posted by Flameingskull

I realise this is completely off topic but you really need to change your avatar.

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60+ posts and still a base avatar? o_O
Anyway..

Anyone else anthing helpfull to contribute?

How is using a webcam below your level, but having a text-gasm not?

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Originally Posted by Xx3n0xX

60+ posts and still a base avatar? o_O
Anyway..

Anyone else anthing helpfull to contribute?

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It has nothing to do with base avatars.

Well, if your never going to get to that 'webcam' stage then you won't get too far with her.

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Originally Posted by Flameingskull

I realise this is completely off topic but you really need to change your avatar.

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Agreed, that avatar is for Akaruz, and him only.

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Well, if your never going to get to that 'webcam' stage then you won't get too far with her.

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Getting too far doesn't have anything to do with it lol. It's already happened.. what would you do in a situation like this? xD

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Getting too far doesn't have anything to do with it lol. It's already happened.. what would you do in a situation like this? xD

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I don't know what to do. I wouldn't stay with her if I or her was too shy to meet up.

I still want to know how old/young this girl is...

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I still want to know how old/young this girl is...

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or.. if it might be a paedophile or a transvestite.

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I still want to know how old/young this girl is...

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Lol i already mentioned that in an earlier post :P
she's 17, nearly 18

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Originally Posted by JamieUK1

or.. if it might be a paedophile or a transvestite.

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I'm not a peadophile, and she's not a transvestite :P

You didn't say her age in this thread. That's why I asked again. Anyways, if she's 17 and you live in the USA, you should really stop chatting her up and cybering with her...

Well 18 would be mature, I don't see the issue other then the law in USA, its just chattin anyway >.>

You're never going to meet her, you're not getting any interesting pictures or even a little web cam action. My recommendation is to stop wasting time posting about a completely irrelevant problem, find another girl, preferably closer to home and get to work. :thumbup1: Or if you're wanting a friendship then why does it matter if she's a lesbian? Fantastic! Tell her you want first dibs on her new video collection.

Everything can be worked to an advantage. :wink:

My suggestion is for you not look for love on the internet. Seriously, if you want to meet someone that you can truly love, or have a good time with, go to the park or to the bar, or whatever.

I find it hard to believe that people can say they love each other over the internet when they haven't spent 1 moment together in real life..(not including webcam cybering, vent chats, etc, etc).

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My suggestion is for you not look for love on the internet. Seriously, if you want to meet someone that you can truly love, or have a good time with, go to the park or to the bar, or whatever.

I find it hard to believe that people can say they love each other over the internet when they haven't spent 1 moment together in real life..(not including webcam cybering, vent chats, etc, etc).

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While I completely agree, my fiancé was a random add on Facebook just over a year and a half ago. :thumbup1: However she lived two bus journeys away so it is different.

While I believe that a strong bond can be built up online even through web cam and programs such as Skype, it's rare that it's really going to go anywhere. Get out there and get hunting. :wink:

You basically are wasting you're own time if you cant be bothered doing anything with her, do you even know her real age? If not, don't you think its about time to ask? Your missing out on some action with her (if shes old enough) and you should atleast meet up if you are doing to see eachother, or it will never work out. I dont go on these chat-up sites because you never know what you will find, i have been on one once and had a bad experience.

Like Mattio said, ofc it's possible. but to be fair alot of guys would like the attention in RL from a girl like that =P so then for a girl to do it on the net to a guy she don't even know it's abit odd ? Should just ignore, love doesnt happen overnight, lol.

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I find it hard to believe that people can say they love each other over the internet when they haven't spent 1 moment together in real life..(not including webcam cybering, vent chats, etc, etc).

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Well, believe it. I met my wife on a webcam chat site. She was from Canada, I was from the US. I speak first hand when I say it is possible to love someone without having physically touched them. There's an emotional and mental aspect to relationships as well, and it can be stimulated just the same in an online relationship. And no, I'm not some ugly 40 year old fattard that couldn't get a girl in my own area. They just didn't do it for me emotionally and mentally.

The 'L-bomb' isn't so serious online, I mean, for someone you haven't met? For someone you can't hold in your arms? You couldn't possibly really mean it even if you do say it.

So why not stick to <3 ? Its like e-love <3.
If she drops the 'L-bomb' and you feel uncomfortable saying it back, then drop a little <3. Why not? I mean, you enjoy the time together, whatever you did right? Who cares if it never progresses, if you never meet her or if you don't webcam chat or whatever. Definitely be true to yourself, if you aren't uncomfortable with it, don't do it (or say it). But keep in mind there are many different meanings of love.

Don't completely dismiss meeting people online. But really I hope you don't plan your whole life around someone online either. I mean, I met my roommate online, but I really didn't know I'd move here until we'd known each other for 2 and a half years (and had met in person.)

Wait, I'm 100% serious when I say this... the L bomb was Love? I swear to god i been going through this thread thinking it was Lebsian, lol!

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Wait, I'm 100% serious when I say this... the L bomb was Love? I swear to god i been going through this thread thinking it was Lebsian, lol!

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That's because you're a pervert :P

Don't get involved with these dating sites mate, Would memory's would you rather have with your wife?

Meeting on a dating site?

Meeting in Real life?

Think about it.

Wow.. I had no idea that people actually think i'm from amewica... It's ENGLAND I live in.. not the US of effing A... The law is kinda different here. It's not 18. it's 16 here, and wtf.. a lesbian, people? seriously? you think it would bother me if i was talking to a lesbian? goddamn.. But yeah.. thanks for all the replies.. it's really helpfull to know that i should ask a lesbian for her video collection, or that i have to wait till a girl turns 18 if i lived the USA..
wow.. i think i should stop asking crazy shit on RZ.. this is turning rather weird.. o_O

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While I completely agree, my fiancé was a random add on Facebook just over a year and a half ago. :thumbup1: However she lived two bus journeys away so it is different.

While I believe that a strong bond can be built up online even through web cam and programs such as Skype, it's rare that it's really going to go anywhere. Get out there and get hunting. :wink:

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Well, believe it. I met my wife on a webcam chat site. She was from Canada, I was from the US. I speak first hand when I say it is possible to love someone without having physically touched them. There's an emotional and mental aspect to relationships as well, and it can be stimulated just the same in an online relationship. And no, I'm not some ugly 40 year old fattard that couldn't get a girl in my own area. They just didn't do it for me emotionally and mentally.

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I too met my fiance online, we went to the same highschool but only met eachother on our school's Myspace message board. After several weeks/months of chatting on MSN & occasionally stopping by the school (i had graduated, she still had 2 years left) to hang out, she told a mutual friend that she was into me so i asked her out.

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This one's better :3

http://forum.ragezone.com/attachment...1&d=1313998752

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Wow.. I had no idea that people actually think i'm from amewica... It's ENGLAND I live in.. not the US of effing A... The law is kinda different here. It's not 18. it's 16 here, and wtf.. a lesbian, people? seriously? you think it would bother me if i was talking to a lesbian? goddamn.. But yeah.. thanks for all the replies.. it's really helpfull to know that i should ask a lesbian for her video collection, or that i have to wait till a girl turns 18 if i lived the USA..
wow.. i think i should stop asking crazy shit on RZ.. this is turning rather weird.. o_O

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girls say i love you all the time, they don't mean it. hotdog down a skag den

Yea, In this case I wouldnt go for this girl, but thats up to you. Hard choise tho, HOW far away are we talking? :p
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:O rebora2007 is right don't talk to strangers

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