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So i'm starting to like someone in my class but i want to know her better.
We talk a lot but there are many awkward silences.
What can i do to let them stop?
My problem with girls is that after talking for a while i'm just empty and don't have anything more to say and that triggers the silences.
What to do at those moments?
Say whatever is on your mind...If the doesn't like your personality or what you're saying, then she might as well fuck off.
Play with her fingers while you are thinking of something to talk about. Just do not stop giving her attention when an awkward silence appears, you can look her in the eyes and smile or something (can be hard sometimes to keep looking at her)
Oh and ask questions.
thanks :dQuote:
Originally Posted by Elian.
questions like what?
Like Grub said. This is sorta how I go about it; if she can't be bothered, fuck off please. I'll just go to the next girl.
Just be yourself.
Talk about her last period, chicks dig that
thanks for your advice!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Ramuthra
Awkward silences should be rewarded with a fart.
make her join RZ, then you can talk about gaming, gamer chicks is such a turn on
/drool
11 months yesterday with mine :P
Honestly...? In my opinion if awkward silence's appears then you shouldnt even bother lol, i only date with peepz that i can talk with 24/7 about everything, and we always have a topic to talk about, that means u both are perfect for each other
Trust me, you don't want to go out there unless you're a hundred percent sure you're not gonna screw that up. Awkward silence only shows if you're shy and stuff, be confident and just go smooth, and yeah IF ever awkward silence shows up just smile to her, works like charm.
Do whatever you think is right.
if you run out of things to talk about then keep asking her questions about herself, if she asks why say you find her intresting and want to know more about her, beware of making a creepy voice when doing this or she might think you're a stalker/serial rapist. If she doesn't think you're a stalker then she should answer the question, keep asking her stuff until she asks more about you and you've got yourself a genuine conversation, throw in a few jokes that are actually funny here and there and you should be fine.
Just began to ask her questions or just talk about something you like and see if she likes it or whatever, try to find more stuff in common instead of just talking about random things all the time.