Is it gay?

So i was in love with this girl but i never had the courage to go to her so she got tired of waiting and moved on , and it hurt so I tried to forget, It worked but my feelings never went away. I had a relationship with another girl after that but it didn't work out because i didn't have feelings for her . Obviously I always wondered why i don't feel that feeling when you really like someone but i didn't know until I met her again and this time she's in the same class with me and I finally felt something when I saw her , now where friends but I obviously want to step up but she has a bf and I don't know what to do , I'm not gonna break them up because that's just simply fucked up .

Do I just stay friends with her or Ignore her?

Owh yeah I'm kind of dating this chick now , I am interested again in relationships after seeing her , I thought I would go to therapy but I think I why I was not interested anymore , I just wanted to ask the girl if we would work out if I had the courage

Btw I'm 18 , I know I sound crazy and I also think I'm crazy but I just want to make sure if anyone else had this , even for a little while , I had this for 4 years

Stay friends with her till she breaks up with her bf then "BOOM" go into her life. (If you're single and still love her)

>Become best friends
>They break up
>After break up call for a booty call
> ????

How does this have anything to do with homosexuality? Unless of course your female, but I get the impression your male.

Either go for it or don't. Either way don't fret over it too much.

Every good relationships starts with friendship. Just don't try to end up in the Friendzone.

Until today, all I know is you can't force someone to like you, if you're going to be in the Friendzone, you just can't do shit about it.
However, as I heard in the movie "Lord of war", "you can't force somebody to fall in love with you, but you can surely improve your odds". Be a good man, be funny (chicks dig that...), anyway you're a big man you're gonna figure it out.

Become the BFF and mess with her head :blush:

Friendzoned

That is all.

One question. Would you rather be friends with her or have nothing at all there?

lol, this is sooo usual problem, if you are too friendly, you'll surely get friendzoned :O

So gay.

Just stay friends with her, don't be too flirty with her since you're both in relationships.

Good luck dude.

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Originally Posted by WhoSays

How does this have anything to do with homosexuality? Unless of course your female, but I get the impression your male.

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This.

No, it's not gay at all.. If you're going to try and make them break up with each-other then that shows nothing but jealousy. It's your fault for not making your move sooner.

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Originally Posted by Tyler

One question. Would you rather be friends with her or have nothing at all there?

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Frankly that's the worst question a person should be asking themselves.

The problem is that when you are in love with your friend, you will only feel good when you get the attention from her that you want, but the second you are apart the hurt will come in because you know what you are missing. This doesn't mean it's wrong to do it, we've all done it at times and if not, then you probably will at some point.

The whole friendship before a relationship is only partially true, if the connection is strong enough then that friendship can never last long, the last girl I wanted to be friend to (was a colleague of mine), lasted about a week before my feelings got really strong for her (I had known her longer, but never really connected with her - she had a bf so I couldn't really be bothered).

There are 4 options here:

- Pursue her - yes it's a shit move if she has a bf, I can't say I agree with it, but then again if I really felt she was the one, then maybe I would do it and let the choice be hers.
- Tell her how you feel and tell her that if she's ever single again to look you up, break of the contact from that point on - if you do this, then make sure you realize that she may never contact you, don't go hoping next to the phone the next couple of years...
- Stay friends with and wait for your time - aside from getting friendzoned with the chance of never getting out of there, this will hurt you like a bitch, this will mess up your life and you will hate yourself for being in that position.
- Put distance between you and her - this will hurt like a bitch as well, but it might be the best for her and eventually you will move on.

Of course before you do any of this, make sure her relationship is good, feel her out, see if she thinks she has a future with him.

Depending on how she feels about him, I would opt for 1 or 2, if her relationship isn't that good, then pursue her, if it is good, then at least let her know, that way she has all the info and she can decide what she wants.
While it might seem like a shit move if she were to break up with him, but you can also think about it from a different angle, if he's the one for her, then she won't break up with him and then you at least have your answer, how hard it might be. And trust me, from all that I've experienced is that not having your answer, is worse then anything.

Smash it

Today was kind of an weird day , I met her today in class and she kissed me twice , I asked her what that was for she told me 1 is for my birthday and the other was for the birthday present she never got from me , I obviously went to check my text history and i saw that someone texted her to meet with me and i finally found out that my twin brother told her how i felt about her ( she thought he was me) so now my work is done for me , only thing now is to move it to the next level

Friendzoning has become such an overused meme. Well, to be honest, all memes are overused.
I was "friendzoned" a while back and now I've been dating the same girl for almost 2 years now. Why? I didn't give a damn. I wasn't looking for someone to dry my ballsack with, I was looking for someone that would understand me, who'd enjoy my company (and me hers) and helped me through my shit. I did. I found a friend, which later on became my bestfriend. I loved her, she knew it, she rejected me, I was good with her friendship. One thing lead to another and we started dating.

I'm not saying this might happen to everyone - not every fairy tale has an happy ending. But is being "friendzoned" as bad as you guys make it seem? No.. it's not.. unless she's a total bitch.

This goes for both males and females: don't throw your heart out for something that you know it's not worth it.

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Originally Posted by 50vil

Today was kind of an weird day , I met her today in class and she kissed me twice , I asked her what that was for she told me 1 is for my birthday and the other was for the birthday present she never got from me , I obviously went to check my text history and i saw that someone texted her to meet with me and i finally found out that my twin brother told her how i felt about her ( she thought he was me) so now my work is done for me , only thing now is to move it to the next level

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Sounds like she's wet for you (if it all happened as I like to imagine things).

I got out of the friendzone only by becoming a good friend to her, there's no other way, you can't make her like you just by being a bitch like saying "I don't think I can handle being your friend :( I'm sorry we should stop talking" this will end up breaking every relation you had with her.

Stay a good friend to her, and you might one day be lucky, it worked for me..

Whatever your heart tells you to do

Nothing worse than drama

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Originally Posted by rebora2007

I got out of the friendzone only by becoming a good friend to her, there's no other way, you can't make her like you just by being a bitch like saying "I don't think I can handle being your friend :( I'm sorry we should stop talking" this will end up breaking every relation you had with her.

Stay a good friend to her, and you might one day be lucky, it worked for me..

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How is that being a bitch? That's honesty. It was like that for me with the last girl I fell for, it just really hurt not being that close with her, it's not something I could handle. I know she had a tough time with that, but it wasn't healthy for me.

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Originally Posted by 50vil

Today was kind of an weird day , I met her today in class and she kissed me twice , I asked her what that was for she told me 1 is for my birthday and the other was for the birthday present she never got from me , I obviously went to check my text history and i saw that someone texted her to meet with me and i finally found out that my twin brother told her how i felt about her ( she thought he was me) so now my work is done for me , only thing now is to move it to the next level

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You better move a level up , you know your a bitch to not tell me you still loved her that's why you refused to go out with so many girls , i thought you where gay , hardest part was that i had to read it on ragezone I'm your brother why couldn't you tell me asshole

~resource

Yes it's gay, you're clearly homosexual for being confused about girls.

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Is it gay?

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of course it is.

Remind me how deciding between two women makes you attracted to men.

Forget about her.

Totally gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! :congrats:

I sometimes come to ragezone with my problems, then I realise.

Ragezone doesn't give a fuck about your problems.

i think you should revert to homosexuality

















call me any time <3
jk

^Wasn't even joking

Call him, do it. He'll rock your socks off.

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Originally Posted by th3

i think you should revert to homosexuality

















call me any time <3
jk

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