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Yester my sister gave birth to her new son, her second child.
And this past week, my eldest sister has been diagnosed with cervical cancer... where if worst comes to worst, she won't be able to have kids [Uterus to be removed]... Which is sad, because she's halfway through her 30s and has been looking for 'Mr Right' to which she has... nice fella. But now probably too late to have a child, to which she'd be devastated... :(:
So, yeah... Life can be ironically cruel.
Sadly fucked up things happen :S
Let's hope for the best!
Btw congrats with your nephew!
I know, right! Just today I was looking for a fork to dig into a chicken but had to settle for a spoon! The result was not beautiful.
Seriously though, very sorry to hear that. I wouldn't take such news very well myself. :(
I am really sorry to hear about your sister, you should spend more time with her just to help her feel better.
Congratulations on the nephew!Quote:
Originally Posted by Daedius
Life can be cruel, and cancer is a real bad thing but just remember, removal of the uterus is a great thing to do, it's better to prevent the loss of her life than give the ability to create life!
Don't worry about things, reassuring yourself helps a lot during tough times. We're here for you and your family and I'm sure your friends are too, best wishes.
Fantastic news on the newborn, unfortunate news on the older sister. If you need someone to talk to, you can message me. I don't know much about terminal illness, or the coping after receiving the news thereof; but I'm always there to listen.
Good luck, friend.
oh no :(
I hope for the best with your sister and new nephew:):
Life was made to be challenging.. you walk through fire everyday.. but once you outcome it.. you'll emerge as gold out of the fire
Life is also precious and short.. treasure every single moment with loved ones..
Okay, be right back, I'm gonna go walk through fire to become gold.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tyreal
If they save some of her eggs, it's entirely possible to have a surrogate mother grow the foetus. We live in the 21st century, it's no biggie these days.
You be surprised how of little comfort that is to a women who faces the possibility of becoming infertile. In fact, I can almost promise you it will hurt more. It may seem strange to people who may never have to face that prospect but to those that do its like nothing you can imagine. I've spoke to people like this and for some reason telling them things like this, something which is meant to be positive, just hurts for them and they spiral off into unanswered questions of "why can't I be like of the other women?".Quote:
Originally Posted by Robert
I just wanted say congarts to your nephew but really be there for this woman as she will be in considerable pain if the worse happens. *hugs*
Aw shit man, poor sister of yours.. :( congratz on your nephew though... Maybe they could adopt one? Me and my wife always considered this as an option.
Any updates on your new nephew?
I would still be devastated. I want to carry my own children, feel them kicking ect.Quote:
Originally Posted by Robert
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I understand what you mean (as much as a male can) and hopefully soon research into growing "spare parts" for the body will have developed enough so that we will be able to grow new organs to replace those that go bad!Quote:
Originally Posted by ChewBecca
Daedius I'm very sorry to hear about your eldest sister, hopefully she is ok and with support she will be able to get through the hard times.