About a girl

Okay this off topic but, I FINALLY MADE IT TO 5000 WOO!

Anyway, I know what I'm doing when it comes to women, well I like to think I do(not trying to be cocky).

Basically every since my last serious relationship, I've had a lot of trouble staying interested in a girl, I've dated 2 girls and slept with many which all seem to become boring and I just really don't see myself staying committed.. To be honest that's because I wanted my ex back no other girl was matching up to her (why the fuck did I break up with her WAH haha), however I've been talking to this girl since last Sunday, she makes me laugh all day whilst texting her and we really just clicked, and I can see myself actually committing and not being a total douchebag and leaving her in a month or so, but.. This weekend I went out night clubbing to catch up with her, I got really drunk.... And I don't know whether or not I made a fool out of myself, though I did kiss her haha.


During my drunken adventures I manage to lose my phone and my wallet (good job krutface), and the next morning I did apologies (via facebook) to this girl about my drunkness which she replied that I was fine and not to worry. So I thought everything was okay? but it doesn't feel the same, I mean it could be the fact that I don't have a phone now so our ways to chat is now limitted to facebook, or the fact that she's really hungover and tired in dead kind of mood, oh and she's current got a few essays coming up in university so she maybe a bit busy, but still I'm worried lol, I really have a keen eye on this girl and I mean I don't want to fuck shit up..

NOW finally, why I posted this? I just am kinda asking whether I should worry? I mean I know it's only been one day since the drunken antics, maybe I should give it more time see how we talk then? OH and I forgot to mention I said that she was fun and I'd really like to catch up with her again which she agreed to.. Maybe I am worrying, I just kinda wanted to vent. It just feels so real unlike my other rebounds and choices I've made previously.

Well I'm sure I can speak for myself and a lot others in this forum when I say that you're not the only one who's gone through this. I know the feeling of not wanting something great to end with a girl. I managed to fuck up a good 98% of the times I've felt that; mainly by worrying like yourself, and texting/calling too much, etc.

If you've actually clicked like you said you have, something as petty as a drunk weekend won't fuck that up, I promise. This sounds incredibly cliche, but time really is the best healer. Just give it time, she's more than likely busy with all the other stuff in her life right now.

It's really easy to be clingy and want to experience the feeling of "clicking" more, but it fucks it over a good majority of the time. Do something to distract yourself for a couple days, get your phone back, and see where it goes from there.

Yeah cheers mate, there's no problems, it's just me haha.

I've been organizing my stuff out anyway so that's been keeping me distracted even so much for her to come to me ;) haha so yeah just my worring self getting the better of me.

I read your thread yesterday and wanted to say something but figured as it had been 18 hours since you created it you probably had the answer already. And not like I could help anyway not knowing the situation... but I agree with Chris, many times you just need to give it time and remain confident. Becoming too involved and clingy backfires so easily which I know too well myself. Of course this is like telling you not to think of the thing you want to think about which makes you think about it even more, so just... I guess you should do everything you ever wanted to or needed to do for yourself right now.

Calm down Kurt! She's busy, you don't have a phone, life is good. Just try to relax, get another phone, and go with the flow. Its a little early to be so obsessed/upset over someone, but its good that you are thinking ahead. You seem like a pretty nice / fun / outgoing guy, and I'm sure this girl sees that too.

Thank guys, to help I've been telling myself the same things :P haha, I will be giving her plenty of space and let things just happen.

Calm down man, haha. If she senses you're being too budging or overly-worried, she'll probably lose interest. That's one thing you don't want. Let a day or two go by and then re-communicate with her.

Keep us updated.

Haha I know I'm just so happy it's been so long that I've had a real interest for someone :p.

Currently on day 1 haven't said anything to her and it's 6:30pm gotta have an early night ;). 3am start tomorrow.

Just remember, if she's used to having you start a convo, then she'll wait on you to make your move. I've made the mistake of expecting the girl to take the initiative, since we started getting along pretty nice, but ended up messing it all. Give her some space, but remember to keep in touch.

Kurt's in loooooooooove

LOVE BUG HAS STRUCK,

No updates yet ;).

Don't end up in the friend zone! The last girl I was interested in we started talking, etc. and she said I was like a brother to her and her best friend. That fucked it all up haha

Got friendzoned haha, however it's still early days and I've broken a friendzone barrier before, it's all because my actions on last saturday night.

I can fix this though.

Friendzoned? Nothing to see here, move on.

Haha, :p I've gotten out of "he's like a brother to me" before, and this girls worth a bit of a battle so :p I'm not going to give up just yet ;).