Advice, urgent

[Akai]

A girl, who's been in my Japanese class since last year, and this year. Well by accident we talked ONCE on Friday, and talked a lot that day in class. Then we added each other on facebook and just messaged each other constantly. We literally became best friends, it was just unbelievable. It was so obvious that we liked each other. I went to her house today and we just hang out, and we eventually told each other we liked eachother, and later that night, I kissed her. It's just amazing, we're so alike, it's just...amazing.

Anyways, her friends are what I'm just freaking out about. They are going to pound me with questions and I'm just not prepared for that yet O_O. Plus they think it's way to fast, which I can understand. But just...how do you talk or make conversations with your girlfriends friends (she's my gf now!).

 

[Dandune]

Well, saying "Hello" would be a good start... Just answer their questions (carefully) and try not to be rude/sexist or whatever around them, just generally be yourself. Different topics will come & go so if you're like your girlfriend then you probably like the same bands etc...


Congratulations, your dream has come true :icon6:

 

[Madison]

Akai, just be yourself.

You have something important in common with them, you care about this girl, keep that in mind. The worst thing they probably fear is that she will start spending more time with you than them.

Just my thoughts anyway, good luck

 

[Kurt]

agree with madison.

But, yeah I be my self I'm normally a funny person to be around, So yeah if you are to don't be afraid to be that person because they're just people they'll probably be afraid of meeting you to.

 

[Exploit101]

This is why I love my school... majority of my year is in my group of friends (Like, only about 100 people in my year & about 40-50 of us hang out together) and I generally get along with them, So everyones friends.. if that makes any sense

Anyways, Just be yourself you'll be fine!

Cheers, Exploit.

 

[Vendaku~Metal]

Yep. Don't try to be anything you're not mate. If they don't like you, **** em. Literally! hmy:

 

[Aaron]

Yea, just be yourself. That's the reason why she likes you in the first place. As for her friends, just ... Try to leave them be.. Unless they talk to you first

 

[exclamatio]

i always used to write answer on the inside of my arm, under my sleeve, upside down on my chest so i could look under my shirt, inbetween ur middle fingers is good too, easy to hide

just take it as it comes mate ull be fine, its not a test

 

[Flameingskull]

just be natural about it, thy may be her friends but at the end of the day it's up to you two on what you do.

 

[TriumpH]

the only think that i say is rushing something would be having sex before you know each other, just take it lightly and be yourself those are just chicks and you can hendle them easyly

 

[Iron Maiden]

Go to school drunk. Let your "true" feelings be made known in the most explicit of ways! And the great part is...if you get hammered enough...you won't remember any of it. Which is awesome.

 

[Negata]

i always used to write answer on the inside of my arm, under my sleeve, upside down on my chest so i could look under my shirt, inbetween ur middle fingers is good too, easy to hide

just take it as it comes mate ull be fine, its not a test

Ah I do the same all the time, except I write all the possible questions and answers between lines of some study material. That way I don't only have all the correct answers but also appear to be a very hard-working and reliable person! Besides, if an awkward silence takes place you can always pop some good trivia from whatever you're "reading". There's a slight risk they don't like the utter geek you'll seem to be but hey only 1% of all girls don't prefer a study worm over a football player or whatever. :tongue:

Those surprising bondings are interesting, it happened to me aswell, although the situation was a bit different. I didn't take any stress from it, just kept flowing through life as if nothing had happened, being the jerk I am these days. She loves me. :icon6:

 

[-Legend-]

I just stick around really, Kazz friends are cool. but just don't bump into them

 

[linklink88]

If they are her friends they will probably like the same things about you that she does. So just be yourself or whatever you are to get her to like you and DO NOT IN ANY WAY make them think you are hitting on them. Will get you in trouble believe me. Also keep a bit of a low profile, it's not your friends, atleast not yet

GL with everything Keep us informed

 

[omerta]

Go to school drunk. Let your "true" feelings be made known in the most explicit of ways! And the great part is...if you get hammered enough...you won't remember any of it. Which is awesome.

only problem is that if you declare your love for a teacher you tend to get ripped forever

EDIT: not a personal experience

 

[The_Gatekeeper_]

lol close on omerta. I've wanted to milf many of my teachers it's not funny . Now back on the topic, good job there Akai, you stud and that's how it all starts, just by talking to each other.

 

[GohanSSJ]

i always used to write answer on the inside of my arm, under my sleeve, upside down on my chest so i could look under my shirt, inbetween ur middle fingers is good too, easy to hide

just take it as it comes mate ull be fine, its not a test

Ofcourse try not to flip them off while trying to read between your fingers.

Also if you're not sure how to answer then ask if you can call someone, remove 2 options or ask a large group of people what they think!

 

[Akai]

We were at lunch and after me and my friends got done, went to her table. Fucking, crowded. Like 10 girls at her table, all staring at me while I say "holly crap your table is crowded". I'm terrible at making conversation, even with my gf. hah.

 

[Ionic & Schizo]

Dead baby jokes don't go down well.

 

[I Rule MU]

Like everyone said. Be yourself.

And dont make a mistake that i made....dont flirt with ur gf's freind.