ArcEmu on 1 comp, Xampp and MySQL on another Ascent

[ExitWound]

Me and my friend are trying to host a server. I would've had it hosted already but Verizon automatically blocks all the html ports even if I forward them. So I sent the site and MySQL to him. We've changed just about everything we thought needed to be changed. I made him a no-ip.com account and created a host for him and he updated it to his ip. He forwarded all ports, ran Apache and MySQL, and I could not connect through my computer using Navicat to the database. I changed my connection properties and it still says:

2003 - Can't connect to MySQL server on '*******.servegame.com' (10061)

I'm not sure what to do at this point. Can somebody please help me?
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[Ae0n.nL]

Create a new mysql account with all rights, when you installed you probably didnt fill the checkbox that said: "Allow root to connect from remote" <- not an exact quote, but you probably understand what I ment there. If that does not help, try connecting with sqlyog - your error will contain a number between brackets, you should post that number over here.