I actually read a topic on fetishes 2 days ago, many people described things they like, but they aren't fetishes, anyway this was a post by a person about it
"fetish: : an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.
In other words, people who are saying they have a fetish for "white skin" Are you unable to properly copulate if your partner is lacking in very pale white skin?
Threesomes are a fantasy, not a fetish. Unless you're actually unable to have sex lacking a third person... THEN it'd be a fetish."
And another post by that same user...
"Usually, when someone has a fetish, it's the cause of some childhood trauma, or strange sexual experience, you're not BORN with fetishes. So if you have a foot fetish, there was something in your childhood that made feet attractive to you.
[RANT]Like I said before though, lots of people are NOT putting in fetishes... previous poster said "latinas". That sounds MUCH more like a PREFERENCE than a fetish...
FETISHES ARE WEIRD... I think a lot of you missed this one...
Well, okay, not so much weird, as in some way shape or form abnormal. Bondage is a fetish, foot obsession is a fetish, S&M is a fetish, domination/submission is a fetish, dressing up as a baby (diaper and all) and shitting yourself for sexual gratification is a fetish, f***ing your stuffed animals is a fetish (plushophiles), dressing up as a bear/cat/fox/bunny when you f*** is a fetish, an OBSESSION with anal or oral sex is a fetish (not I say obsession, in other words, you can't reach sexual gratification WITHOUT it)...
Liking people of a specific ethnic group is NOT a fetish, liking round butts is not a fetish, liking big boobs is not a fetish, liking a particular hair length is not a fetish, wanting a threesome is not a fetish...
This thread was disturbingly poorly named, or the people posting didn't get it... either way, about 75%+ of the posts in here"