Old School Operations
Legend
Before I get started I just want to say, I'm a little young to be getting into serious relationships I know, so please don't reply saying something like "You shouldn't be thinking about this at your age". I'm looking for advice on what to do, not replies with getting scolded about my age.
Alright, well me and my girl are having a little bit of a problem. A few days ago I went over to her house after school to watch a movie. Her parents and her sister were gone so we were there alone. In the middle of the movie we started making out. We got a little too into it and I started to finger her. We actually got "a little too into it" three times that day. Now onto the problem. She suddenly calls today saying that she regrets what happened Thursday (the day we watched the movie). She keeps saying stuff like how she thinks our relationship is going to go in a weird direction because of what we did at such an early age. She says that "nothing will be the same anymore." Shes right, nothing will really be the same anymore but the problem is that because of what we did, it may cause us to break up. I really love her and when I went over to her house that day I had no intention of things going that far, I just can't seem to find a way to tell her that I'm not some pervert that just wants to "play around" all the time. I love her a lot and I'd do anything for her, I just can't show her that I want more than just to "play around".
Can someone give me some advice on how to show her I think of her more than just a "play toy"? She means a lot to me and losing her would really hurt.
Alright, well me and my girl are having a little bit of a problem. A few days ago I went over to her house after school to watch a movie. Her parents and her sister were gone so we were there alone. In the middle of the movie we started making out. We got a little too into it and I started to finger her. We actually got "a little too into it" three times that day. Now onto the problem. She suddenly calls today saying that she regrets what happened Thursday (the day we watched the movie). She keeps saying stuff like how she thinks our relationship is going to go in a weird direction because of what we did at such an early age. She says that "nothing will be the same anymore." Shes right, nothing will really be the same anymore but the problem is that because of what we did, it may cause us to break up. I really love her and when I went over to her house that day I had no intention of things going that far, I just can't seem to find a way to tell her that I'm not some pervert that just wants to "play around" all the time. I love her a lot and I'd do anything for her, I just can't show her that I want more than just to "play around".
Can someone give me some advice on how to show her I think of her more than just a "play toy"? She means a lot to me and losing her would really hurt.