alrite here is solution : P after i muged around and got its working
**first** login server shut down , try to open D:\a3server\LoginServer\LoginDB.* the Appfix Package then edit your SA password there
**second**now open D:\a3server\LoginAgent\LoginAgent.txt if u see msg liked TSBasicConnectorList.AddConnector failed .. and that means the BDE that included in the a3servEng.exe doesnt work...so try find the nbd.zip that came out before the a3severeng
and install it and that will fix it
**last hope** D:\a3server\LoginAgent\AllowIP.txt edit that with ur ip mine is 192.168.0.1
or if u are running on local put127.0.0.1
etc.
192.168.0.1
192.168.0.2
192.168.0.3
as above and at last Login Server ShutDown is gone : P ieieie
well thats might help