Help T_T

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Please anybody help me...i want to create my own ojm/ojn...im using NoteTool, can manage to making note in sync with the music...but the prob is when after i save it there is no sound... i followed the guide by some ppl here in the forum, now there is sound, but the sound looks crappy and looks slower to begin..what i mean is note first then the sound...please solve this
Plus any1 please make a guide step to step about making that ojm/ojn like :
1. What should i use? WAV file ,OGG file or both?
2. Saving, like when to save, where to save, and what to do next
3. Adding image to the song, like when is the right time to add image on the song, 1st or 2nd save? What is the minimum size for the image?
I appreciate any1 who wants to help...please dont reply by i dont know please, im getting frustrated here T_T
PS : To the GM i hope its the correct spot to post this thread...sorry bout the last time
PSS : To GM again, i ask this prob doesnt mean i have or want to make any private server for your understanding
PSSS : Sorry if im look harsh
PSSSS : To any1 who wants to help me. if u dont wanna want to share this at forum, can PM me or at YM. I appreciate any kind of help ^^