This is what these people are doing. They are jumping in to the water head first without knowing how to swim. They are trying to make a server and they don't know how to code.
That'd be like me trying to make one in pure ASM. I don't know ASM as well as I'd like to but I wouldn't go to an ASM help forum and ask them how to do things that are way above me because then they'd have to explain every step and detail when there are tutorials and examples out there to do it. If these people can't figure things out for themselves how are they supposed to maintain their server? By asking people for help.
There's a fine line between can and can't when it comes to coding. You either can or you can't. Most of these people can't which is why there are so many questions about "how to". It takes a certain intelligence to be able to do some of the things coding requires. There are people like my friend who struggle with coding and have difficulties understanding these concepts and can't put 2 and 2 together. Then there are people like those you question "why won't you help people" who can grasp the concept in seconds flat.
Here's an example and reason why most people don't help.
Most people here fall under the can't category.
To explain something such as pointers to them, you can't just say "a pointer is a variable storing the memory address to another variable". Someone who "can" would understand that quickly. Anyone else would be "huh?" "what?". I've seen it many times. I've explained coding concepts to so many people and those that can't understand end up giving up. To people who "can't" you not only have to explain the concept, but then do it all for them. "I get it now. Can you fix this?" well you apparently didn't understand if you can't do it. You have to spend your time giving them help, then you have to help them again when they muck it up, then you have to help them again when they want to know something else.
I can understand not everyone can teach themselves, but damnit, everyone CAN research. I offer unlimited help to everyone and those I help know it. What I don't do is do your work for you. If you can show me that you CAN, I help. I helped my friend develop an entire base for his emulator of another game because he knows how to code and can show me he knows. Some of these concepts were just knew to him and he needed to see them in action. Others have asked me for help and I more than willingly help. I just don't have the time to help you make your entire server step by step.
PLUS, dual wielding 2handers are not part of the game. That is an "extra feature". Figure the damn thing out yourself. If people gave out the answers to "extra features" then no server would be unique.