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Right...Bebo has really played its usefulness card lol. I'll explain...

I've not used my Bebo account now in what's coming on to about 5, almost 6months. All I do (If I ever remember) is update my profile with my latest pictures :P.

The other day I log on to my Bebo, I have a few mails so I check them. And one is from some random lass so I give it read and long story short she like what she saw so she wanted to "get the ball rolling" with me so to speak. The problem is...she sent me this mail about 6weeks ago :/ so when I replied to her email I didn't think she'd actually get back to me because of how long it took me to get back to her.

So anyways, last night she emailed me back. Told me about her self etc, she also said she's having a party this weekend which apparently she has once a month down at her place I think. She also mentioned that she'd like to get a coffee with me sometime which sounded alright and I'm all up for.

Anyways she gave me a link to a profile on another site to see what she looks like etc in the email she sent me. And guys I sware...this chick is smoking hot lol (Well I think so anyway).

So by this point, your all problerly wondering why the hell I've made this thread ? Pretty simply really, if you hadn't guessed. I've got a feeling inside that all is not what it seems if you all understand ? I mean how do I know this isn't just some greasy old man whos a sexual predator or that just wants to stab me or something 0.o ?

Considering she wants me to come to a party she's having this weekend when I've only just started speaking to her seems a lil wierd in my eyes. Although...when she mentioned about getting a Coffee with me that sounded safe, as long as I met this Girl (if she is one) in town where its very busy with public.
 
Pics or it never happened.

Tbh, the coffee sounds safe enough. See if you can arrange that before the party? That way at least you'll know. Either way I wouldn't be too worried, you're a strong lad plus you'll know it's dodgy if 'she' asks you meet in some incredibly secluded area.
 
Pics or it never happened.

Typical Dom lol -.-. Sign in on MSN because I can't see your contact, I'll send you the link to her profile page. I can't do it on here because she's topless on one of her photo's and I don't personally wanna expose her to the entire forum :/ lol.

Tbh, the coffee sounds safe enough. See if you can arrange that before the party? That way at least you'll know. Either way I wouldn't be too worried, you're a strong lad plus you'll know it's dodgy if 'she' asks you meet in some incredibly secluded area.

Yeah thats a great idea actually :p. I'll make sure to mention that because who knows what could happen heh. Thanks for the advice big bro :P.
 
Imo, you should talk to her more, but usually people like your (around 18 and male) arent targets of sexual predators so I wouldnt be worried :p
 
you could allways ask for a phone number and see if a girl answers it and knows about that party/coffee ect

Aye this will be something that I'll be asking for proberly after shes next reply to my email. Me and Dom (Strider) has been speaking about this on MSN for the past hour or so.

Hello ! I'm glad that you wrote. I'm Mary, I forgot to mention it in my message to you on bebo. So, how you doin'? I am fine (in case you are wodering. lol) I'm just slowly trying to get myself out of bed. (I'm sooo lazy on my day off, lol)? Today is my only, "technical" day off.

Anyways. What cha doin? What cha like to do? You know, the usual 50 questions. lol. As for me, we're planning a party next weekend, me and my friends. I'll be home at that time. I won't be here with my friend anymore. Home sweet home it will be. lol. Anyways, we do it about once a month. Hey come and join us! It would be fun.

Anyways, bebo seemed cool, but I notice how much time my friend spends on it, and how much time I spent on it when she showed it to me, and I'm afraid I might end up wasting away in front of it instead of being out doing stuff. So I don't think I'll post a profile just yet, I'll just continue to use my friends if I need to, hopefully I won't, ;). (That was her account that I messaged you from btw, in case you havent already realized.)

I have my page you can check out, (Edited Out) so you can see what I look like, and you can even get to know more about me. It's kinda like the artisic side of me.

Let me know if you wanna talk more. And let me know if you want to come to our party. That would be really cool. All I do is usually work and stay home during the days, but weekend nights, I'm usually out with my girl friends. Maybe, if you'd like, we can also meet up for coffee or drinks or somethin' when we both get some free time...?

Anyways, I'm gonna get goin'. I think I'll get off my lazy ass now and call my Mom. I'll ask her what she wants to do for Mothers Day comming up. Or maybe I'll just soak in the tub for an hour or two. Oh well... either way, write back soon! and take care!

xoxo ~ Mary


Thats the email she sent me. She sounds like a great lass (so far). But me and Dom thinks shes from America which obviously makes things awkward. But she says in that email that shes going home, which we assume is England. I mean on Bebo she's told me that she lives close so hopefully she hasn't got confused or somert lol

The other thing we found out is that this "party" could very well be a swingers party lol, and could possibly well being just looking for a shag basically. Theres quite a few ifs and buts about this. But the next email I get from her should really explain alot more.
 
haha nice one raff mate

but i would do the coffee thing before the party, cos i mean you dont know who she is really,, and not only will it tell if she is who she says she is, but also get to know her a bit more before going to this party of hers.
 
Yeah, what I was saying too about maybe she sent it to a few people.

Yeah we discussed that. Theres just something about the email that doesn't look like its directed to me, and me alone. Although as previously said theres some part of the email that does look like it's meant for only me if you get me ? God it's like playing with the Riddler.

P.s Come on MSN again Dom when you get the chance I've something else to show you.
 
Typical Dom lol -.-. Sign in on MSN because I can't see your contact, I'll send you the link to her profile page. I can't do it on here because she's topless on one of her photo's and I don't personally wanna expose her to the entire forum :/ lol.


Bro! Sharings for caring!
Forum pm me and I'll shall judge if its a predator or a hawt chick D:
 
Ask her to send you a picture of her holding a sign with your name on it. Or, as the other guy said, people your age aren't really targets for online predators so you should be ok for the coffee. Especially if you're a big bloke. If not maybe bring a friend to look out for you.
 
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