Okay so....

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The deal is I've got a hot date for tonight, I'm usually really cool with these things but boy am I nervous this time lol. The girl I'm seeing (at 7:30) is actually an old school friend of mine, the last time I saw her was when I left school which was 5 freaking years ago lol.

And to make matters worse, back when I was in School I didn't half have a Teenage crush on her as well. Just thinking about it makes the memories come flooding back haha, so yeah we've got history to say the least.

Tonight should be very eventful, unless nerves get to me we should have plenty to speak about but like I said it's been 5 Years. She's changed loads and Jesus I thought she was nice in school but now she's smoking lol. So will tonight go really well and I make a great impression on her ? Or will I completely fuck things up so it will keep me in the "friendship zone" ?

Either way you guys will find out lol, I'll be sure to take it slow with her though ;p. Wish me luck!, I need it! :P.
 
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Tonight should be very eventful, unless nerves get to me we should have plenty to speak about but like I said it's been 5 Years. She's changed loads and Jesus I thought she was nice in school but now she's smoking lol. So will tonight go really well and I make a great impression on her ? Or will I completely fuck things up so it will keep me in the "friendship zone" ?

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Hmm you can't have an eventful night and still be in the friendship zone... friendship zones end around the time you put the meat in the taco. Right on though, gl.
 
Wait a second... she is smoking hot and she's going out with you? Is she playing a prank? :P

Seriously though Raff, you will be fine, regardless if she wants to go out again at the end of the evening, there is just nothing you should worry about, you're a cool guy and if she likes a good guy who sometimes gets accused of using a fake ID then you're totally in. :D

Ok so now for actually writing a sentence while being completely serious... actually i'm gonna stop right here because there is no way i can finish this sentence without pulling a joke. :D


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Raff you will be fine, go get her, and make sure to show me pics in a few weeks you sexy bastard!
 
Wait a second... she is smoking hot and she's going out with you? Is she playing a prank? :P

Seriously though Raff, you will be fine, regardless if she wants to go out again at the end of the evening, there is just nothing you should worry about, you're a cool guy and if she likes a good guy who sometimes gets accused of using a fake ID then you're totally in. :D

Ok so now for actually writing a sentence while being completely serious... actually i'm gonna stop right here because there is no way i can finish this sentence without pulling a joke. :D


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Raff you will be fine, go get her, and make sure to show me pics in a few weeks you sexy bastard!

what if she brought her bf with her,
like you didnt know
Lol
would you die inside?
 
JC/Raiden - Okay so.... - RaGEZONE Forums


Nail that bitch like you're MC Hammer, FUCK YEAH!
 
JC, I don't know you and I probably wont.
but from what I've seen on these forums, you seem like a nice guy.
So just go, and be yourself.
Have some fun and remember some school days. :P

And if she likes you for who you are, great!
 
where you taking her?

and yea I agree in so many ways its awkward dating an old friend

We went to a new pub that's just been recently done out, it's a very nice place. And as expected drinks we're expensive lol. As for the awkwardness that faded pretty fast, but was eating away at me at first lol.

Wait a second... she is smoking hot and she's going out with you? Is she playing a prank? :P

Seriously though Raff, you will be fine, regardless if she wants to go out again at the end of the evening, there is just nothing you should worry about, you're a cool guy and if she likes a good guy who sometimes gets accused of using a fake ID then you're totally in. :D

Ok so now for actually writing a sentence while being completely serious... actually i'm gonna stop right here because there is no way i can finish this sentence without pulling a joke. :D


:D
Raff you will be fine, go get her, and make sure to show me pics in a few weeks you sexy bastard!

Yes...yes...I've a few pic's I'll show, but not on here as I feel awkward with posting her pictures without her knowing. So I'll show you on MSN =p. Thanks for the kind words though matey, means alot :). I'm about to explain my evening now anyways once I answer these other replies :P.

Raff you can pull it off, I mean with the helping thread and all, I shouldn't expect you to need pimpin' help. I kinda just lol'ed at my self there. Anyway, just stay cool and smooth, don't be abrupt.

Hehe thanks man. I knew very well what I was doing, but it was the first time ever I've ever been in such a situation. So feeling awkward and nervous was impossible for me to avoid. But I played through it well so it's all cool :).

JC, I don't know you and I probably wont.
but from what I've seen on these forums, you seem like a nice guy.
So just go, and be yourself.
Have some fun and remember some school days. :P

And if she likes you for who you are, great!

Yeah I played that card fairly regularly actually lol. I spoke about High School, shared some memories etc it really did help alot during the night.

So anyways as for the night its self, at the end of it I had very mixed feelings but of course I'll explain.

To say the last time we spoke was 5 years ago the night went very well. We we're together for 5 hours and during those 5 hours we only had 2 occasions where things went silent between us for about 10 seconds during a pause in conversation.

The Night its self was really just a big catch up for us both, which worked out well for me because it filled most the time we spoke. The most important thing to me was I realized at the end of our night that she'd hadn't changed, she was sweet in high school and shes still the same now. and I adore that.

During random parts of our night random guys names poped up, those of which she's had a past with, but who are also around in her life now basically trying to win her over. I didn't let that bother me in the slightest at first, but as our night was drawing to a close these random guys names we're mentioned more so I naturally started thinking about this...

As we said our goodbyes tonight my thoughts wondered, because I couldn't help but think this might be more trouble then it's worth. Even though we've got a history, and I had one major crush on this girl during my High School days there's so many other guys wanting her. So part of me just wants me to wave it off and forget about it.

Then of course there's the other part of me that wants me to play this game of Operation, which firstly of course means keeping in touch regularly but slowly building progress with her so I can eventually make a move. With all her other "Admirers" in the way this is gonna be such a drag though. So I guess this is a TBC story lol :).
 
Tbh if she's mentioning other guys who are after her then you're pretty much screwed, not saying you couldn't get her, but if she didn't give a crap about them then she wouldn't have mentioned them at all, instead she did so she might have planned this and she's hoping you will fight for her like those others.

I'd say keep contact, but keep it cool, see where it leads, but i wouldn't fight for her, atleast not yet.
 
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