Problem:

[LeeStrong]

This is making my pages load slowly,
Its almost asif the mysql connection is timing out when you try to go onto it

This appears at the bottom of the pages which load slowly:
Error: Unable to connect to MySQL server. MySQL reported: .

 

[Yamachi]

Check your config files in your www folder, and make sure the DB connection info is correct.

OFFTOPIC: Incase you didn't notice, you can now use a custom user title The option is in User CP.