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Hi,

Let me explain a situation to you all and let me have your opinion. Last week my friend(A) bought amphetamines for his misses and ended up trying some with her, I told my friend(b) because they where checking up on me (Even driving past my friends house where I was at , at 2am in the morning) , anyways, allot of other stuff happened but one important thing happened.

Basically, given I confided in my friend stating my mate took amphetamines he then said he didnt want to be friends with the guy who had taken them simply because of his morals, then he asked me if I did any drugs, i stated a year and a half ago that i took some drugs which where "uppers" and he didnt want to be my friend neither.... heres the twist; his other childhood friend is a cocaine user, I know, my other mates know but friend(b) said that when he asked him (several weeks ago) he denyed taking them... so he contacted this guy (wanting the truth) and friend(c) said that he is using coke and admitted and then severed all links with him too....

are you keeping up? this gets worse, anyhoo, he has 5 friends, 3 of which he severed links with now simply cos 1 took amphetamines, me took something a year and half ago and another cos he is a coke addict, anyways.... he phones me up later stating he overracted and his misses give him permission to be my friend, i simply told him to duck himself and suck my penis....


Make matters worse, his now only friend takes steroids.... weird huh... and the funny part is, ive only given you a quick summory, If i went in detail then you would be shocked. OH and did I forget to mention... I wasnt friends with this guy when I had taken that stuff a year and a half ago... infact , ive only been close to him for a year and it didnt affect him in any way.


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Friend(B) has taken drugs in his past before, he is also that troubling guitarist i was bitching about a few weeks ago....
 
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Tell him he needs to grow up and realize he cant force his friends to do exactly what he wants or tells them to do.

I used to be like that, But i realized, yeah i love my friends alot but there not going to stop doing there stuff just because people are telling them too, It makes it worse.

Id tell him to grow up and stop trying to be a leader.
 
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Unfortunaly people are quick to judge about certain things, there are even people who look weird at me after i said i used some weed. It's like they think your whole personality changes or that you are unstable etc etc.

Don't get me wrong though, i don't want real drug users around me, not so much because i dislike them, but because i couldn't bare the thought of a friend completely destroying their life over them, but if someone used something in the past, or stuff that doesn't destroy things, then i don't really care.
 
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as long as their over it it should be fine but if ur friend is that werid i wouldnt want to be friends with him anyways
 
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Well the guys one of the biggest attention seekers ive met.

If you look into it into detail you'll notice all he is doing is attention seeking, I bet everyone of your mates is talking about him, And possibly trying to please him now.
 
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well that could be the problem still he had to ask his misses to be friends? how gay is that
 
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Gohan basically said it. And yeah it is hypocritical, but maybe he just wants the best for you guys but even if, ending friendships over that stuff is retarded. And also, what happened in the past has passed, you cant keep looking back there or you wont know whats ahead of you.
 
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Think his an attention seeker type of person, pay no attention to them and watch them eat them selfs to death.
You can tell its true because he called mental back and apologized.
 
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Did he fucked himself and sucked your penis ?

when i was reading your post i did laughed cos i thought why the duck you avoided the cannabis time :p but well like a friend says to me Cannabis isnt a drug :p

I bet with you that in 1 year he will taste all drugs and be an addict
 
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Once a friend always a friend. He realized that he made a mistake by over reacting to you guys and if he is really sorry about it - you need to forgive him and accept him back.
At the end of the day - being together as friends matter over the issues you fought over.

If you do consider him your friend or ever did - accept him back. Eventually he'll realize that the same and accept you as you are. :)
 
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If you guys are true friends, than this is just an argument and he really did overreact. You should tell him that people take drugs sometimes. Sometimes they just experiment or have a bad time in their life or whatever. Things happen and he can't expect his friends to be perfect. Talk it over with him and try to fix up the relationship. Friends are important.
 
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He should learn to accept that not everyone in life will be perfect or the 'model' person, so he should just ignore the fact you and your friends take drugs every now and then. There's better things he can worry about.
 
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Yeah, actually, I seen two smackheads in my local park today dealing.

Ughh...
 
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so he should just ignore the fact you and your friends take drugs every now and then.
I disagree, seeing someone destroy their life with drugs and perhaps even standing on your doorstep completely messed up and all that is something he should care about. I won't judge people, there are various reasons why people would get addicted to them, but on a personal level i do want to stay away from addicts, on a professional level i will definitely try to help them, but in my personal life i prefer not to have such people, not because i judge them, but because it would cause to many issues, and it would hurt to much to see such a person get into deep poop later on in life.

However this is not the case, now he ofcourse has every right to choose who his friends are, it is however pretty retarded to ditch good friends because they have used something in the past that you don't like.
 
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I disagree, seeing someone destroy their life with drugs and perhaps even standing on your doorstep completely messed up and all that is something he should care about. I won't judge people, there are various reasons why people would get addicted to them, but on a personal level i do want to stay away from addicts, on a professional level i will definitely try to help them, but in my personal life i prefer not to have such people, not because i judge them, but because it would cause to many issues, and it would hurt to much to see such a person get into deep poop later on in life.

However this is not the case, now he ofcourse has every right to choose who his friends are, it is however pretty retarded to ditch good friends because they have used something in the past that you don't like.

Completely agree with you there, but I meant that he should ignore it as a way that it stands inbetween their friendship and it shouldn't, but of course he shouldn't ignore it on the level of helping out his friends kick the addiction.
 
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the people in this world.... jeez, they should support or understand what you have done in the past, everyone makes mistakes, (not saying your choices are mistakes)
 
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