The Fight For Life...Is Over

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Back when I was just a kid I formed and build a very close relationship with my full blooded Italian Uncle Sal. He was so great with me, he had a personality that always drawed my attention as a little nipper. He always use to tease me, but even more so in this day and age as he'd always tease me by talking about Girls he'd even give his advise to my about them lol.

He was a very social able person, and the way he'd act most the time you wouldn't think he's 38 you'd think hes 18 lol, he was very full of life. And made it his mission to always keep all of our family close together, especially during Christmas's, New years etc etc. And of cause he'd always be the host in these family get togethers.

These are just some of the things I'll always remember about him now he's not apart of this world anymore. On Wednesday the 17th of October at 3pm my Uncle fell out of his Daughters bedroom window and landed on his head.

He was then rushed down to a near by hospital in Doncaster where he was kept over night with the Doctors saying he's slowly dieing. the following night on Thursday the Doctors discovered that the massive swelling on his brain had actually gone down abit, but because the severity of his injuries he was transfered to a hospital in Sheffield where they could treat him as they have better facilities.

During that Thursday night the Doctors operated on my Uncle in hope to save him. After the Surgery tad took place a Brain scan was done to find out the results, to see if theres any activity still up there.

Then yesterday night, at 10pm he loses his fight for life. as he was pronounced Brain dead. The plug will have been pulled by now on the life support machine.

R.I.P Uncle Sal, I'll promise to make you proud. And you'll forever by me and all your family. I'll never forget how you've helped me through life, they'll always be a place for you in my heart.


/Raff.
 
oh my goodness, Raff, I am so sorry. my heart genuinely goes out to you hun.

love,
Chev
 
That really is terrible, for such a influential family member to die so suddenly =/

I hope you don't dwell on his death, and just celebrate the life he had.
 
Damn thats sad =(!
May he rest in peace.
 
Thanks for your kind words guys, your show of respect means alot to me.

Boko - Rageparty...jeez I dunno. I was really looking forward to a proper all nighter party, and to meet you guys for the first time. But I've got a feeling I'll end up dragging people down because I don't think I'll put "my heart" in to having a good time, when thats what its all about.
 
Boko - Rageparty...jeez I dunno. I was really looking forward to a proper all nighter party, and to meet you guys for the first time. But I've got a feeling I'll end up dragging people down because I don't think I'll put "my heart" in to having a good time, when thats what its all about.
Well it's really upto you, but i think i speak for everyone when i say you are welcome if you're upto it, i really don't know what the best way is to deal with these things, nobody does, but if you still want to come, then do come, we are more then just a bunch of guys messing around, so if you want to come, then come you are more then welcome.

Whatever you do, do know that people are here to help you in whichever way they can.
 
Sorry to hear. Quite dreadful that he landed on his head, whereas there was a 89% of landing on another part of his body.

You must miss him a lot :(
 
Well it's really upto you, but i think i speak for everyone when i say you are welcome if you're upto it, i really don't know what the best way is to deal with these things, nobody does, but if you still want to come, then do come, we are more then just a bunch of guys messing around, so if you want to come, then come you are more then welcome.

Whatever you do, do know that people are here to help you in whichever way they can.

Agree completely with Mr. Gohan!
 
Back when I was just a kid I formed and build a very close relationship with my full blooded Italian Uncle Sal. He was so great with me, he had a personality that always drawed my attention as a little nipper. He always use to tease me, but even more so in this day and age as he'd always tease me by talking about Girls he'd even give his advise to my about them lol.

He was a very social able person, and the way he'd act most the time you wouldn't think he's 38 you'd think hes 18 lol, he was very full of life. And made it his mission to always keep all of our family close together, especially during Christmas's, New years etc etc. And of cause he'd always be the host in these family get togethers.

These are just some of the things I'll always remember about him now he's not apart of this world anymore. On Wednesday the 17th of October at 3pm my Uncle fell out of his Daughters bedroom window and landed on his head.

He was then rushed down to a near by hospital in Doncaster where he was kept over night with the Doctors saying he's slowly dieing. the following night on Thursday the Doctors discovered that the massive swelling on his brain had actually gone down abit, but because the severity of his injuries he was transfered to a hospital in Sheffield where they could treat him as they have better facilities.

During that Thursday night the Doctors operated on my Uncle in hope to save him. After the Surgery tad took place a Brain scan was done to find out the results, to see if theres any activity still up there.

Then yesterday night, at 10pm he loses his fight for life. as he was pronounced Brain dead. The plug will have been pulled by now on the life support machine.

R.I.P Uncle Sal, I'll promise to make you proud. And you'll forever by me and all your family. I'll never forget how you've helped me through life, they'll always be a place for you in my heart.


/Raff.

Exact same time my house set on fire.

Sorry to hear.
 
Thanks for your kind words guys, your show of respect means alot to me.

Boko - Rageparty...jeez I dunno. I was really looking forward to a proper all nighter party, and to meet you guys for the first time. But I've got a feeling I'll end up dragging people down because I don't think I'll put "my heart" in to having a good time, when thats what its all about.
you should enjoy the party in memory of such a great person! when my grandfather died last year I lost it. I couldn't control myself. I honestly wanted to die, but then I thought about how much life was great when he was alive and how much of a great person he was. I keep his memories with me until I die and someone remembers me that way. Go to the party and enjoy yourself.
 
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