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Whats Wrong with me???

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I would like to start this topic off with i am 16 white male and go to highschool,at school i dont really have anyone to talk to in class i duno why and alot of ppl make fun of me and say i am gay(i am 100% i am not gay) and stuff. 2nd all my friends have girlfriends and i dont,it makes me feel crapy,Even the chick i have liked all my life now has a boyfriend and when i think of all this i get really sad thinking i have lost the girl i have liked my whole life to a indian dude(nothing wrong with indians).i am starting to gain wight coz i dont like sports and i sit in front of my pc most of the time.(i got noone to go out to do stuff with.coz all my friend are out with their GFs on weekends)When i try to get girls to like me they say "ure not my type and alot of other stuff"i dont look like a nerd i look like 70% of all teens(my friends say that i am normal..but i dont think so)i dont go to parties coz of my problem and the more i try to help myself the further i go down in life can i plz have some info on what to do coz i feel like life is not worth living
 
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Sounds like it's time for you to...


Harden the duck up

Honestly you have no one to blame but yourself. Get off the internet, stop playing video games, go outside, get a gym membership, go to parties, get drunk, make friends, build your confidence, duck yeah.
 
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Sounds like it's time for you to...


Harden the duck up

Honestly you have no one to blame but yourself. Get off the internet, stop playing video games, go outside, get a gym membership, go to parties, get drunk, make friends, build your confidence, duck yeah.
Quoted for truth and /thread
 
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You need confidence, Nothing else. Why do you not go to parties? Because your problem... No its because you feel you wont "fit" in, Make yourself fit in, Socialise and show people who you really are and not what people think you are.


Confidence is the key to the world, Discover that and your a rolling stone my friend.
 
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Just cause you go trough what millions you don't feel like living? Dude force your friends to take you with them to a party, go to allot of party's you'll get friends in no time. You decide what happens in your life, unless your forced into something you don't want to do. But everything is up to you.
 
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He doesn't have a problem with friends, its just doing stuff with them he feels uncomfortable with. He needs confidence, Maybe take up a class, A great way to meet new people and build confidence. You obviously can blame it on your personality, But if its getting to you, your personality must change.

Prai the agony aunt.
 
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Confidence is definetly your problem, because you doubt yourself so much, that simply rubs off on other people, no one likes people who complain about everything and are in their own world the whole time. Just do what you want, react how you want, live how you want, once you do your own thing and you are happy with that part of what you are doing, then people will respond in a more positive way towards you aswell.
 
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Simple answer.

Stop caring.

If you stop caring what other people think then you'll find it much easier to have confidence and be able to be yourself.
 
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Confidence is definetly your problem, because you doubt yourself so much, that simply rubs off on other people, no one likes people who complain about everything and are in their own world the whole time. Just do what you want, react how you want, live how you want, once you do your own thing and you are happy with that part of what you are doing, then people will respond in a more positive way towards you aswell.
Yah man, you give off an aura and people can basically feel the person you are. It sounds like some bull but when you feel a certain way other people pick up on it and most times you don't even need to tell people. Plus, everyone knows everyone meaning, if you do things around some people it's conveyed through, essentially, the grapevine and people learn who you are.
I would say the best way to get around your problems is to suck it up and do something you don't like. I'm not going to lie lol my way of getting out was partying. I spent the first 18 years of my life chillin' at home doing nothing and I couldn't regret it more. Don't be afraid to be a follower. Start doing what everyone else is doing then after that assert yourself within those situatuations. PM me if you want to know a way that worked for me.
 
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Picture and we shall jugde your situation.
 
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Now see here, squire. I don't think that's too appropriate given this guys situation ya dig?

Oh Gladstone, you make me lol sometimes.

But aye, build confidence. Maybe take up a hobby that can be very... 'inviting(?) if you get what I mean. Something like a contemporary instrument, skateboarding/inline, etc.

I do a lot of guitar playing which gets a convo going when you got one on your back, starting going to skate parks with friends, who I meet other people through. I also do a lot of climbing/parkour in extremely public places (as i live in the town centre, and that's the best place to do it) which really helps to get a convo going, plus you got that adrenaline rushing through you and you feel like you've just punched god in the face + gets you very fit.
 
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Yeah, man. You gotto build up your self-esteem. If your getting fat(ter) then go work out. Gyms usually a good way to meet people, especially lots of chicks. If people call you gay, that's probably because you give off that vibe, you know.

Assert yourself. This world's not here to give you poop. If you don't go after what you want, then what's the point of living. Go out there, get some friends, get drunk, and nail some high school skanks. Or if wanna wait it out, get smart, go to college and play your game.

Plus, dude, you ARE being a little racist here. Is there any particular reason why you told us you are white and told us your love-to-be got stolen by some indian guy?
 
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I would like to start this topic off with i am 16 white male and go to highschool,at school i dont really have anyone to talk to in class i duno why and alot of ppl make fun of me and say i am gay(i am 100% i am not gay) and stuff. 2nd all my friends have girlfriends and i dont,it makes me feel crapy,Even the chick i have liked all my life now has a boyfriend and when i think of all this i get really sad thinking i have lost the girl i have liked my whole life to a indian dude(nothing wrong with indians).i am starting to gain wight coz i dont like sports and i sit in front of my pc most of the time.(i got noone to go out to do stuff with.coz all my friend are out with their GFs on weekends)When i try to get girls to like me they say "ure not my type and alot of other stuff"i dont look like a nerd i look like 70% of all teens(my friends say that i am normal..but i dont think so)i dont go to parties coz of my problem and the more i try to help myself the further i go down in life can i plz have some info on what to do coz i feel like life is not worth living

I might be warned for this but....go outside..seriously..it sounds like you got no self esteem
 
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Yeah, man. You gotto build up your self-esteem. If your getting fat(ter) then go work out. Gyms usually a good way to meet people, especially lots of chicks. If people call you gay, that's probably because you give off that vibe, you know.

Assert yourself. This world's not here to give you poop. If you don't go after what you want, then what's the point of living. Go out there, get some friends, get drunk, and nail some high school skanks. Or if wanna wait it out, get smart, go to college and play your game.

Plus, dude, you ARE being a little racist here. Is there any particular reason why you told us you are white and told us your love-to-be got stolen by some indian guy?


no i aint being racist i was giving all the facts thats why i said nothing wrong with them i know it might sound so but its not and i did not mean to make it sound racist.sorry for anyone that took it the wrong way
 
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Simple answer.

Stop caring.

If you stop caring what other people think then you'll find it much easier to have confidence and be able to be yourself.

QFT.
And this thread stinks of emo. But really, force your way into the party, violence and sunglasses make you look cool :cool:
 
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