Please help - life issue

[Kellynn]

Okay a while ago I use to have pill problems? and like ive stopped for a while now.. and like I have to go to washington for a visit and uhm, all my friends there do it. and concidering its not my home (fathers home) idk what to do.. I have no other friends but these and last time they did something to me, no detail, and thats how I started. so idk what I should do? Like its obvious, but you dont know how to be if you were in my shoes.. its not that easy to just say "no"

 

[Ambrosiax]

Paying attention fail in elementary?
Say NO to drugs, if you don't want to do them at the moment.

 

[Kellynn]

Like I said its not that easy.. seriously I need someone whos been in my situation? and probobly nobody on RZ has. wow

 

[RastaLulz]

You do know you can make new friends? or simply use the word "NO"?

 

[xKathieee]

try thinking about something else.
that`ll make you forget about those stuff.

http://www.stopdrugs.org

of course it`ll be hard.
that`s why you have to take small steps.

 

[LightWarrior]

It's not that easy you guys, just that single word no.
Just let me say, when you grow up, you'll be laughing at things that you did when you were young, and that's when shame and embarrassment will kick in, you will feel stupid.

oh, next time, don't ask random people from the internet for personal advice. I'm sure your parents are more than glad to help you (that's not sarcasm) As much as I hate to say it, don't try to hide anything from your parents until your mature. other than that, good luck.

 

[Kellynn]

Uhm I dont want to tell my parents?
Im too scared of **** right now and I dont have any other friends there!
**** wow im scared and idk. I just want someone to be with me, because my brother never is home to talk to me.. or help...

 

[LightWarrior]

Fine, I'll be the one pointing my finger saying "told you so"
You sound like you're a mature person, so hopefully since you are, you wont **** up anymore.

But it's your choice, do as you wish.

 

[Kellynn]

Ya.. Im mature

and like I realised alot of **** today.
I cant do these things, I have a heart disease.. Why am I not dead?

 

[Mreow]

Agreed with Light Warrior. Best thing you can do is tell your parents. They will know what's best.

 

[Kellynn]

ya, then I wont be able to visit my dad in Washington and my brother, Mreow.

 

[Mreow]

ya, then I wont be able to visit my dad in Washington and my brother, Mreow.

You have your whole life to see your dad and your brother if you give up your potential addiction.

 

[Kellynn]

Have you ever been in my kind of situation?

 

[GunKill]

Best thing to do is to tell it to your dad.

 

[ImaMoFoThief]

**** life take the drugs, live in the fast bold life, live with no cares, just live no matter how short life is

 

[Rishwin]

You are mature? No, you are a child, cos you sure act like one.

Will a mature person go back to drugs JUST so they can be with "friends"? Oh, they are my only friends, that means i have to take drugs again!

How about you grow the **** up, ditch them, and get new friends.

Stop with the "it's not that easy" bullcrap, it IS that easy; Ditch those friends, get new ones. Either that, or have no friends at all.

I may just be mentally retarded, but i'd rather have no friends, than have friends i don't want to be with who force me to take drugs. Learn to be independent for **** sake, you're pathetic.

 

[Kellynn]

thanks
really, thanks

 

[DaCheat]

All of my friends do drugs... Sometimes I join in, and sometimes I don't.

If they won't accept the fact that you don't want to do something, then they're not that good of friends at all.

P.S. I think Rish should take some Midol.

 

[CrashOveride]

Got to say I agree with Rishwin for the most part.

Like I said its not that easy.. seriously I need someone whos been in my situation? and probobly nobody on RZ has. wow

Read some of the old threads and you'll see there have been plenty of people here who had serious problems with drugs including MentaL...

It's easy as hell to say no...
I've been in similar situations many a time and it's easy to see know your true friends from your "friends".
If they are really your true friends then they will respect you and your choice not to take. (Well that has been the case for me...)

Crash

 

[IQstim]

I have no friends. What's the problem, dear? There isn't a problem. Get a dog.

'Friends' can only be defined as a relationship between a 'friend'. Keeping 'friends' will get you in trends and bind you to the group thereafter followed by the picture of you having the sense of admiring what your friends do, wear, say, and eventually do as what they do and be like them - you're not real, and your individuality is ignored.