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[JC/Raiden]

Why u "Help" People?

Erm...That's explained in my introduction to this thread if you bothered even reading it.

Right so the point of this thread is for me to aid you!. Let me explain for a looooong time now friends and family have been telling me what a gifted speaker I am and that I have my way with words etc etc. For a time I just accepted the compliments and moved on so to speak. But over the course of the last few days I thought to myself if I can TRULY help people then I wanna do what I can the best I can.

Please take note this thread is serious. And is for anybody that's feeling troubled and needs advice no matter what its in relation to I don't mind. Just as long as it isn't legal matters as I don't wanna get involved with stuff like that sorry.

RaGEZONE is a huge community and I've always done the best I can for it, now I wanna take the next step up. If I can help and touch the lives of people in a good way then I'm gonna strike while I have the opportunity. Hopefully Dan & Lee (Mental & Exclamatio) will fully back me up on this. I await the community's future posts .

Regards.

 

[nuloki]

Erm...That's explained in my introduction to this thread if you bothered even reading it.

i Mean Not That Way of

If I can help and touch the lives of people in a good way then I'm gonna strike while I have the opportunity

i Mean Do U Help Cuz u Fell Good With u ? I Dont Think its Because u Care About The Others.. ( My Opinion). Or Cuz u Think ur Doing The Things in A Right Mode.?

 

[JC/Raiden]

i Mean Not That Way of





i Mean Do U Help Cuz u Fell Good With u ? I Dont Think its Because u Care About The Others.. ( My Opinion). Or Cuz u Think ur Doing The Things in A Right Mode.?

The part which I've high lighted in bald & italic makes no sense to me whats so ever. But as for the rest of it, your basically spamming my thread by attempting to second guess my good intentions ? Well here's a news flash for you I honestly could not care less for your opinion because I've done nothing but give a 100% effort in to making this thread what it is, and my very in depth replies on each problem that's been posted on here proofs that.

Do not post here again now I've entertained you and your stupid questions/opinions, otherwise it's infraction City for you and your ignorance.

 

[yjlasher22]

hey Raff, i just wanna ask (maybe this isn't that related, im not sure) but im wanting to eat more everyday... i mean, i walk around aimlessly, open the fridge, find nothing to eat, close the fridge, walk out, repeat... its a bit retarded... guess maybe i have nothing better to do. is there anyway to stop this... and im feeling hungry really quickly... i don't eat so much at one go nor can i do that. i am quite a slow eater too... any ideas?

 

[JC/Raiden]

hey Raff, i just wanna ask (maybe this isn't that related, im not sure) but im wanting to eat more everyday... i mean, i walk around aimlessly, open the fridge, find nothing to eat, close the fridge, walk out, repeat... its a bit retarded... guess maybe i have nothing better to do. is there anyway to stop this... and im feeling hungry really quickly... i don't eat so much at one go nor can i do that. i am quite a slow eater too... any ideas?

Your a growing Teen mate it's important to feed your self when your body is telling you to, especially at your age as it's important to your development.

Having said that though the routine which you've described does kinda tell me that your also bored and need something to do. The best piece of advice I can give you is start to exercise regularly in which ever way you feel most comfortable. Make it a routine and do a few hours every day after school, as long as it isn't using Weights as you should weight till your 16 to use them.

So not only are you filling in more of your time so your less bored, but then you'll have more of an excuse to eat more like your wanting to because you'll need to replace the nutrients in your body that you've used during exercise.

 

[EliteGM]

i Mean Not That Way of





i Mean Do U Help Cuz u Fell Good With u ? I Dont Think its Because u Care About The Others.. ( My Opinion). Or Cuz u Think ur Doing The Things in A Right Mode.?

I didn't get half of it but still I think you're rude. You look at this as if he does this to make himself feel better.
You don't think he does this to help others? As said; he is a gifted speaker and this is an opportunity for him to do something with it.

I say keep it up Raff!

 

[michaelmnn]

So i've been firends with this female for about 6 years. I can easiely call her my best friend. We were interested in each other around when we first met. But something happened (that situation you look back on with a question mark over your head.) We stay very close so iv'e always been able to show up. to skip a long dumbass story.

It's going on our 7th year and i've watch her with boyfriend after boyfriend as she has watched me with female figures. But iv'e always had that small crush, but she always seem too immature. Now she has been really developing and it's amazing to see. Almost every time i see her i find myself more and mroe attracted.

Atm she has a bf that.... she has honestly said she doesn't care for him. Which i won't lie added abit of confidence on my part.
She is currently going through some problems with her family, and emoitional issues. do as i always do comfort talk to her, about it, and such. But she has plans on moving away. Where? she hasn't decided but knowing her it will be damn far. And i don't want her to go, but i can't live what i have going on now. I've been contimplating make the move at her. but i think all together makes a bad mix, and it won't end well.

Whats the advice Raff?

blushingre thx)

 

[JC/Raiden]

So i've been firends with this female for about 6 years. I can easiely call her my best friend. We were interested in each other around when we first met. But something happened (that situation you look back on with a question mark over your head.) We stay very close so iv'e always been able to show up. to skip a long dumbass story.

It's going on our 7th year and i've watch her with boyfriend after boyfriend as she has watched me with female figures. But iv'e always had that small crush, but she always seem too immature. Now she has been really developing and it's amazing to see. Almost every time i see her i find myself more and mroe attracted.

Atm she has a bf that.... she has honestly said she doesn't care for him. Which i won't lie added abit of confidence on my part.
She is currently going through some problems with her family, and emoitional issues. do as i always do comfort talk to her, about it, and such. But she has plans on moving away. Where? she hasn't decided but knowing her it will be damn far. And i don't want her to go, but i can't live what i have going on now. I've been contimplating make the move at her. but i think all together makes a bad mix, and it won't end well.

Whats the advice Raff?

blushingre thx)

Every word I speak on this thread doesn't hide the truth, so your right to feel concerned. Because it may just be to late to make that move on her. What you need to understand is Women think very differently to what we do, it's amazing how often when a male & female lock eyes with each other but there thoughts are so very different.

Your situation could be very well like this when you stare at her.

You => "I can't believe how gorgeous this girl is, I'd do anything for her" etc etc....

When she could be thinking this....

Her => "I'm so lucky to have such a caring loving friend that I can ALWAYS depend on"

Unfortunately my friend it's very possible for you to be in the place where you don't wanna be which is the "Friendship Zone". Once your there with a girl majority of the time it's impossible to get out of. Because while your thinking that you both should give a relationship a go, she'll be thinking she doesn't want to risk ruining what you both already have. Which is a close tite friendship.

After saying all this though it doesn't mean I'm telling you your fucked, I'm just letting you know what the greatest possibility is. But just like with everything my friend unless you say something and open your feelings to her then you'll always just forever wonder what could have been which doesn't play to well on your head believe me.

I think the most important thing to consider here though is her moving away, if shes going to be moving and along way away then you need to ask your self is there any point in putting the effort in to making something happen between us and possibly creating an unneeded awkward situation between you both if you both won't be able to work your relationship with the distance.

I hope I've been of help, your gonna have to make a choice based on what I've said.

 

[michaelmnn]

I really appreciate the honesty and don't think i can do enough to thank you Raff.

Was kinda of afraid of that , at ever point in time in a mans life you find yourself in the position of friend and fear no escape. I just never thought it would her who places me in the position. I'm currently trying to find a time i can sit down and talk about it, " thinking of the best way to put it" my expectations aren't that high. About anything said i'm trying to prepare myself for. But it never goes as planed, reality is a ***** like that i guess:thumbdown:

Again thank you alot, you are a very wise individual.
Maybe one of these days we could talk

 

[xKathieee]

Helloo again !
I have another problem this time.

here's the story.

There's a guy that is my friend,
two of his close friends borrowed my cellphone& deleted the guy off my phone book.
the guy& i have nothing going on, and i don`t even call the guy.
the problem is, well. i don`t know why they did it. i don`t even know the people.
the guy doesn`t have anything against me for sure.
x_x"!

thank you .

 

[JC/Raiden]

I really appreciate the honesty and don't think i can do enough to thank you Raff.

Was kinda of afraid of that , at ever point in time in a mans life you find yourself in the position of friend and fear no escape. I just never thought it would her who places me in the position. I'm currently trying to find a time i can sit down and talk about it, " thinking of the best way to put it" my expectations aren't that high. About anything said i'm trying to prepare myself for. But it never goes as planed, reality is a ***** like that i guess:thumbdown:

Again thank you alot, you are a very wise individual.
Maybe one of these days we could talk

Always happy to help mate, thanks for your kind words .

Helloo again !
I have another problem this time.

here's the story.

There's a guy that is my friend,
two of his close friends borrowed my cellphone& deleted the guy off my phone book.
the guy& i have nothing going on, and i don`t even call the guy.
the problem is, well. i don`t know why they did it. i don`t even know the people.
the guy doesn`t have anything against me for sure.
x_x"!

thank you .

Erm lol. Dunno what to say actually because it isn't clear what your actually asking. If your trying to ask me why it is these friends of yours deleted your other friends number, then the only thing for it is to simply ask them why. Simple problems have simple answers and its best kept that way.

Sorry about not replying earlier I've been a very busy bee!.

 

[Suicide]

Hey Raff.

Could really do with some advice and help at the minute.

Here's my story.

I was dating this girl for 1 year, we got on well together and i mean well . Though, she lived miles away from me, and i could only afford to see her once a month. Things became between us when i felt i was being left out because all my buddies ditched me and went to become best friends with her. My friend's would only speak to her, not even say hi to me. I felt so alone. I stood up for her and everything, did what i could do to protect her but i just couldn't stand the way she treated me. She lies, she manipulated me, she did everything possible to make me upset and it worked. I fell in love with a *****, a whore, a skank and i just couldn't let go of her because of what we had together. My heart was truly nailed into hers.

Until.. i finally broke it, i broke our relationship because i couldn't stand the way she just kept lying to me. It was unbelievable how many times she lied! Though, our spark was still there, we was still friends, texting everyday and i mean everyday! I sent over 19,000 text messages just to one phone in 4 months. Big, big bills.

Now, we have been off and on together, since we broke up, until, today she told me that her way of getting over me was having intercourse with other blokes. She might of moved on but i haven't, and i just don't know what i have to do. Yeah, moving on is the sensible choice but, i just don't think i can.
Only thing that was stopping me from doing stupid stuff was because of her.

The reason we was so close was because of my stupidity. I was going to be a dad before she had a miscarriage, but what really got me was how she 'miscarried'. She's a self harmer and when she knew she had a baby coming on its way, she punched herself in the stomach.

She keeps trying to call me at this very minute, i answered once and she said 'I'm sorry' but i replied 'No your not' and hung up.

I'm lost at the minute raff, need some advice real quick :'(

 

[Mike]

Hey Raff.

Could really do with some advice and help at the minute.

Here's my story.

I was dating this girl for 1 year, we got on well together and i mean well . Though, she lived miles away from me, and i could only afford to see her once a month. Things became between us when i felt i was being left out because all my buddies ditched me and went to become best friends with her. My friend's would only speak to her, not even say hi to me. I felt so alone. I stood up for her and everything, did what i could do to protect her but i just couldn't stand the way she treated me. She lies, she manipulated me, she did everything possible to make me upset and it worked. I fell in love with a *****, a whore, a skank and i just couldn't let go of her because of what we had together. My heart was truly nailed into hers.

Until.. i finally broke it, i broke our relationship because i couldn't stand the way she just kept lying to me. It was unbelievable how many times she lied! Though, our spark was still there, we was still friends, texting everyday and i mean everyday! I sent over 19,000 text messages just to one phone in 4 months. Big, big bills.

Now, we have been off and on together, since we broke up, until, today she told me that her way of getting over me was having intercourse with other blokes. She might of moved on but i haven't, and i just don't know what i have to do. Yeah, moving on is the sensible choice but, i just don't think i can.
Only thing that was stopping me from doing stupid stuff was because of her.

The reason we was so close was because of my stupidity. I was going to be a dad before she had a miscarriage, but what really got me was how she 'miscarried'. She's a self harmer and when she knew she had a baby coming on its way, she punched herself in the stomach.

She keeps trying to call me at this very minute, i answered once and she said 'I'm sorry' but i replied 'No your not' and hung up.

I'm lost at the minute raff, need some advice real quick :'(

Wow, I was reading your story, and that's really close to home. I'm going through almost the exact same thing. I know what you should do, but this is Raff's thread, so I'll let him answer it. If you need more help, PM me mate.

Sorry Raff if this was off topic, it just happened to me, almost exactly like that too.

 

[JC/Raiden]

Hey Raff.

Could really do with some advice and help at the minute.

Here's my story.

I was dating this girl for 1 year, we got on well together and i mean well . Though, she lived miles away from me, and i could only afford to see her once a month. Things became between us when i felt i was being left out because all my buddies ditched me and went to become best friends with her. My friend's would only speak to her, not even say hi to me. I felt so alone. I stood up for her and everything, did what i could do to protect her but i just couldn't stand the way she treated me. She lies, she manipulated me, she did everything possible to make me upset and it worked. I fell in love with a *****, a whore, a skank and i just couldn't let go of her because of what we had together. My heart was truly nailed into hers.

Until.. i finally broke it, i broke our relationship because i couldn't stand the way she just kept lying to me. It was unbelievable how many times she lied! Though, our spark was still there, we was still friends, texting everyday and i mean everyday! I sent over 19,000 text messages just to one phone in 4 months. Big, big bills.

Now, we have been off and on together, since we broke up, until, today she told me that her way of getting over me was having intercourse with other blokes. She might of moved on but i haven't, and i just don't know what i have to do. Yeah, moving on is the sensible choice but, i just don't think i can.
Only thing that was stopping me from doing stupid stuff was because of her.

The reason we was so close was because of my stupidity. I was going to be a dad before she had a miscarriage, but what really got me was how she 'miscarried'. She's a self harmer and when she knew she had a baby coming on its way, she punched herself in the stomach.

She keeps trying to call me at this very minute, i answered once and she said 'I'm sorry' but i replied 'No your not' and hung up.

I'm lost at the minute raff, need some advice real quick :'(

From what you've told me I think it's safe to say this girl needs some counciling, and I'm not referring to the self-harming. Regardless of who you are anybody knows the risks that come with doing such a thing. But no girl that's quite all there upstairs would ever try to cause a miscarriage by punching her self in the stomach. I'm not saying shes crazy, but most likely very confused.

From a personal opinion while also using my own experience what's happened to you was probably the best thing that could ever happen to you. I wouldn't be supprised if you don't see that right now because your also feeling confused and more then likely conflicted with your own emotions.

This girl has put new definition in to abusing your trust, your love, your loyalty and no doubt many other things shes tried to exploit due to the strong feelings you have for her. I highly doubt she ever expected you to break up with her because of these feelings which is why shes telling you shes sorry. I mean heck, judging by her track record it wouldn't shock me to find out that she's also lieing about being sorry to because I think shes just a mind ****.

This girl is so much bad news it's written all over her. This is the time in your "getting-over-her-period" when you need to start admitting and accepting the truth(s). By asking your self questions such as...

"Does she genuinely love me?"

"Does she respect me?"

"Can she be honest/faithful with me?"

And questions like these must be answered using factual evidence, meaning the relationship you once had together. Because if you answer these questions in any other way all your going to do is start fighting with your self because your heart will resent the truth out of false sense of comfort.

I'm sorry to be the one to have to tell you all this but you must move on. Paint your self a picture you've been in an emotionally abusive relationship, you've had to put up with so much pain and for what ? For some girl that's treated you exactly however she felt like while you've been rolling out the red carpet for her. You break up with her because of all the crap shes put you through and while your still in emotional torment inside due to the break up she's fucking sleeping with other guys because its helping her get over you ? I hope you understand where I'm going with this...

Not only that she clearly has issues that she needs to seek some help for because the things she's done is bluntly wrong. I'm the type of guy that always tries to see the good in everybody because that's just the way I am, but people like her are impossible.

Please believe me when I say....Once you've taken that first important step in to getting over her the rest of the "recovery" becomes so much easier, you must take that first step. The faster you get away from this girl the better, and I can place a wager on that you ignoring her will attract her more in to getting your attention back. Your the man, you have the penis so put your foot down once and for all and tell her how it is.

 

[xKathieee]

Erm lol. Dunno what to say actually because it isn't clear what your actually asking. If your trying to ask me why it is these friends of yours deleted your other friends number, then the only thing for it is to simply ask them why. Simple problems have simple answers and its best kept that way.

Sorry about not replying earlier I've been a very busy bee!.

it`s okay ;D

well, i don`t know the girl that deleted my friend`s number. ifi try talking to her, she gives me a dirty& cold look. i don`t even know her& i doubt she knows me. D': .

 

[Suicide]

From what you've told me I think it's safe to say this girl needs some counciling, and I'm not referring to the self-harming. Regardless of who you are anybody knows the risks that come with doing such a thing. But no girl that's quite all there upstairs would ever try to cause a miscarriage by punching her self in the stomach. I'm not saying shes crazy, but most likely very confused.

From a personal opinion while also using my own experience what's happened to you was probably the best thing that could ever happen to you. I wouldn't be supprised if you don't see that right now because your also feeling confused and more then likely conflicted with your own emotions.

This girl has put new definition in to abusing your trust, your love, your loyalty and no doubt many other things shes tried to exploit due to the strong feelings you have for her. I highly doubt she ever expected you to break up with her because of these feelings which is why shes telling you shes sorry. I mean heck, judging by her track record it wouldn't shock me to find out that she's also lieing about being sorry to because I think shes just a mind ****.

This girl is so much bad news it's written all over her. This is the time in your "getting-over-her-period" when you need to start admitting and accepting the truth(s). By asking your self questions such as...

"Does she genuinely love me?"

"Does she respect me?"

"Can she be honest/faithful with me?"

And questions like these must be answered using factual evidence, meaning the relationship you once had together. Because if you answer these questions in any other way all your going to do is start fighting with your self because your heart will resent the truth out of false sense of comfort.

I'm sorry to be the one to have to tell you all this but you must move on. Paint your self a picture you've been in an emotionally abusive relationship, you've had to put up with so much pain and for what ? For some girl that's treated you exactly however she felt like while you've been rolling out the red carpet for her. You break up with her because of all the crap shes put you through and while your still in emotional torment inside due to the break up she's fucking sleeping with other guys because its helping her get over you ? I hope you understand where I'm going with this...

Not only that she clearly has issues that she needs to seek some help for because the things she's done is bluntly wrong. I'm the type of guy that always tries to see the good in everybody because that's just the way I am, but people like her are impossible.

Please believe me when I say....Once you've taken that first important step in to getting over her the rest of the "recovery" becomes so much easier, you must take that first step. The faster you get away from this girl the better, and I can place a wager on that you ignoring her will attract her more in to getting your attention back. Your the man, you have the penis so put your foot down once and for all and tell her how it is.

Here is last night's text messages which she sent me. I don't save my outgoing text messages so yeah.

Spoiler

Bunny (o2)
Tell me you love me. Oh god please. I cant go without that.

Bunny (o2)
Thank you greg. so much. in time too.

Bunny (o2)
Okay i will. im sorry for being a whore.

Bunny (o2)
I need you. il fall apart greg. dont do this to me. i wont live without you. please. im begging.

Bunny (o2)
I wish i could undo it. you said your my best friend :'( i refuse to live without you. i love you.

Bunny (o2)
Il send that 20 quid, will you be my friend then?

Bunny (o2)
I dont want or need the game. its you i need. dont make me live my life alone. i have ended contact with him and tyler thats why he emailed you. greg. please.

Bunny (o2)
I dont want too. i want you. i dont need anyone like i do with you. please. i cant beg much more. i wont last long with you. il have nothing. oh god please greg.

Bunny (o2)
Take me back as a friend. he gets me in trouble. please. (meaning tyler)

Bunny (o2)
No. ill go home if it will make you be my friend again. (blackmail) and he makes me upset you, like in the past. (no he doesn't lmao)

Bunny (o2)
PLEASE GREG, BE MY FRIEND! I CANT DO THIS WITHOUT YOU..i can't do it. is that really your final answer? you utterly sure? because you cant turn back...

Bunny (o2)
I want you as a friend. they go together.

Bunny (o2)
Promise me?

Bunny (o2)
Im about ten minutes away. if you say no, im going straight back out. btw not sure if you care, i have my first exam tomorrow x

Bunny (o2)
I was at the tracks. it helps me to think.

Bunny (o2)
Yes. Why?

Bunny (o2)
Im at home. will you be my friend please? x

I also forgot that she mentioned to me that her mum use to beat her because she was an alcoholic but i'm not sure if she was lying just to get sympathy off me.

She sent me more saying how she was so close of commit suicide by jumping off a bridge and cutting her wrists.

Today though, after trying to sort things out, she ended up becoming best friends with a lad called Nick that got his friend to treat her like ****. She knew what nick was doing and everything and i still don't know how she could be friends with him.

Also her friend 'Tyler' apparently treats her like **** and gets her in trouble.

Another thing that gets to me is the friends that introduced me to her also was trying to hit on her when i was dating her. When i went up to see her with a mate called Joe. They both got drunk and Joe came into our hotel room. I was sleeping on the bed with her and Joe crawled into bed (OUR BED) and Joe started feeling her up, she was awoken by him when he took her hand and started 'jacking himself off with her hand'.

I awoke during the morning, like at 4 when she and joe went for a 'cigarette'. I waited for their return but joe didn't come back, he went to his hotel room. She then mentioned to me that Joe did all this stuff and everything and i was pissed off like max. How he got in was beyond me, possible by her letting him in to do this type of stuff. Fucking cheater.

I'll keep you up to date when i feel like not killing myself.

 

[Tyler]

Hey Raff.
Im in need of some advice.
Right here goes.

I've got this paper round right, where i earn

 

[xKathieee]

Hey Raff.
Im in need of some advice.
Right here goes.

I've got this paper round right, where i earn

 

[Tyler]

Thanks for the advice Kathie.
My friends, seem to all just find like

 

[JC/Raiden]

Here is last night's text messages which she sent me. I don't save my outgoing text messages so yeah.

Spoiler

Bunny (o2)
Tell me you love me. Oh god please. I cant go without that.

Bunny (o2)
Thank you greg. so much. in time too.

Bunny (o2)
Okay i will. im sorry for being a whore.

Bunny (o2)
I need you. il fall apart greg. dont do this to me. i wont live without you. please. im begging.

Bunny (o2)
I wish i could undo it. you said your my best friend :'( i refuse to live without you. i love you.

Bunny (o2)
Il send that 20 quid, will you be my friend then?

Bunny (o2)
I dont want or need the game. its you i need. dont make me live my life alone. i have ended contact with him and tyler thats why he emailed you. greg. please.

Bunny (o2)
I dont want too. i want you. i dont need anyone like i do with you. please. i cant beg much more. i wont last long with you. il have nothing. oh god please greg.

Bunny (o2)
Take me back as a friend. he gets me in trouble. please. (meaning tyler)

Bunny (o2)
No. ill go home if it will make you be my friend again. (blackmail) and he makes me upset you, like in the past. (no he doesn't lmao)

Bunny (o2)
PLEASE GREG, BE MY FRIEND! I CANT DO THIS WITHOUT YOU..i can't do it. is that really your final answer? you utterly sure? because you cant turn back...

Bunny (o2)
I want you as a friend. they go together.

Bunny (o2)
Promise me?

Bunny (o2)
Im about ten minutes away. if you say no, im going straight back out. btw not sure if you care, i have my first exam tomorrow x

Bunny (o2)
I was at the tracks. it helps me to think.

Bunny (o2)
Yes. Why?

Bunny (o2)
Im at home. will you be my friend please? x

I also forgot that she mentioned to me that her mum use to beat her because she was an alcoholic but i'm not sure if she was lying just to get sympathy off me.

She sent me more saying how she was so close of commit suicide by jumping off a bridge and cutting her wrists.

Today though, after trying to sort things out, she ended up becoming best friends with a lad called Nick that got his friend to treat her like ****. She knew what nick was doing and everything and i still don't know how she could be friends with him.

Also her friend 'Tyler' apparently treats her like **** and gets her in trouble.

Another thing that gets to me is the friends that introduced me to her also was trying to hit on her when i was dating her. When i went up to see her with a mate called Joe. They both got drunk and Joe came into our hotel room. I was sleeping on the bed with her and Joe crawled into bed (OUR BED) and Joe started feeling her up, she was awoken by him when he took her hand and started 'jacking himself off with her hand'.

I awoke during the morning, like at 4 when she and joe went for a 'cigarette'. I waited for their return but joe didn't come back, he went to his hotel room. She then mentioned to me that Joe did all this stuff and everything and i was pissed off like max. How he got in was beyond me, possible by her letting him in to do this type of stuff. Fucking cheater.

I'll keep you up to date when i feel like not killing myself.

No matter how much you try to figure out a girl like this it just doesn't happen, simply because there mind fucks so your thoughts are full of question marks. You've told me how often she lies to you, and shes even cheated on you (as good as) but I've never seen a girl beg like that before to get somebody back. It's actually difficult not to take her seriously because of how strong her plea is.

After saying that though when it boils down to it, it really doesn't matter. Because a girl like this just does you no good at all what good is a relationship if you spend half of it trying to figure out what shes up to or whether shes lieing to you about something such as where she's been the night before etc.

I honestly believe the smartest thing you can do if you don't let your feelings for her get in your way is just to break contact with her for good. Change your number it will make it much easier. Once you start putting the effort in to moving on it becomes much easier, its just taking that first step.

Hey Raff.
Im in need of some advice.
Right here goes.

I've got this paper round right, where i earn